ha ppl read back the thread, then u will see some unwanted plant somewhere in the compund

may the dead rest in peace in lord s name as always

Sorry to hear about your loss. May the lord be with you and give you the strength and courage to deal with this. It's got to be painful to loose someone so close and dear to you, but only god knows best.

Sorry for what happened, May the Almighty God heal yo' wound en fill you with blessings. Remember that God gives and takes away, you loved yo' fiancee but God loved her more. Accept my simpathy

My sincere sympathy .

Those that are left behind do not know what death they will die, let each one have their somber reflection.
Zimba she has gone to rest a place where there is no more pain, no more sorrow, no night, no day, no inflation, deflation anxiety.
The creator has gone to meet her maker.
Do not feel guilty, I am sure her wish and desire will be for you to move on and be happy.

@daviddylan, na wa for you o, at least you should have waited and give benefit of doubt before suggesting that he is after anything but sharing his heart, you dey leap, o mbe.

O ma se was all I could say.

I hope the cancer was not the reason you held back from marrying her; if it was it could taunt you for a while. Try to be around people. A number of people may not know the weight of the loss on you they simply discount the intimacy because you weren't married but a piece of paper is not what determines the bond you shared with someone. It happened to me and years after I still wake up and ask why even though I should have gone past asking why.

Find solace in God and please don't expect the next person you meet to fit into her shoes. She's gone; her memory should live forever with you. You may consider carrying on or supporting something she loved as a way of immortalising her.

Take heart.

Zimba

you know, Grieve for her, but DO NOT make it your responsibility in life to never forget her, and do not feel guilty to open up top someone else.

the more u keep things inside, the harder it is to ger over the event.
I am sorry for your loss, and it will take you a while to get things back to normal, and the first few months are hardest, because you have to get by without them and things they used to do, or u used to do togther.

Trust in God, and keep your head up. if you find another woman, dont be afraid to get close and open up to her, let her help you through your pain.

like some one said, The pain and emptiness will always be there, but it gets easier to deal with

First of all let me offer my condolences, may God Almighty give you the strength to bear this loss. That should also be part of your prayer that God gives you the strength to bear the loss.

Dealing with death can be difficult especially the 1st few months. Grieve in your own time and once you can do that you will have the strength to bear your loss. They say time heals, not everone agrees, but 1 thing is that you'll be able to cope better given time, especially if you can learn to come to terms with the sad even of death as part of life in itself.

God Bless.

dollyp1cute:

My sincere sympathy .

Those that are left behind do not know what death they will die, let each one have their somber reflection.
Zimba she has gone to rest a place where there is no more pain, no more sorrow, no night, no day, no inflation, deflation anxiety.
The creator has gone to meet her maker.
Do not feel guilty, I am sure her wish and desire will be for you to move on and be happy.

@daviddylan, na wa for you o, at least you should have waited and give benefit of doubt before suggesting that he is after anything but sharing his heart, you dey leap, o mbe.

You have no idea all the tales we've heard here.
The latest was a man that claimed his wife gave him AIDS and by the time we dissected his story,it was clear he was a phony he turned out to be a 419er.
This is the internet,I could claim to be more beautiful than halle berry and post a picture to prove it.

_{by the way,I do come close,I've been told}

it's so sad. i really understand what u r going 2ru. please accept my deepest sympathy.

although her memory will continue to live with u, u just have 2 move on in life and get a new relationship. i wish u all the best in life. take care of urself and look unto God 4 succour.

babyosisi:

This is the internet,I could claim to be more beautiful than halle berry and post a picture to prove it.
_{by the way,I do come close,I've been told}

Halle Berry ko, Donner summer ni , you better don't let them fool you

dollyp1cute:

Halle Berry ko, Donner summer ni , you better don't let them fool you

chei,you get bad mouth o
do you mean people may have been lying to me all this while?

post your pic and we'll tell you if they've been lying or not

why would you want to look like Halle anyways? there are lots of women who are better looking than she is imo.

I pray 4 u ,that u will find strenght to carry on.But remenber the source of Good things
The bible says," every Good and perfect Gift comes from above"Trust God His help is available for you.

Awwwwwwwwwwwww. How sad.May God sustain and guide you dear,

My cousin lost her husband after 6 months of marriage to colon cancer. He was 35 yrs young, As she wept and grieved, I stood by helpless because I had no idea what she was going through. Be strong in the Lord and everything will be fine.

~My Only Advise is Dont let the grief eat away the Precious Memories you have left of her!!


~She will live on in your Heart!!

Sorry O!

I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong. Will keep you in prayer.

pls my condolense .

I hope by now, ZIMBA has gotten over his grief. Pele.