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Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by adonismuller(m): 2:49pm On May 03, 2019 |
dominique:you always sound pained .... People like you are the ones that monitor everything their husband does and eventually lead him to cheat 7 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Sisi99: 2:50pm On May 03, 2019 |
hmmm |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by PeachtreeReside(f): 2:51pm On May 03, 2019 |
Her advise that she is sharing and worked for her is now a problem? It's her opinion O ooo. If you worry yourself about hubby's whereabouts, you will die of hypertension is what she is saying . Find a business to do. Get a hobby too Get great supportive friends to hang out with Focus on your children Look good too. She has lasted in the holy institution for 29years so she knows what she is saying .... 9 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Sirpascal007(m): 2:52pm On May 03, 2019 |
Oyindidi: Funny u ...pls I will like u to monitor me ooh I don't mind,men needs to be constantly checked by there partner's. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:52pm On May 03, 2019 |
itspzpics: Since its not nude pictures abi? |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Sisi99: 2:52pm On May 03, 2019 |
hmmmm |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:53pm On May 03, 2019 |
Oyindidi: Good Lady, not like that @Dominique spitting sand! |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by iamfromlagos(f): 2:54pm On May 03, 2019 |
PeachtreeReside:You couldn't have said it any better. 1 Like |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by PHIPEX(m): 2:54pm On May 03, 2019 |
This guy forgot there is no universal formula for marriage, he said a women should walk away when cheated on, what advice does he have on how she and the kids will survive? Who told him he himself is giving the right the advice? He thinks feminism and human right is akin to a happy marriage, plenty theories no practical experience. See what Tonto has turned to while upholding human right. 3 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Elliot2(m): 2:56pm On May 03, 2019 |
I have once told a story here about a couple who got the award for the most peaceful union in my area. That union was between a chronic alcoholic and talkative and a housewife whose combination is marvelling. There was virtually no one the man did not fight with: from the bar attendants to neighbors at home. But despite that nuisance,there was no day neighbours saw PR heard them fight. The secret was "understanding". |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Martartins(m): 2:58pm On May 03, 2019 |
The women folk endures so much, yet so much is still expected from them. I stand with respect and dignity for the women folk. And I think Buchi made more sense. I hate randy married men...... 5 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 03, 2019 |
dominique: As far as marriage is "consigned" the Man is actually doing u a favour if he marries you. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Nobody: 3:07pm On May 03, 2019 |
See d mumu Guy, somebori's marriage lasted for over 2Decades and u think she's spitting CRAP abi ? #Smh |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by roland2rule(m): 3:09pm On May 03, 2019 |
Online activist I already warn my GF never to take advice from the SM because that will bring an end to the happy relationship. Live your life the way you understand it... If your principle is bringing you happiness and progress, build more on the foundation and don't go and be looking for stupid challenge. When you are successful, people always want to apply your principle to their life hoping that it will work for them but they have forgotten you can't build your emotion and body system on someone's else principle..... Madam spent 20 years + in her marriage, and aunty feminist thinks it's easy... When you understand your partner, everything work best for you.... _______ SOMEONE SAID SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE ANOTHER ONE SAID, THE EARLIER YOU START, THE BETTER FOR YOU AND THE FASTER YOU WIN. ______ They were both successful in their ways because they understood their body system and the goals they pursuing... Now, you are confused on whom to follow in the two .... Can you combine the two quotes for a single mission ? My brother, My sister, Know yourself, Understand your partner and make your relationship work out... 2 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by godlyguy(m): 3:30pm On May 03, 2019 |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Reptyle(m): 3:38pm On May 03, 2019 |
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Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by dominique(f): 3:41pm On May 03, 2019 |
SEONaijaExpert: That she survived for 29 years doesn't mean the rest of her other counterparts were that lucky. A lot of women are dying in miserable marriages because they're taking to advice such as this. We need to stop giving men the impression that keeping the sanctity of marriage lies squarely on the woman. We need to stop enabling and excusing irresponsibility in the name of "men are polygamous in nature". I've been married for almost a decade myself and the first few years and the first few years were rocky because of our different standpoints on marriage. At a point the marriage was on the verge of colapse and I was about to move on. But he with time he learnt marriage is about mutual respect and understanding and I also learnt not to fight back all the time. So we've reached a compromise and we've been living peacefully since. Strength of a marriage should not be about how much bullshit a woman can stomach from a man for so long. You can be married for donkey years, if your husband steps out on you and retruns whenever he likes, you're in a failed marriage as far as I'm concerned. 6 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by TemmyT002(m): 4:13pm On May 03, 2019 |
The guy na feminist so I am not surprised |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by debossng: 4:14pm On May 03, 2019 |
Experience is the best marriage Counselor. Tobi's Mom shared practical life experience of 29years and still counting but Buchi is speaking plenty grammar. Abeg in your best interest choose experience and save your marriage |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by SEONaijaExpert: 4:52pm On May 03, 2019 |
dominique:Just back to read this. I think you sound more like protesting for a cause. Fact remains, marriage doesn't not have a standard formula, neither does it have a manual to follow aside the Bible (not sounding religious). What you've shared is a general opinion or let me say what has made your marriage work, more like exactly what I asked you. But do you think the same would work for others? See, I won't be tempted to go local by saying this is Africa and we're upheld by certain cultural valves but far away from that, no matter how you see it, you've made a lot of compromise than you ever thought you could before you got married. I stand corrected. I don't want to see you ad someone support equality in marriage because you didn't mention it outrightly but no matter the compromise the man would have made, you've stomached some bullshïts too just to make your marriage work it's just that the angle facing you is backing another person. Different issues, different approach. You can't beat men at this no matter your clamour not to take BS in marriages. If I'm to summarized what the woman said in the video, it all comes down to one word - submission, which I'm glad you right stated that you observed too by not fighting back. That's it...and that's where the peace really is. Some men are indeed polygamous, in fact most women sharing their husband with other women under the same roof probably never saw it coming. That's the nature of the man, he wants more than one and as a wife you can either accept and stay in your space or protest and get out of the marriage. Whichever, he would still go ahead with other women. I think every woman in marriage should be thankful for their kind of man, especially if he's making effort to make the marriage work. There's little or no power given to any woman/wife to determine the direction of the marriage except the power to pack out and live on. Every woman in marriage takes bullshïts, it just comes in different shades. That's all. 6 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by megareal: 7:10pm On May 03, 2019 |
This type of advice is better left in the trash can. Only a foolish woman and an unrepentant runsgirl will accept this rubbish. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Awoo88: 8:18pm On May 03, 2019 |
Sound advice from a very experience woman. Worrying about your husband's whereabouts is a sign of insecurity. An insecure woman is a big headache no man should be advise to manage 1 Like |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Dakosta1(m): 9:08pm On May 03, 2019 |
MadCow1: FUNNY... |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Amanda4life: 9:55pm On May 03, 2019 |
cr7lomo: This is because Africa is going western. We will all have daughter s and sons., that is if we don't have now. People should should weigh things before we say it From experience certain things we do or say way back always hunts in the future. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by generationz(f): 10:36pm On May 03, 2019 |
Fadedvoices2: My dear to say I'm shocked is an understatement Even the women support the nonsense Its obvious this woman ( Tobi's mom) is either frigid in bed or has her own boyfriends. There is no way a woman will know here husband cheats and wont be miserable for 29 years except she has an escape route 2 Likes |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Nobody: 4:20am On May 04, 2019 |
Elliot2: wow!!!
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Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by mechanics(m): 10:57am On May 04, 2019 |
hmmmmm, nothing like too jealous, if one's husband is going astray, the wife has the audacity to tell him his fault and if he does not listen, God won't hold her guilty. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Elliot2(m): 4:39pm On May 04, 2019 |
tohyorsih2:There are no perfect human on earth,knowing that helps solve a lot of ish. This very couple is still alive. When the man comes home smelling allover and abusing anything and anyone on sight, wife just make hot water for him without minding him. She then ask him to go n bathe; after that,he eats the food on the table and before u know,he is sleeping. When he wakes up fresh,this new creature is the best the wife ever has as they chat and laugh over everything. And that laughing and chatting is what neighbors hear and see. How that wife manages such a family is beyond compression. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Nobody: 4:45pm On May 04, 2019 |
Elliot2: I've learnt something. Thanks for sharing this. 1 Like |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Elliot2(m): 5:08pm On May 04, 2019 |
tohyorsih2:OK,wlc. Disclaimer: please don't always be the one understanding the other person o. Bible said love ur neighbour as thy yourself. Love ur self first o. |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Nobody: 8:13pm On May 04, 2019 |
Elliot2: I understannd. Thank you |
Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by Mryacks: 11:58am On May 06, 2019 |
Valid points he made... newsynews: |
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