Before I left Nigeria, my girlfriend and I promised to marry. Because it wasn’t possible for me to come abroad with her, she promised to wait for me. That was just six months ago.

Despite sending money to her and her family to augment her school fees and other sundry expenses, I learnt she has started dating my best friend’s brother. Although she is begging me to forgive her, I find the whole development disappointing and uncalled for, making it impossible for me to continue the relationship with her.

Meanwhile, there is this old friend from secondary school I reconnected with on the Facebook. We have been communicating regularly. She promised to visit my family even though I have officially told them about her on phone. Known to my sister, she has promised to be faithful to me. I am confused. Hence need your help on the right step to take.

how can you talk of "faithfulness" when you havent even met that old friend yet?!
then you wonder why your gal didnt wait for you when you are quick to jump ship and cherish some stranger. people like you will always end up with donkeys/whores or gals with complete lack of trust.

i think you should sit down, stop being desperate to marry and CHOOSE YOUR FUTURE MATE BETTER!!!!!

I don't even believe the story,to start with

just passing

I think you have to look into this with all heart and mind and think of the nice time you both have. as for your old friend, GUY be careful, she myth me nice or bad or even for my money