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All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 2:50pm On Sep 21, 2010
The trend now adays is to focus all the attention on the women. When it comes to sexual intimacy, all we hear is how to satisfy the woman. In school, its the girls that lecturers lavish attention on. In the office, the secretary is usually everyone's wife. If a man misbehave, nobody'll talk, but if a woman misbehave, everybody'll shout [eg patricia Etteh]. In the movie and music industry, all Attention is on the women [Omotola, lady gaga, et al]. Male artistes perform well dressed. Female artistes perform scantily dressed. Why is this so? I'm not a male chauvinist and neither do i habor any I'll feeling towards women. I just feel they are OVER DOING everything and need to apply some moderation
shocked sad
Re: All Attention On Women by mamaken: 2:58pm On Sep 21, 2010
Those women just give to the men what they expect from them.
would you buy her records or watch her movies if she don't shake her boobs and nyash half naked?

and by the way, men don't put all their attention on women, specially when it comes to sexual intimacy.
Re: All Attention On Women by 1102(m): 3:05pm On Sep 21, 2010
Even here On nairaland, the LADIES wont let me rest,

This is a good thread poster,

Thumbs down, keep it down!!
Re: All Attention On Women by Spyker: 3:58pm On Sep 21, 2010
If you can't beat them, join them.
That's the slogan for women. Ugly woman no dey for December.
Re: All Attention On Women by Omolola1(f): 4:01pm On Sep 21, 2010
who wan get attention b4?
Re: All Attention On Women by 1102(m): 4:04pm On Sep 21, 2010
^^
Ladies are lovely creatures

even scientists have not been able to come up wiv any reasonable answer on what Kinda beings they are!!
Re: All Attention On Women by fubiluv: 4:35pm On Sep 21, 2010
@ poster,What is your point?
Re: All Attention On Women by Omolola1(f): 4:36pm On Sep 21, 2010
women should get all the attention, that's his point~
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 4:37pm On Sep 21, 2010
mamaken:

Those women just give to the men what they expect from them.
would you buy her records or watch her movies if she don't shake her bosoms and nyash half unclothed?

and by the way, men don't put all their attention on women, specially when it comes to sexual intimacy.
any artiste who performs scantily dressed is slowly killing his/her own career. Asa, jojo, celine dion, don't hav 2 dress badly 4 their album to sell. If your music is good and entertaining, it'll sell. you don't have 2 dress silly. If you see a movie or song that flaunts nudity, then it means the producers are bereft of creative ideas. Nudity = uninspiring, monotonous, corruption, etc. Now i wouldn't want to buy such tapes. They're nauseating. I prefer "i believe i can fly" to "sex olympics" shocked
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 4:47pm On Sep 21, 2010
Omolola1:

women should get all the attention, that's his point~
shocked that is not my point. I'm just saying that women are going to the extreme in their quest to get what they want and need to apply some moderation. Eg, a female artiste performing scantily dressed so that her song would sell. What they need is creativity and innovation to be great, not nudity, short cuts, or "dance for me"/show me your honey pots. . . cheesy wink
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 4:49pm On Sep 21, 2010
What are you talking about what about male R&B singers removing their shirts during concerts? What about people like D'banj, Usher, Trey Songz, and Chris Brown? I'm sure you've seen D'banj at concerts without a shirt on, so what do you call that? Do they not go shirtless on stage? And what do you mean that a woman will do something wrong and no one says a thing? What about when a man sleeps with 20 girls and people practically give him a standing ovation then if a woman does it then she's pelted with insults huh? What about those? You making it seem like the world is out to get you as a man. Smmfh!!!
Re: All Attention On Women by 1102(m): 4:53pm On Sep 21, 2010

Yes what you are saying is that,
Women should calm down in their general approach
They shouldn't get all what they want cos they have a 2nd Gateway to heaven! between their legs!
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 6:01pm On Sep 21, 2010
Spyker:

If you can't beat them, join them.
That's the slogan for women. Ugly woman no dey for December.
wrong! IF YOU CAN'T BEAT THEM, ARRANGE TO HAVE THEM BEATEN grin
Re: All Attention On Women by Tosinville(m): 6:07pm On Sep 21, 2010
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Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 6:14pm On Sep 21, 2010
@ inked nerd . . . Dbanj and chris brown are not my type. . . I hate em. As for guys who are serial bleepers, they get condemed too like that alhaji in niger state with over 90 wives. I'm not saying men don't misbehave. They do but WOMEN OWN ARE TOO MUCH. cool
Re: All Attention On Women by Omolola1(f): 6:16pm On Sep 21, 2010
those guys are 3 MUCH!
Re: All Attention On Women by Tosinville(m): 6:18pm On Sep 21, 2010
Chris breezy? Thatz the best pop star alive now.
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 6:24pm On Sep 21, 2010
oweniwe:

@ inked nerd . . . Dbanj and chris brown are not my type. . . I hate em. As for guys who are serial bleepers, they get condemed too like that alhaji in niger state with over 90 wives. I'm not saying men don't misbehave. They do but WOMEN OWN ARE TOO MUCH. cool

I didn't ask you if you liked them. I was naming a few people just as you did. When a woman doesn't show enough skin then she's boring, then she shows more skin now she too much? Oh please ::[/b]rolls eyes[b]:: Suppose all these famous female singer decided to wear burkas while they performed, would you still be sitting here complaining? Look, as an advertising student, I am well aware that s.ex sells. If you don't like what you see then don't buy the music and don't watch them on tv. It mean c'mon we're talking about a multimillion dollar industry here. It all about marketing.
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 7:55pm On Sep 21, 2010
But ophra whinfrey (not sure of the correct spelling) doesn't dress scantily. Sex may sell, but LOVE SELLS MORE. Anyway, i started the thread with the bedroom in mind. All we hear today is "how to make your woman shout "AGBAKO"!! in bed. Its like women want men to become like specially programmed piston ring not minding the consequences involved
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 8:10pm On Sep 21, 2010
oweniwe:

But ophra whinfrey (not sure of the correct spelling) doesn't dress scantily. Sex may sell, but LOVE SELLS MORE. Anyway, i started the thread with the bedroom in mind. All we hear today is "how to make your woman shout "AGBAKO"!! in bed. Its like women want men to become like specially programmed piston ring not minding the consequences involved

I don't know why your using Oprah Winfrey as an example since you started the thread by using examples that pertained the the music and movie industry. And no, love does not sell more. It sell just not more than s.ex. Your arguement is a bit one sided here. You make it sound as though society bends over backwords for women while men are left to fend for themselves. We live in a society that frowns up female sexuality and glorifies male sexuality so how does you post justify anything that you've stated?
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 8:40pm On Sep 21, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

You make it sound as though society bends over backwords for women while men are left to fend for themselves.
Gbam! That's my point. I've thought it and i think age may be the reason why. . . I'll soon hit 21. Almost Everything in the age bracket is turned at the girls but in the 30s and 40s, the attention goes to the men. I'm not jealous about that coz i know my time will come but i'm just not cool with the way the sissies use uncreative short cuts to get what they want. If women use their brains to soar through sky, I'll marvel, but wen de cheat, i get "bad blood". I hate cheating wink
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 8:45pm On Sep 21, 2010
oweniwe:

Gbam! That's my point. I've thought it and i think age may be the reason why. . . I'll soon hit 21. Almost Everything in the age bracket is turned at the girls but in the 30s and 40s, the attention goes to the men. I'm not jealous about that coz i know my time will come but i'm just not cool with the way the sissies use uncreative short cuts to get what they want. If women use their brains to soar through sky, I'll marvel, but wen de cheat, i get "bad blood". I hate cheating wink

Ok, that was terrible all that rambling to make this point. Seems liek you have a long way to go if you truly believe that then. Your age has nothing to do with it. I'm 21 yet you don't hear me saying stuff like that. I don't go around starting threads about unjust society is towards women. Stop making is seem like the world is picking on you as a man because that is not the case, and by the way, you failed to answer my question about the women dressed in burkas. Did you not see it or have you just chose not to answer?
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 10:13pm On Sep 21, 2010
I saw it, but didn't know the meaning of burkers so i over looked it. Anyway, I'll google it up
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 10:44pm On Sep 21, 2010
http://noburka..com/                                                                               the cloth makes a woman look like a demon. some women wear burkas in abeokuta where i grew up. But i think the practise is dying. One thing i however observed is that nobody is forcing the women to wear burkas. Just like the pakistani female lawyer in the link, the women choose to wear it coz they feel more secure in it. When they're told to stop wearing it, they cry out. I don't understand those women at all. I just wonder- what's the philosophy or covering ones's self with black cloth from head to toe all one's life when one is not mourning? I don't just understand. If you know inked, pls enlighten me. I'm willing to learn
Re: All Attention On Women by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 21, 2010
Inked_Nerd:


I don't know why your using Oprah Winfrey as an example since you started the thread by using examples that pertained the the music and movie industry. And no, love does not sell more. It sell just not more than s.ex. Your arguement is a bit one sided here. You make it sound as though society bends over backwords for women while men are left to fend for themselves. We live in a society that frowns up female sexuality and glorifies male sexuality so how does you post justify anything that you've stated?

I beg to differ.
Aside from other obvious facts supporting my claim, ever asked yourself why female pornstars are more famous than their fellow males?

(My claims hold valid for western society only)
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 12:15am On Sep 22, 2010
2buff:

I beg to differ.
Aside from other obvious facts supporting my claim, ever asked yourself why female pornstars are more famous than their fellow males?

(My claims hold valid for western society only)

Yes the may be famous within the sex industry but the general consensus towards female sexuality is still frowned upon. The average Western woman does not act or behave like a p.orn star.

oweniwe:

http://noburka..com/                                                                                the cloth makes a woman look like a demon. some women wear burkas in abeokuta where i grew up. But i think the practise is dying. One thing i however observed is that nobody is forcing the women to wear burkas. Just like the pakistani female lawyer in the link, the women choose to wear it coz they feel more secure in it. When they're told to stop wearing it, they cry out. I don't understand those women at all. I just wonder- what's the philosophy or covering ones's self with black cloth from head to toe all one's life when one is not mourning? I don't just understand. If you know inked, pls enlighten me. I'm willing to learn

You still have not answered my question. I didn't ask you what the philosophical meaning was for the wearing of the burka. And no, not all women wear burkas by choice. Would you or would not you not still pay attention to these female singers if they were wearing burkas?
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 11:50am On Sep 22, 2010
A good artiste must be open, inspiring, and melancholic or sanguine. I can't buy what i can't see, can't buy something that is shrouded in secrecy or what does.nt inspire me. Something that one is doing and one cannot come out in the open and say one is doing is not for one to engage in. An album with every one dressed in burka would be dammned boring. I can't buy what i did not see. sad
Re: All Attention On Women by odannon: 12:24pm On Sep 22, 2010
Brick or lace? Which would u rather have?
Re: All Attention On Women by oweniwe(m): 6:50pm On Sep 22, 2010
I'll have leather grin gringrin
Re: All Attention On Women by InkedNerd(f): 7:19pm On Sep 22, 2010
oweniwe:

A good artiste must be open, inspiring, and melancholic or sanguine. I can't buy what i can't see, can't buy something that is shrouded in secrecy or what does.nt inspire me. Something that one is doing and one cannot come out in the open and say one is doing is not for one to engage in. An album with every one dressed in burka would be dammned boring. I can't buy what i did not see. sad

Open eh? And who's to say they aren't being open by choosing to wear a burka? Besides, who told you those scantily clad female singers weren't being open? Your going from one thing to another here. Wearing a burka does not mean that there is some sort of secrecy. You've just proved that you would prefer to see someone who was showing skin than someone who wasn't. If it truely had nothing with the way the person was dressed and was based purly on talent then why should it matter whether they are fully covered or not? You say you can't buy what you can't see, must you see their face to enjoy the music? Groups like Daft Punk and Gorillaz are faceless yet people still buy their music and flock to their concerts. So what is it that your trying to get at with your original post?

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