Have Been Molested, Insulted, It’s time To End it all, Twitter User attempting Suicide

This is the touching story of a girl who has been job hunting for years, after getting the job its either she sleep with the bosses or get fired. She has taken to Twitter to share her story before taking her life. Many of her twitter friends are begging her to reconsider her decision but she’s yet to give her final response.

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Am the Girl Nobody Knows Until She Commit Suicide

I opened a Twitter account today to let d world knows my Sorrow and what have been through, what am still facing & it’s probably going to b my last.. Am sorry to whoever my death may affected am not selfish I just want to be at peace and this world couldn’t give me that Been Beautiful with Good physique is a Curse Rather than Blessing.. I know some people might argue it ..but you aren’t in my shoe you don’t know what have been through and still don’t know what am going through I shouldn’t be writing this but I couldn’t hold it anymore, i grew up from a polygamous family where everybody pretend to love me, I didn’t let that hold me back, I start to think of what to do to make the family be proud of me. i started hunting for job, I didn’t got a on time I was so frustrated that I had to drink kerosene to take up my life but it failed me , I got depressed everyday but God said I’m not done with you yet. I got a call from a long time friend, he’s older than me he promise to offer a laundry job I was so happy because at that moment I don’t mind any job. I still believe in myself but then I have a man in my life which I was the one feeding him, anytime I receive my salary I will share it into two he will take part and I will hold the remaining, one day I got a call from him that he needed money to clear his goods on the water. I don’t have any dime, then I use to have my dad ATM card with me , the only thought that came to my mind was to withdraw his money and borrow this guy, so i withdraw 1m for this guy and it back fired.

i had to run out of house, that old man was hopeless cos that was the last change in his account… I started scouting in a friend house for a while not until one of my aunt call me, and she said to me if i want to be a better person i need to go beg my father we went there together all the the family members were there, I was so ashamed of myself, i was in front of people who never liked me… dad talk and he forgave me, I still couldn’t stay with him due to the shame. Still in my friends house managing myself, begging people for money to survive along the line I got a call from my ex Bf wife and she told me she’s my ex Bf wife, she said i should stop giving Ayomiku money that he has a wife and a kid, I cursed him and moved on with my life. it doesn’t stop me from loving again… I still keep hunting for another job not until I got a job closer to my house in a law firm, wow I was happy again after a year of depression, I went home to share the news with my dad and he was happy and told me to move back home..

the shame still couldn’t let me do that… That is when i moved to Ajah with a friend, tho it wasn’t easy for me going to work from Ajah to Yaba but I still mange myself to get to work… I started working with With Lawyer Mubarak he gave me a phone sometimes money and a office of my own this really make happy, I keep on working with him so one day he came to my office to molest me, I told him to stop that I wasn’t here for that… he said i put you in this office to date you, that really broke my heart. I couldn’t stop the job cos i don’t wanna go back to where I started from and no money to feed myself so i let him molest me..anytime we go for meeting instead of him to drop me at home he will take me to his house to rape me, I will cry and said God this isn’t what I wished for, i still keep on moving he continue doing that, not until one day I said to myself this has to stop, he beat the he’ll out of me, and still rape me in his office, Chased me out and tell the receptionist not to open the door for me again. I got home everybody saw wat happened, my sis went there to fight him but she couldn’t do it alone, we weren’t able to do anything to him so we left him for God to judge, A friend of mine told me to expose him online but I wasn’t a social media person I have Facebook and IG accounts I hardly run and more so I was so scared Cos that man was a lawyer I would have mentioned his company name but I don’t have evidence. The evidence I had were the people who witnessed the whole but they won’t talk and the pictures of my battered body that was destroyed with my phone. I continue with my life again moved on as usual, I didn’t let that hold me back, I started going from one interview to other, I got another job with a real estate (Name withheld) firm the salary wasn’t much but I can’t stay without working nobody to feed me, so I took the job.

the job wasn’t easy cos I was the only one working as marketer, sales girl and errand girl but i still take it like that cos there is nobody to feed nor cloth me, he make a move too but i disrespected him the second month I was sacked just because I refused to be molested. I said to myself Abiola this just a phase, of trial from God I became stronger none of my family knew I was sacked, I will wake up everyday to pretend I have a job, i started moving from one places to the other, I don’t have any destination, always move from one buses to other, sometimes I will stay in a mosques or on the street of Lagos Always move from one buses to another I do that for 3 months, then I got a call from a Big e-commerce Hr, I took the job too, i started hunting for client, cos in that Company if you don’t make sales you won’t get salary, I started remembering the people I knew that has business some became my very good client while some still insist on sleeping with me before they could work with me, I still keep on working, sometimes I will work with a colleague or alone, so many disappointments, still don’t let that hold me back I keep on moving but now i’m fed of life…. Nobody wanna help me without sleeping with me despite having my job, people don’t care if you are hurt or not…. some cared little but not just enough…. sometimes suicide is the answer to life. Gbenga Oladipupo is the name of the second Boss that sacked me Cos I refused sleeping with him. Now everywhere go They insist on getting me laid, how am I gonna survive this life ..I know both of them will come after me for mentioning their Names but whichever way Death is still final answer.. Either they do it or I take my life by myself. How I wished we have lots of Female CEO’s in this country it would have been a different thing entirely.. that’s why am trying to do my best to reach the top so I could support my other females who’s facing this same problem both at home and in the Hands of Stupid Male Bosses, But I can’t fulfilled it without me getting Laid by these Fools .. Am tired this is the End I can’t continue anymore. Mum am sorry, and Am sorry to My Old Dad.. I want peace and I can’t have it in this world .. have suffered a lot especially in the hands of Men Am Abiola Waheedah Balogun a girl you don’t know until she’s gone . am on the Brink .. this gon be my last tweet and Those Heartless people You’ve won but remember their is KARMA I prayed it will hit you hard from Generation to Generation ..you’ll never know peace.

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Please moderators kindly move this to FP, who knows if her helper maybe on this forum.

Thanks

She should do it yes she can.

Please biola do not take your life .

The truth is life is hard not just for you and not just for females but also for males and no one can claim monopoly to the harshness life dishes.

Another truth is that those who face life's hardest situations and are able to overcome, become generally stronger and better people ...I saw an advert of a beer that quotes "Extra bitter for the bold"

Believe me, put your faith and trust in God and abandon the help of men/women, be patient and remember to always work on yourself first as others have their own challenges (it's not all about you, if you die the world will continue to run and someone else takes your place). you just might be surprise the level of mediocrity you are operating on while God has big responsibilities for you here on earth.

finally I pray you find peace within (the world can't give you a perfect peace, whether there are more female CEO or not) and that God directs you in all your ways , also I pray your eyes are open to the darkness in your life and light shines on your path , so your treadings will be righteous . amen.

Let say the truth where the truth is she is quite beautiful, but i believe she can sue....I am even surprise a lawyer could be that stupid to be molesting his workers that is enough to de bar him.Pele Abiola well you have come out of your closest that is the first step,oya Lagos State Government over to you,do the needful.