please help me guys!

Please in my last post I told u all about how my mom was a troublemaker and how I needed help, well please keep that in mind. About last three weeks I came home from school to find that there was no food in my house not even food items like raw rice. I was shocked as usual and quickly ran to my mom to report the situation, after telling her I was kind of shock to find her calm. She calmly told me that I won't be allow to cook in the house that she will be the one to cook and serve the food for me that I consume to much food and the regime is hard. Like every other human I was shocked but knew her well enough to shut up. That how it was for me until about a week when she start telling me that she will have to reduce my everyday allowance because she just found out my mates are not given that much amount leaving me with only transport still I kept quiet. Since she doesn't cook in the morning and comes home last at night am always hungry. I have started begging for food now. I asked my dad for money which was the last thing I promised myself not to do because I always knew what he will say, he told me that he is broke and I shouldn't come to his house because his new wife finds me gross( his words not mine). Am hungry am not asking for money but for advice. I know nairaland is full with a lot of people from different background, there has to be at least one person that has gone through want am going through now . am only 16 years...am afraid that I may not be able to handle what comes next

Only God knows what grounds you are preparing or baiting with these stories.

I just dey look with my hand for chin..

stop bringing private and personal issues on social media it wont kill you if you do. the effects are far reaching.you are not the first, nor would be the last with your kind of problem thanks.

daddytime:
Only God knows what grounds you are preparing or baiting with these stories.

I just dey look with my hand for chin..

The great Sage!

Please am begging u with tears in my eyes ...if I had someone to ran to I would not have come to social to ask for help . I need advice now and not lecture am already through a lot ...am begging u if u don't have advice for me ..please don't judge me ....I have enough dose of reality already please am begging u

nofuckz:
stop bringing private and personal issues on social media it wont kill you if you do. the effects are far reaching.you are not the first, nor would be the last with your kind of problem thanks.

Please am begging u with tears in my eyes ...if I had someone to ran to I would not have come to social to ask for help . I need advice now and not lecture am already through a lot ...am begging u if u don't have advice for me ..please don't judge me ....I have enough dose of reality already please am begging u

No advise here can feed your hungry stomach.

What you need is money. You need to look for a job but I bet you already know that. You've also made it clear you ain't begging so I have to ask what exactly are you after?

Hmmmm

nofuckz:

The great Sage!

Hahahaha...that's my daughter's name ironically. ..lol

I greet you

joystarts:
please help me guys!

Please in my last post I told u all about how my mom was a troublemaker and how I needed help, well please keep that in mind. About last three weeks I came home from school to find that there was no food in my house not even food items like raw rice. I was shocked as usual and quickly ran to my mom to report the situation, after telling her I was kind of shock to find her calm. She calmly told me that I won't be allow to cook in the house that she will be the one to cook and serve the food for me that I consume to much food and the regime is hard. Like every other human I was shocked but knew her well enough to shut up. That how it was for me until about a week when she start telling me that she will have to reduce my everyday allowance because she just found out my mates are not given that much amount leaving me with only transport still I kept quiet. Since she doesn't cook in the morning and comes home last at night am always hungry. I have started begging for food now. I asked my dad for money which was the last thing I promised myself not to do because I always knew what he will say, he told me that he is broke and I shouldn't come to his house because his new wife finds me gross( his words not mine). Am hungry am not asking for money but for advice. I know nairaland is full with a lot of people from different background, there has to be at least one person that has gone through want am going through now . am only 16 years...am afraid that I may not be able to handle what comes next

You need bear hugs. This phase shall pass.

joystarts:


Please am begging u with tears in my eyes ...if I had someone to ran to I would not have come to social to ask for help . I need advice now and not lecture am already through a lot ...am begging u if u don't have advice for me ..please don't judge me ....I have enough dose of reality already please am begging u

Ok lemme say i believe you already
What ever you think you are going through is always there for a purpose, to teach you certain sometimes vital lessons to grow you, and make you thick. but then you can only grow when you choose to see the positives in all...like i said your problems are not percular so stop bringing them to social media else it goes with you into life with the concequences beyond that you can fully understand.

daddytime:

Hahahaha...that's my daughter's name ironically. ..lol
I greet you

I greet you too sir.

SageMK:
No advise here can feed your hungry stomach.

What you need is money. You need to look for a job but I bet you already know that. You've also made it clear you ain't begging so I have to ask what exactly are you after?

He's begging for money, forget what He said and read between the lines.

Tallesty1:
He's begging for money, forget what He said and read between the lines.

If u cant help with an advice. Then u simply stfu! Sabinus!

That's how some of you drive pple into depression.

hotwater1:


If u cant help with an advice. Then u simply stfu! Sabinus!

That's how some of you drive pple into depression.

You actually haven't helped him with anything.

Tallesty1:
You actually haven't helped him with anything.

Hmm...my dear don't pray or wish to be bred under a single parent in a next life. It's terrible. Kids pass through a lot in such circumstance.

Tallesty1:
He's begging for money, forget what He said and read between the lines.

am not looking for money ...I have savings ..i just don't think ineed to spend it now

joystarts:


Please am begging u with tears in my eyes ...if I had someone to ran to I would not have come to social to ask for help . I need advice now and not lecture am already through a lot ...am begging u if u don't have advice for me ..please don't judge me ....I have enough dose of reality already please am begging u

Open your eyes and see for yourself no help in sight you can only compound your woes be wise.

Tallesty1:
You actually haven't helped him with anything.

Better than concluding she's a scammer when she clearly didn't ask for money.


She's a kid, somehow I think I understand her. She only wants to be talked to. Doesn't seem like she has much friends around and even if she does, what can they possibly tell her? They'd be around her age

hotwater1:


Hmm...my dear don't pray or wish to be bred under a single parent in a next life. It's terrible. Kids pass through a lot in such circumstance.

I don't blame them though, scam is rife around here. But I'm almost certain this kid isn't lying

I was gonna ask this @ the other thread before it went south, who bails your mom from the Police station since she fights/has fought everyone including your dad?

joystarts:
Please am begging u with tears in my eyes ...if I had someone to ran to I would not have come to social to ask for help . I need advice now and not lecture am already through a lot ...am begging u if u don't have advice for me ..please don't judge me ....I have enough dose of reality already please am begging u

What exactly are you begging for?

Someone to tell you how to dip hands into your savings to feed? .
Someone from NLD to meet up with you offline to talk to your mom?

Where to buy cooked food?

The OP is not a straight forward person, who is she, joystarts or nobody as her moniker alternates?

Pavore9:
The OP is not a straight forward person, who is she, joystarts or nobody as her moniker alternates?

She deactivated.

Whatever she was cooking, Nlders poured sand into before it even started boiling.

Who believes such stupid ridiculous stories anywayz? Your mom will psy your school fees, give you everyday allowance ( her words) but wont give you food? Whoever believed her/him needs a huge dose of reality check

Pavore9:
The OP is not a straight forward person, who is she, joystarts or nobody as her moniker alternates?

I used to wonder how the username keeps changing to nobody. So many posts made by that nobody. Yet, when he/she is quoted, different usernames appear. I'm still wondering how the person does it.

You're 16,with two hands and two legs, get something to do.
You can wash cars for people in your environment or church,
You can run errands for people too, at least you'll have a little token for that plus maybe free food.

Pavore9:
The OP is not a straight forward person, who is she, joystarts or nobody as her moniker alternates?

So moderators can view profiles of deactivated accounts?

sleemzy96:

I used to wonder how the username keeps changing to nobody. So many posts made by that nobody. Yet, when he/she is quoted, different usernames appear. I'm still wondering how the person does it.

Go and take a course on Nairaland use. You still dey first term.



Just kidding

Evangkatsoulis:


So moderators can view profiles of deactivated accounts?

As in?

Pavore9:


As in?

if an ordinary nairalander tries to view profile of a deactivated account, one sees nothing but "this account has been deactivated".

Evangkatsoulis:

if an ordinary nairalander tries to view profile of a deactivated account, one sees nothing but "this account has been deactivated".

Yes, moderators view more features even view hidden posts.

Na wa o! Abeg u pple should help me ask @ Seun when he will fix a block button on this obonge app. I am tired of some dimwits following me.
I dont want to deactivate my account again cos of them.

I still remain hotwater1!