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Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Nobody: 6:38pm On May 08, 2019 |
Well there is a saying "when a kid taste a candy, he/she will always go back for more" you have reduced ur attention giving and someone else had picked it up, dont let it bother u, tell ur wife now b4 it becomes something ur family and her family won't be able to handle later and stop this act now so that u don't contact any disease... 2 Likes |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by InfoMinister: 6:38pm On May 08, 2019 |
ALL OF YOU SHOULD TOTALLY REPENT AND SURRENDER YOUR LIVES TO CHRIST IMMEDIATELY BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.... YOU CAN DIE ANY TIME. REACH OUT TO THE LADY AND YOUR BOSS EVEN IF YOU LOSE YOUR JOB, GOD WILL HELP YOU OUT. DO THIS FAST... I WARNED YOU!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by godwon01(m): 6:39pm On May 08, 2019 |
May be your friend is having an affair with your wife too. Or somebody else paying U back. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Queenserah26(f): 6:42pm On May 08, 2019 |
My point exactly LordKO: |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by EvieP(f): 6:51pm On May 08, 2019 |
Dear Op plz confess to your wife if she demands a divorce plz grant it.if she forgives you then you are lucky.On a second thought op if you can live with these all your life then you can decide not to tell her.am not condeming you ooo no one is a saint.the deed is done already if you are remorsful over cheating on your wife may God help you to come out of your adultrous life and resist the home destroyer.Amen. This is why introverts are no no to me. They can do and undo 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Platony(m): 6:54pm On May 08, 2019 |
gbagyiza:How am I covering up for him? He's seeking advice from people, he knows what he has been doing is bad, dats why he needs help. I detest HYPOCRISY with passion because am a realist. Can u swear, u are pure in heart? Even Jesus asked d people prosecuting d woman dat committed adultery "LET THE MAN WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE" Did anyone stone her after d question? Hope they all left. Did u know, d ways of God is different from man's? We all know dat OP is very wrong which he had openly confessed. What's d essence of all d bashing? Did u also know that if he confesses his sins to God & receive him as his Lord & Savior, He will be saved & will make heaven by remaining a child of God? Only God can judge him or see him as bad or good, not we mere mortals. #SHALOM 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Platony(m): 6:57pm On May 08, 2019 |
EvieP: God Bless u my brother, not all these people bashing him as if they are God. My advice to him is to pick d courage and confess to his wife. 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by ijbeauty(f): 6:58pm On May 08, 2019 |
May heavens forgive you 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by myself13: 7:00pm On May 08, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by EvieP(f): 7:00pm On May 08, 2019 |
Activated77: really! This our own last week? |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by TheCongo2: 7:10pm On May 08, 2019 |
xcrew20: I love the type of advise that starts with " I was once in your shoes " At least someone can relate to OP 3 Likes |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by smyl4ogaga(m): 7:12pm On May 08, 2019 |
What has happened has happened and what matters now is the way forward. Stop being promiscuous and stop promiscuous habits Avoid any form of emotional attachments towards the lady Confess to your wife and never go back to your vomits with any other woman again...else,u may not seek advice and counsel if it repeats with another person God forgives sin no matter the gravity... But there are consequences to our sins.ask God to forgive you and heal you from sexual sins Hence forth,focus your time,energy and resources on your wife and kids... They are more important to you than fake love affairs, unwholesome lusty lifestyle,office prostitutings... Develop your minds and appetite on things that edifys your total wellness. No one is perfect because he that thinketh he stand am does not take cover can fall into same traps. Dont let any one rain insults and abuse on you because u reported yourself and you feel down He who has no sin should leave the earth and meet God NOW in heaven.. People fall if they dont check what makes them fall always. If you have decided not to go back to your vomits dont eat what will make you vomit what you dont like people to see and hear about. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Beey(f): 7:12pm On May 08, 2019 |
bentben:I am not here to judge you.Glad you realize what you’ve been doing is wrong.I suggest you tell your wife sooner than later because she’ll find out sooner than later.Be apologetic but also open to any decision she might make.A man who can control his sexual appetite is a man who can go far in life.You need to look for a job elsewhere or request a transfer from your office.You need to leave that toxic environment.Consider talking to a therapist but, above all know that the decision to cheat or not to cheat lies in your hands. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by demefa(m): 7:14pm On May 08, 2019 |
i pray someone sleep with ur wife, u will know how it feels mumu xcrew20: 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by endureson: 7:17pm On May 08, 2019 |
bentben: Guy my only grievances is that U are not happy she is with your Boss. You better go and make your wife happy and forget the past. If U can tell your wife then do else just beg your wife for forgiveness before she hears. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by babalonshee(m): 7:21pm On May 08, 2019 |
at OP the best thing to do is to OPEN UP TO YOUR WIFE ABOUT UR SHAMEFUL ACT AND ASK FOR forgiveness PLUS DONT EXPECT A POSITIVE reaction |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by ACE1010: 7:23pm On May 08, 2019 |
If you know what's good for you, just walk away and save your head, the life of your wife and children. Don't you ever go near that devil incarnate called a woman. I will also advised you to confess to your wife, before that LovePeddler of a woman put you in a terrible mess by telling your wife. Be warned. 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by VictorRomanov: 7:24pm On May 08, 2019 |
bentben: Bashing: You re selfish bro. You re hurt because some is you cheated with is cheating on you? That's selfish and hypocritical don't you think? Advice Try to be selfless Put yourself in your wife's shoes and put her in your shoes. How would you feel is your wife was sleeping with your friend and her boss? How would your wife feel when she finds out what you've done? This should help you take the necessary actions. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by yawehoverall: 7:24pm On May 08, 2019 |
Wife friend = "STD" Cheating husband ="HIV" Cheating wife husband=" STD/HIV" Print wife friend + cheating husband Out put: STD/HIV. ..... |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Nobody: 7:44pm On May 08, 2019 |
Bro Jesus is looking for men like you bro. He lives in Heaven but He reigns in the affairs of men. For you to realise that what you have done is wrong and wants to stop shows that there is hope for you bro. Come back to Christ and you will be free and enjoy absolute peace of mind. Remember that nothing last forever and that one day you will stand before God to give account. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Saltoflife: 7:45pm On May 08, 2019 |
Zeinymira: Gbam |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by sisisioge: 7:52pm On May 08, 2019 |
Wow! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() May God be with your wife! |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Zombicmodz: 7:55pm On May 08, 2019 |
I don't know why I find this story very boring... |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by HighKing01(m): 8:17pm On May 08, 2019 |
Am in something similar |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Medunah: 8:22pm On May 08, 2019 |
generationz:Why should the woman feel the most terrible? ![]() Friendship and marriage, which one is supposed to be stronger? So he should feel less terrible because it's better for him to break his wife's trust than her friend doing the same? Lets call a spade a spade biko, they are both terrible and dangerous people. So you don't think this useless man can collude with the friend to kill his wife? You people will be alright o And he is not even feeling bad or remorseful about the whole affair, he is only pained that the woman is moving on to his boss. I hope his wife finds out, dumps his ass and cut off ties totally with that useless friend. But No, I trust Nigerians, they will tell her to forgive the husband as per men will always be men. God forbid 2 Likes |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by invinzible1: 8:22pm On May 08, 2019 |
EvieP:Lol it has nothing to do with temperament. Marry extovert that is promiscuous then you will know hell is real 2 Likes |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by simrot: 8:26pm On May 08, 2019 |
[quote author=bentben post=78198990]So I will try to be as brief as possible, because story is very long. Started having an affair with this close friend of my wife who now happens to be my colleague in the office now... I helped her got the job before we started having se. X. I have been her target, Infact that was why she came so close to my wife, I'm introverted, so that was the only way she could get close. Yes she's not happy in her marriage, because her husband is promiscuous and don't give her attention . She used me to ease her pain. I consented to the affair because I kind of felt I was assisting her ease the pain in the marriage... I was totally wrong... I goofed, along the line we fell in love with each other... Deeply in love, even we knew what we were doing was wrong. Every fuc, king persons in my neighbourhood and office feels I'm straff1ng her, but we were never caught in the act. The more I try to resist and stop this whole affair, the more the bond, considering we work in same office space. She wants more attention than I give to my wife her supposedly friend .. She flares up most time when I pick my wife's call... Forgetting we are close family friends and can easily be caught. She steal kisses whenever she visits, not minding my wife is in the kitchen. We both have kids... That are friends. NOW THE BIG ISSUE : Because of the less attention she's getting from me, considering the fact that I want to play safe, she has decided to start straff1ng our boss who seems to be giving her the whole attention as it seems now. Our boss his a nice handsome guy. Myself and our boss are very close Pal, he knew I'm so close to her but choose to get is own pound of the flesh... Even though he claim he wasn't... But I was privileged to hack and read their chat and got knowledge of their sexcapade... She still wants an affair with me, she's fuc. k1ng sleeping with two married people in an office. I found this very hurtful, shameful, disgraceful and disgusting... Even though what I'm also doing is terrible... I'm trying to heal and stop this whole affair... I took some days off work to clear my head already. I'm deeply hurt by her actions, blocked her on all social media handles. I need matured advice please on how to scale through all this without going back to my vomit looking that we work in same office space and I got to see her every other day. This story is no fiction... Pls bash me, but don't forget to drop a word of advice for me and probably her. I'm using a new moniker... I have been an active nairalander... I want to hide my shame.. kindly also ignore my typo... It was done on my phone. Thank you. MOD will appreciate if it can get to FP plsssssss. Tell your wife and Sincerely apologize to her if you really mean business if not, I'm afraid you will keep falling even if you try hard to stop. |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Babagirls(m): 8:36pm On May 08, 2019 |
Broda wey mumu...... Broda wey no get sense... he just be like say make i see you flog you like small pikin nonsense father bentben: |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by raphy(m): 8:37pm On May 08, 2019 |
man you need to start to look for job.that kind woman will Bleep her way to the top of the office. so just shift far from her because when u see her again fya dick will say yes...that sweet mummy. i hope am helpful . as a LFC fan I say ywnwa . 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by owoshuyi(m): 9:21pm On May 08, 2019 |
First of all confess to your wife and seek her forgiveness, that is one major step you have to take. Revealing this to her will help you in psychologically keeping the 'strange' woman from your thoughts, and your wife will see that you are serious about amending your ways. Please do this before she hears about this affair from another source and she confirms it's true. Wish your marriage quick healing. bentben: |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by jossycyber: 9:21pm On May 08, 2019 |
OP please check these advice in PROVERBS CHAPTER 7 if it makes any sense PROVERBS 7 7 My son, keep my sayings, And treasure up my commandments.+ 2 Keep my commandments and live;+ Guard my instruction* like the pupil of your eye. 3 Tie them around your fingers; Write them on the tablet of your heart.+ 4 Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” And call understanding “my relative,” 5 To guard you against the wayward* woman,+ Against the immoral* woman and her smooth* words.+ 6 From the window of my house, Through my lattice, I looked down, 7 And as I observed the naive* ones, I discerned among the youths a young man lacking good sense.*+ 8 He passed along the street near her corner, And he marched in the direction of her house 9 In the twilight, in the evening,+ At the approach of night and darkness. 10 Then I saw a woman meet him, Dressed like* a prostitute,+ with a cunning heart. 11 She is loud and defiant.+ She never stays* at home. 12 One moment she is outside, next she is in the public squares, She lurks near every corner.+ 13 She grabs hold of him and gives him a kiss; With a bold face, she says to him: 14 “I had to offer communion sacrifices.+ Today I paid my vows. 15 That is why I came out to meet you, To look for you, and I found you! 16 I have spread fine covers upon my bed, Colorful linen from Egypt.+ 17 I have sprinkled my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.+ 18 Come, let us drink our fill of love until the morning; Let us enjoy passionate love together, 19 For my husband is not at home; He has gone on a distant journey. 20 He took a bag of money with him, And he will not return until the day of the full moon.” 21 She misleads him with great persuasiveness.+ She seduces him with smooth speech. 22 Suddenly he goes after her, like a bull to the slaughter, Like a fool to be punished in the stocks,*+ 23 Until an arrow pierces his liver; Like a bird rushing into a trap, he does not know that it will cost him his life.*+ 24 And now, my sons, listen to me; Pay attention to the words I speak. 25 Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways. Do not stray onto her paths,+ 26 For she has caused many to fall down slain,+ And those she has killed are numerous.+ 27 Her house leads to the Grave;* It goes down to the inner chambers of death. English Preferences Then PROVERBS 5. : 8-10 Proverbs 5:8-11 8Stay far away from her; Do not go near the entrance of her house,9So that you may not give your dignity to others Nor reap years of what is cruel;10So that strangers may not drain your resources And what you labored for go to the house of a foreigner.11Otherwise, you will groan at the end of your life When your flesh and body waste away In as much u are seeing her everyday u will keep falling into immorality..... Because king David kept seeing same woman everyday...he fell,..you might no longer be productive at work and guilty conscience may starts to give u sleepless night.....if care is not taken your prayers might be hindered.....You have greatly sin again man (your faithful woman) and God your creator whime u have vowed. Go to your wife and lay bare everything,CONFESS to her ....probably. God may consider u.,... Imaging this wrong woman is not doing same with ya oga at the top u your heart will still keep headlong committing immorality....you're not sincere dude....Do the needeful now if God should expose you by himself ....it won't be funny.....see how u had been captured by Satan.... But u get hope ......tell your wife what u have done then tell God but your wife first because you have broke the vow u made with her before God and Men 1 Like |
Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Tex42(m): 9:43pm On May 08, 2019 |
With all due respect oga, kindly go to hell. spits on thread. |
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