@poster, girl do not allow anyone to take u for a fool, a sticth in time saves nine. If that guy trully loves u he wouldn't be playing games with other girls. pray God to give u someone who will trully love you, stop wasting ur time with him

Op, shey your fren ready for. . ."Na your pikin first beat my pikin?" Or "Mama Onome, com warn your pikin make e no dey beat my pikin again or else, me n u go chuk leg for 1 leggins?" Ask your fren if she's ready for all doz drama, n if she say's yes, den ask her to carry on with d guy! Buh make she know say, while she with her rival (d 2nd wyf) go dey throw punch to eachother inside house, dia husband go just go inside room go wia him short nikka n t-shirt, commot for house go find d small gurl wey him dey take pass tym for outside b4 him enter house Den your fren with her rival go dey digam inside 1 side of d leggins, dia pikin go dey d other leggins dey fight "voltron" too!

I hope say your from dey watch, n also have d Xpirience of "FUJI HOUSE OF COMMOTION?"

babe just move on and let him treat his Bleep up.

@ Sirt

What can I say . . . I like being realistic!

MOBO444:

When you fail to do your work, another lady did it for you.

bunkum, hogwash, u ar a disaster that has happened. NEXT TIME, THINK B4 U WRITE

@poster, move on with your life, there ar better days ahead!

You really need to dump his ass, ur bf is a jerk. I hate it when a guy acts stupid, sleeps around, has the nerve to leave evidence behind (get someone pregnant) and come back and talk about marriage

If he was serious from the beginning, he wont be screwing around. Cheating is not acceptable in any form, whether its from the man or woman's side.

He is just a bf, get over it and move. Free dis guy like a bad habit. Staying with a cheat is like cancer, it eats u up slowly and kills u.

Drop the guy jo. a word is enough for the wise

Ok that mean the other prego lady will be JUST his BABY mama?

Congrat! Don't leave him. Try to adjust to the situation. Their was an adage that say: the devil you have known for long is better that the angel you have not see. Pele tie

If your destiny is polygamous family is better you accept your faith or you pray toward it, what if the guy has gotten a child before and did not marry the woman would you have marry the guy. Anyway, my candid opinion is to ask your God the right place for you, because some have made a wrong step and ended up suffering for it, if age is not on yur side you need to think twice, some ladies are there looking for some1 to give them child and not marriage, because they know guys run away from marriage. More so, many ladies of nowadays are ready to date a married man, it happen everywhere, the worst is in some offices. Pray tell God to show u the way don't just jump into conclusion.

let him go, he belongs to another woman

This is from a close friend. Your candid advise is needed plzzz.




what do i do? My boyfriend has impregnated another lady but he said it is me that he wants to marry?

what were you to him when he was considering impregnating someone else?

dont condem the guy, do u know if the present girlfriend have a womb?

A smart girl has already help her out maybe its because u fail to do your work like they said.

Whores aren't exactly smart,

Poster, tell the girl she do better wiping herself off and STARTING FRESH, REAL TALK!

U 've to ask urself, Can u cope with a polygamous familly?

i guess thats where you have to start from. its a tough decision though. i would ask most people to walk away but sometimes things still work. just dont know how to tell from the start, those that will work and those that will not.

Are u 12

Why the cry
He is your boyfriend for crying out loud.
He is not your husband, so what are u still waiting for.
If u wait a little longer, he will get you too pregnant.
the young man is just SAMPLING I think.

Bad market, move on with your life

I'd have luv'd 2 tell ya 2 move on but the question is to what? honestly the next MF U meet might be worse 'n' watchu got now. There's hardly 1 guy I know who is content with 1 just saying

@op: CONGRATULATIONS to your BF, he impreginated the other girl to prove to you that he is man enough and capable of making a woman pregnant. Now it is over to you to prove yourself,

I considered not advising cos I tink a word is enough 4 d wise but please even when U no wise, RUN RUN RUN& FLY. Don't allow him sweet talk U 2 any rubbish.God wont 4give U if U make d mistake OF MARRYING HIM.

One man can impregnate as many women as he can get to, while if a woman had multiple husbands it would still take 9 months per kid. Men have a shorter lifespan than women. For population dynamics, often polygamy helps populations survive.

I have heard that the women share a sister like bond and share happily in creating a household. But in other instances it is a hierarchy where the most recently acquired wife is a slave to the rest of the wives.

@OP

grab your chance and be Mrs Somebody before its too late,

Or is your Dad manufacturing husbands? Husbands are hard to find ooo

my 2 cents

Only if common sense were common to everyone.SMH

my friends girlfriend cheated on him and then my friend asks me if he should forgive her (WE ARE TALKING ABOUT MY BESTFRIEND HERE), In rellationships you have to be careful the kind of advice you give , that your friend is asking for what to do only means she still wants to be with the guy despite the fact that he has impregnated another lady .

I have heard that women have a kinder heart and as such find it easier to forgive than guys , common where do you draw the line

1, The guy isnt your husband or fiance , he is ur BF; is this guy some super star or you are just so in love that you dont want to move on?
2, You dint catch this guy cheating , he has impregnated someone ( ok in my world if you have sex with someone without protection it has to be 2 things,either you are really stupid and randy or you really like this person ).
3, Are you also pregnant for the guy ? cos it doesnt seem to add up at all

The thing about the future is that no soothe sayer knows it , but some things are obvious e.g the marriage is going to be very trying from the start and thats without the unknown problems that come with marriages .

Babe the bottom line is that people can talk from now till tommorow,but na you know whats best for you .

Your a fool,for not opening your legs in time for him to make you pregnant,in this age and time,you think a man is yours when you have not concieved for him? Many of you ladies are still leaving in the past waiting for wedding before getting pregnant for the man you love and cherish. Keep waiting while real and serious ladies who want to settle down do the needful on your behalf.

Start afresh and look for another man,as the one pregnant has become the first wife,and can't allow you into her matrimonial home. Following one kind old and useless principle without marriage no pregnancy. Be satisfy with your principle miss PRINCIPLES

sighs LOUDLY,

WHY IS SHE STUPID BECAUSE SHE DIDNT GET KNOCKED UP? BOY I SWEAR SOME OF YALL FICKLED THAN A MOFO!

LOL! I find this really funny, in a strange way of course. My Ex-BF now of course (dated for about 7 years:-)), got someother girl preggy last year. Well he told me and of course swore that it was a one-off and a mistake and he 'loved' me and wanted us to move on, while he thought through what to do.

Well, we moved on somewhat and he ended up getting married to her (without telling me), my sister saw his wedding pictures on facebook. So I found out rudely via facebook late last year, while we were still dating.

They have a baby, I wish him well and if being true to myself and him, we did have the occasional hiccup but I just believed we were 'altar bound', whatever that means. He still rings, swearing I'm his other half, how he thinks about me, how we should meet up, I threatened to post his next message on his wifes facebook page and hes gone away, I hope for good now. It was quite bothersome:-).

So, flee from appearances of evil. You dont need a seer to tell you that. It might hurt for a while, but youd get over it. If he has the mind to sleep around now, whos to say you wont have tons of the extra children from your 'husbands' romping in future?

hey thot mobo444 was long gone and dead so he is still alive, hahahahah
i dont know why she is even giving it a thought in the first place, ?

@Echidime

U make small sence dia b'cos, d way gurls do call dia BF's dia "All N All" nowadays, u'll think dey'v been datin eachother right from wen both of 'em wia born. N now, d Op's friend is sayin "My Man" has pregnanted another gurl, n is seekin for advice if to continue with dat same guy or not! {To d gurls} A relationship of 10yrs is not guaranteed dat u'r already your BF's wyf to be. Not to talk of a gurl dat her BF pregnanted another gurl (despite promisin to marry her), Instead of her to leave him n run with d fastness of "BUGHATTI" (fastest car on earth), her friend is hia (Op) seekin for advice. Op, if u ask me, i'll say dat her freind is takin us for fool. Y didn't she go n tell her mum d story, n ask her mother if to continue with d BF or not? Den whatever her mother replies her, den she should abide to it! (of which i know she can NEVER go n ask her mother such NON-SENCE b'cos, she know's what her mum's response would be. Den y seek for an advice?

what is wrong in someone else doing what u refused to do? he is ur bf yes and someone is doing a different job for him.
pls go ahead and remain girlfriend while the other woman remains pregnant friend.
in economics, it is called distribution of labour.
in case u want me, then apply in person otherwise go ahead with him.

So?

Echidime:

Your a fool,for not opening your legs in time for him to make you pregnant,in this age and time,you think a man is yours when you have not concieved for him? Many of you ladies are still leaving in the past waiting for wedding before getting pregnant for the man you love and cherish. Keep waiting while real and serious ladies who want to settle down do the needful on your behalf.

Start afresh and look for another man,as the one pregnant has become the first wife,and can't allow you into her matrimonial home. Following one kind old and useless principle without marriage no pregnancy. Be satisfy with your principle miss PRINCIPLES

Ha ha ha! Bros, u dey vex o