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How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 3:03pm On Apr 16, 2019
Hi everyone, there’s this sweet girl I met in my place of work, mine is directly opposite her own place of work and her father owns the business.
It all started last year after she finished her NYSC, I got attracted to her though I have been crushing on her any time she comes back from school then but wasn’t ready to tell her not until this year I asked for her number which she gave to me, we started talking on phone and she would come to greet me when she comes to work so I asked her out one Sunday and she came we had some conversation and I told her I like her and would love to date her but she said it won’t be able to work since she can’t stay for long here( she’s planning for masters at another state). I didn’t give up on because I already made up my mind she’s mine so I started following her like before and I asked her out for the second which she came and we had a wonderful time though no signs were there so I continued to follow her, to cut the story short she accepted to date me in an usual way while we were standing on road.
The problem now is she is not like other regular Nigeria lady, many things don’t trip her and I was very much concerned about that because we were not flowing the way I wanted, one day we were discussing and she told me she has been trying to know if our relationship will work but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist though I have been thinking about that too I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down. There has been an improvement though I NEED AN ADVICE ON HOW I CAN WIN HER HEART FULLY.
She will relocate for her masters soon and I won’t like to lose her, she’s very dear to me.
Advice needed please
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by SageMK: 3:41pm On Apr 16, 2019
Only a good dìck can rewire the brain of a feminist.

On a serious note, feminist or not she is still a woman.
That fact doesn't change at all.
Just be yourself and treat her well.
You don't need to change.

Don't complicate things. Stick to the basic stuffs.
Send her good morning and night messages.
Take her out for a fun and build memories.
Steal kisses when you get the chance.

Good luck!!
*Grabs Vaseline and walks away.

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by fayded(m): 3:42pm On Apr 16, 2019
you can't. Simple

you guys may be "dating" buh she ain't feeling you, bro.
she's trying to, buh she's not.
when she starts feeling you, all this feminist talk and "things don't trip me" bullshii would die off.

oh and also remove ur heart from her, when she goes to another state for masters.. chances are that she will cheat.

I've said my own

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2019
It's a terrible diseases you can't handle. It requires a full dose of humility
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 3:49pm On Apr 16, 2019
SageMK:
Only a good dìck can rewire the brain of a feminist.

On a serious note, feminist or not she is still a woman.
That fact doesn't change at all.
Just be yourself and treat her well.
You don't need to change.

Don't complicate things. Stick to the basic stuffs.
Send her good morning and night messages.
Take her out for a fun and build memories.
Steal kisses when you get the chance.

Good luck!!
*Grabs Vaseline and walks away.
Thanks but that good dick though, am not in for that
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 3:54pm On Apr 16, 2019
fayded:
you can't. Simple

you guys may be "dating" buh she ain't feeling you, bro.
she's trying to, buh she's not.
when she starts feeling you, all this feminist talk and "things don't trip me" bullshii would die off.

oh and also remove ur heart from her, when she goes to another state for masters.. chances are that she will cheat.

I've said my own
Bro, she’s not an easy type to get easily accept if she loves you first, I can score myself in wooing women but she gave me tough time though she’s responding to treatment � but I still need to understand more about feminist stuffs
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:35pm On Apr 16, 2019
Make i help you small sha. Feminists love intelligent men, so you gotta be smart in your dealings with her. Feminists love romantic men, surprise her with nice gifts, take her to a beautiful place, etc, she's gonna feel good to be swept over her feet. Feminists love men who are cool, ie don't give her too many rules, respect her personality. Some men are afraid of feminists, bt Dont let anyone deceive you, a feminist who is in love values and respects her man, as long as the man understands her. What's the big deal about her travelling for masters? some far distance relationships do work. Most importantly, get a nice body spray if you don't have one already cuz most women love men who smell good.

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:51pm On Apr 16, 2019
Forget feminist matter.

Give her vitamin D.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Agritech(m): 5:01pm On Apr 16, 2019
norris123:
Hi everyone, there’s this sweet girl I met in my place of work, mine is directly opposite her own place of work and her father owns the business.
It all started last year after she finished her NYSC, I got attracted to her though I have been crushing on her any time she comes back from school then but wasn’t ready to tell her not until this year I asked for her number which she gave to me, we started talking on phone and she would come to greet me when she comes to work so I asked her out one Sunday and she came we had some conversation and I told her I like her and would love to date her but she said it won’t be able to work since she can’t stay for long here( she’s planning for masters at another state). I didn’t give up on because I already made up my mind she’s mine so I started following her like before and I asked her out for the second which she came and we had a wonderful time though no signs were there so I continued to follow her, to cut the story short she accepted to date me in an usual way while we were standing on road.
The problem now is she is not like other regular Nigeria lady, many things don’t trip her and I was very much concerned about that because we were not flowing the way I wanted, one day we were discussing and she told me she has been trying to know if our relationship will work but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist though I have been thinking about that too I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down. There has been an improvement though I NEED AN ADVICE ON HOW I CAN WIN HER HEART FULLY.
She will relocate for her masters soon and I won’t like to lose her, she’s very dear to me.
Advice needed please

Work on the bolded
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Agritech(m): 5:03pm On Apr 16, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Make i help you small sha. Feminists love intelligent men, so you gotta be smart in your dealings with her. Feminists love romantic men, surprise her with nice gifts, take her to a beautiful place, etc, she's gonna feel good to be swept over her feet. Feminists love men who are cool, ie don't give her too many rules, respect her personality. Some men are afraid of feminists, bt Dont let anyone deceive you, a feminist who is in love values and respects her man, as long as the man understands her. What's the big deal about her travelling for masters? some far distance relationships do work. Most importantly, get a nice body spray if you don't have one already cuz most women love men who smell good.

Lilmiss even if he does all you said, it won't work.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 5:56pm On Apr 16, 2019
kaorama:
It's a terrible diseases you can't handle. It requires a full dose of humility
I sweard am bro, I have done many things I have not done before because of her but I love her much
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 6:07pm On Apr 16, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Make i help you small sha. Feminists love intelligent men, so you gotta be smart in your dealings with her. Feminists love romantic men, surprise her with nice gifts, take her to a beautiful place, etc, she's gonna feel good to be swept over her feet. Feminists love men who are cool, ie don't give her too many rules, respect her personality. Some men are afraid of feminists, bt Dont let anyone deceive you, a feminist who is in love values and respects her man, as long as the man understands her. What's the big deal about her travelling for masters? some far distance relationships do work. Most importantly, get a nice body spray if you don't have one already cuz most women love men who smell good.
I do care about her and have tried surprising her with a gown I saw while passing through the street but she said we will go and see it together, I didn’t want to buy the one that won’t fit her. Concerning looking good, I think I do look and am doing excellently well in my business which she appreciates. I can take her to beautiful places but the problem she has is time, we all have time on Sunday and some Sunday she won’t have chance being the only girl in the house now
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by lilmax(m): 6:17pm On Apr 16, 2019
it take 6 days for hoes

it takes 3 days to get a feminist, if you have sense to plot your graph

but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist

lol


I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down

wrongest move you will ever make when it comes to feminists grin

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 6:19pm On Apr 16, 2019
lilmax:
it take 6 days for hoes

it takes 3 days to get a feminist, if you have sense to plot your graph

but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist

lol


I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down

wrongest move you will ever make when it comes to feminists grin

Then what do I suppose to do? Tell me something bro.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:10pm On Apr 16, 2019
If feminist is also the only girl then you gotta very patient.
norris123:

I do care about her and have tried surprising her with a gown I saw while passing through the street but she said we will go and see it together, I didn’t want to buy the one that won’t fit her. Concerning looking good, I think I do look and am doing excellently well in my business which she appreciates. I can take her to beautiful places but the problem she has is time, we all have time on Sunday and some Sunday she won’t have chance being the only girl in the house now
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by DeSepiero(m): 7:45pm On Apr 16, 2019
Don't bleeping go emotional - use your head all the time!!!

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Teel012(m): 9:58pm On Apr 16, 2019
Give her some space, stop calling all d time, better still call at a particular time for a week or two straight everyday and gist with her, make her laugh on the phone, then stop and wait for her to call you, that way d emotions will set in gradually.
But if she doesn't call you for up to a week without you calling her, maybe she's not meant for you.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:15pm On Apr 16, 2019
norris123:
Hi everyone, there’s this sweet girl I met in my place of work, mine is directly opposite her own place of work and her father owns the business.
It all started last year after she finished her NYSC, I got attracted to her though I have been crushing on her any time she comes back from school then but wasn’t ready to tell her not until this year I asked for her number which she gave to me, we started talking on phone and she would come to greet me when she comes to work so I asked her out one Sunday and she came we had some conversation and I told her I like her and would love to date her but she said it won’t be able to work since she can’t stay for long here( she’s planning for masters at another state). I didn’t give up on because I already made up my mind she’s mine so I started following her like before and I asked her out for the second which she came and we had a wonderful time though no signs were there so I continued to follow her, to cut the story short she accepted to date me in an usual way while we were standing on road.
The problem now is she is not like other regular Nigeria lady, many things don’t trip her and I was very much concerned about that because we were not flowing the way I wanted, one day we were discussing and she told me she has been trying to know if our relationship will work but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist though I have been thinking about that too I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down. There has been an improvement though I NEED AN ADVICE ON HOW I CAN WIN HER HEART FULLY.
She will relocate for her masters soon and I won’t like to lose her, she’s very dear to me.
Advice needed please


Mumu!!! She's mind fvcking you...!!! Ediot, cant u see d handwriting on the wall
I wonder why Guys like OP usually fall other Guys' hand. Now wey u know say she b feminist, ur mumu mind wont tell u to back off. Na when u don spend money on her later realise say na format she dey give u, u go con open another #MUMU Thread for NL dey ask for advice. Is like u are MAD abi

My advice:
Break up with her ASAP and get urself another Woman.


Mean while, how do u want ur lightning Anyways manage dis 40MW first

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Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by JohnDuke101: 10:26pm On Apr 16, 2019
norris123:
Hi everyone, there’s this sweet girl I met in my place of work, mine is directly opposite her own place of work and her father owns the business.
It all started last year after she finished her NYSC, I got attracted to her though I have been crushing on her any time she comes back from school then but wasn’t ready to tell her not until this year I asked for her number which she gave to me, we started talking on phone and she would come to greet me when she comes to work so I asked her out one Sunday and she came we had some conversation and I told her I like her and would love to date her but she said it won’t be able to work since she can’t stay for long here( she’s planning for masters at another state). I didn’t give up on because I already made up my mind she’s mine so I started following her like before and I asked her out for the second which she came and we had a wonderful time though no signs were there so I continued to follow her, to cut the story short she accepted to date me in an usual way while we were standing on road.
The problem now is she is not like other regular Nigeria lady, many things don’t trip her and I was very much concerned about that because we were not flowing the way I wanted, one day we were discussing and she told me she has been trying to know if our relationship will work but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist though I have been thinking about that too I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down. There has been an improvement though I NEED AN ADVICE ON HOW I CAN WIN HER HEART FULLY.
She will relocate for her masters soon and I won’t like to lose her, she’s very dear to me.
Advice needed please

Do you know her definition of a feminist? Many people who claim to be feminist don't even understand what it means.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by sacx: 11:24pm On Apr 16, 2019
She's just looking for an excuse to lay you off, and it will be better for both your sanity. Stop going out of your way to please anybody. Whoever wants to stay will stay. If you continue at this pace, you may end up committing suicide when she eventually leaves. Now place you hand on your head and shat 'God forbid'! grin
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Sierusvirus(m): 8:28am On Apr 17, 2019
Never you waste your precious time with a feminist rather channel your time to something else that is useful and will surely generate revenue.

She has the right to still remain a feminist or if she’s fed up then she can go hug the transformer to better her life.

A man should never think of winning a feminist, when you have better things to think about. Use your time well guys.
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 9:11am On Apr 17, 2019
Teel012:
Give her some space, stop calling all d time, better still call at a particular time for a week or two straight everyday and gist with her, make her laugh on the phone, then stop and wait for her to call you, that way d emotions will set in gradually.
But if she doesn't call you for up to a week without you calling her, maybe she's not meant for you.
She calls now unlike before, I think she actually loves me but that feminist thing is holding her back, we have had our first kiss sha
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 9:15am On Apr 17, 2019
Budex40:



Mumu!!! She's mind fvcking you...!!! Ediot, cant u see d handwriting on the wall
I wonder why Guys like OP usually fall other Guys' hand. Now wey u know say she b feminist, ur mumu mind wont tell u to back off. Na when u don spend money on her later realise say na format she dey give u, u go con open another #MUMU Thread for NL dey ask for advice. Is like u are MAD abi

My advice:
Break up with her ASAP and get urself another Woman.


Mean while, how do u want ur lightning Anyways manage dis 40MW first
Oga, can’t you advice someone without insulting him? She doesn’t need my money okay, in fact she doesn’t bother anyone of her problem. Are you okay now?
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by norris123(m): 9:20am On Apr 17, 2019
sacx:
She's just looking for an excuse to lay you off, and it will be better for both your sanity. Stop going out of your way to please anybody. Whoever wants to stay will stay. If you continue at this pace, you may end up committing suicide when she eventually leaves. Now place you hand on your head and shat 'God forbid'! grin
Lol... commit suicide? For a woman, hmmm they never born that person
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 17, 2019
norris123:

Oga, can’t you advice someone without insulting him? She doesn’t need my money okay, in fact she doesn’t bother anyone of her problem. Are you okay now?

Did u just say she doesnt need your Money ?!!!
This is the Oldest Trick in d Book man. Wake up !!!!! Wake the fvck Up.....!!!!!!!!
Re: How To Successfully Win A Feminist Heart. Good Advice Needed Please by Mcy56(f): 1:35pm On Apr 17, 2019
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