theres this 54yrs old man asking for my hand in marriage.he is ma mother's age mate nd age gap is wide.pls i need ur sincere advise.wat u wil do if it was you.

Well i tink age is just a numba. I will advise 2 go ahead n marry him.

Inked_Nerd:

Like yorke said, age is just a number. If you care about the man then go for it. If the difference in age bothers you too much then leave the man so he can find someone else who wouldn't be bothered by that.

i think this is the advice u

THE FIRST QUESTION IS:

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM?

Kelvinj:

i think this is the advice u

Huh? Advice that you what?

We know age is just a number but 54 is far too much,i wont advice u to go ahead unless u are above 38

Is he just some random dude that proposed to you? Or have you all had a relationship? What do you feel about him? Do you love one another?

I ask these questions because. You made it sound like he was just some guy that proposed to you out of nowhere.

missagbaa:

theres this 54yrs old man asking for my hand in marriage.he is ma mother's age mate nd age gap is wide.pls i need your sincere advise.wat u wil do if it was you.

is there any need to advise you?

missagbaa:

theres this 54yrs old man asking for my hand in marriage.he is ma mother's age mate nd age gap is wide.pls i need your sincere advise.wat u wil do if it was you.

the man just see u for road wan marry u abi?
wetin una don do together?
u just remember the bobo age now
by the way how many people your age don ask 4 yr hand?

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER? Wrong quotation from white folks some people always use to deceive themselves in counterfeit love and before u realize, you'll find out an older man shovin his durty dik in ur daughter's poosie that can make her age fast.

Poster,

To be sincere you need a man who'll lead u by age with just 3 or 4yrs thats cool not to the extent of your parent's age ew! thats just too much and don't get carried away with what he has just to indulge u into marriage well it also depend on u cos u sounds shows as if they trying to force u its not your intention to.

pray and seek from an experts good luck

we never had any relationship,didnt knw him from adam.he is ma dad's sch.mate.came 2 d house one christmas nd since then,he has been disturbin me.we havnt seen ourselves after d xmas of 2008,cos he lives in america.

Oh my. In that case, you should probably stay away from him. You need let him know that the interest he has in you is not the same feelins you have towards him.

go for deliverance

Personally o, I mean personally, I CAN'T DATE not to talk of MARRY someone that is old enough to be my mother or father, mba, I can't, not foranything in the world.
if I say age is nothing but numbers, not a diffrence of more than 10 years at most, mba,
remember , in my tribe, ijebu, they will say, he who marries an old man will automatically be the one to be a widow and buy the coffin, ofcourse there are still so many young at heart, handsome and responsible men out there, can't marry my father and call him husband or darling ooooo
That is just personally

Is he rich?

Funny topic!

I think you're more drawn to the fact that he stays in america than his age. How in Gods name would you ever think of marrying someone who's ur dads classmate and mothers age mate? How old are you anyways?

Age is nothing but a number my foot! That phrase is just bullocks! Age is much more than a number. Who are we deceiving?

If you're drawn to him cause of his goodies den go on and enjoy yourself, bear d consequences and share d experience

Missagbaa,

Ur dad's school mate? funny and irritating, so ppl still involve themselves in stuffs like at this point in time? Pls go for counselling there are alot of reasons why you shouldn't even think of this with ur own upcoming marriage but its so unfortunate i don't have the appetite to type much.

pls ignore anybody that let you know "AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER" they're ur enemies nd its d same white man quote dat says "A FOOL AT 40 IS A FOOL FOREVER" ask urself why 40 upward why not everybody? They only use that to convince immature ppl to go astray nd u might end up being second nigeria wife left-over and many more cos do not expect someone u don't know his lifestyle in america to tell you real fact about him "abi na d moni nd america dey shak u?" cos i still can't understand u yet for posting stuffs like this here, abeg make i know your mind.

If it was moi, i'll make damn sure he's damn rich. Something at least must complement for the other.

thanks y'all.at least my conscience will be at rest.honestly,i dont want 2 b bianca nd ojukwu d second.my aunty thinks its not a bad idea if i marry him.i just wantd 2 hear opinion from a neutral person/persons.thanks once again y'all

sexylogan:

Is he rich?

He is in America

I would not marry it because it might end up badly for you.

Once you come here you will have to get a job,
when you start working you will start meeting American Girls,
They will introduce you to American parting,
you will want to party because of your age,
he will not be able to party because of his age
there will be lots of fighting in your home
This will end badly.

wat a question. do wat u want to do, ur mother age?

Sistawoman,

You're right thats why she needs a man in her age criteria to make her feel like a young lady. Those old nigerian men living in america as also had this similar experience in the states dats why some end up marrying their wives here nd finance all what she need but not taking their wives with them back to america.