PS; �
You can break down the toughest guy’s walls, make him beg for you to be with him forever, make him bend over backward to please you – without playing games.

1. Jumping the Gun

Revealing your feelings for him before HE does, is the most common & sad mistake I hear about every day. You have to understand and accept that guys need a challenge, they love chasing. What if happens if you tell him you love him & he’s silent?
Chest pain �

2. Needing, Clinging, Chasing

This mistake is yet again based on the fact that guys need the chase. Do not blow up his phone with calls and texts, no matter how cute he is. Give him space, besides when you show a guy too much love he’d start behaving like assistant Jesus

3. Bed Time

Yes, I’m going to repeat the cliché. Sleeping with him too soon is still one of the worst dating mistakes women make – of all time.
The usual outcome is never hearing from him again. You need your guy to be attached to you emotionally before you are intimate. ��

4. Ignoring Red Flags
When you’re in love, noticing the red flags is challenging, even if they’re blood-red. When a guy says “I’m not ready for a relationship”, or “I have trust issues”, or “it’s not the right time for a relationship” – please believe him. He is not lying �

5. Long Distance Relationships

Having a LDR is not a dating mistake but starting a new r/ship this way is risky. You’ll end up constantly missing him, wondering if he’s seeing other women, & spend your days counting his texts and over-analyzing every single word he says to you

6. Respect

lack of respect for a guy

We are all controlled by our ego (mostly), but guys are especially tricky. Their ego is extremely sensitive to respect. For men Unrespected = Unloved. So please find a way to balance it out, make him feel you respect him, you know ? ����

7. Low Self Esteem

The way you think about yourself is the way others will think of you. If you put yourself down, focus on your flaws and your past mistakes, that’s how he will see you too. You don’t have to pretend to be someone other than yourself. ��‍�

8. Marriage & babies �

Again, you have to let him lead. Just because you’re dating for a month now, doesn’t mean that you have to start talking about how your children will look like, don’t be looking desperate.. it’s a major turn off.

Olamsoh:

1. Jumping the Gun

Revealing your feelings for him before HE does, is the most common & sad mistake I hear about every day. You have to understand and accept that guys need a challenge, they love chasing. What if happens if you tell him you love him & he’s silent?
Chest pain �

ARRANT NONSENSE #1
People in r/ship should reveal how they feel about their partner WHENEVER THEY FEEL THEY ARE READY. Not doing so and waiting for the other to say how they feel is not only a very cheap move, but also a coward one. If you actually care about someone, you wouldn't mind about who says what 1st.

2. Needing, Clinging, Chasing
This mistake is yet again based on the fact that guys need the chase. Do not blow up his phone with calls and texts, no matter how cute he is. Give him space, besides when you show a guy too much love he’d start behaving like assistant Jesus

ARRANT NONSENSE #2
People in r/ship should be THEMSELVES, and certainly not pretend to be who they are not. If you are a clingy needy chasing person then so be it. Don't try to be a deceitful untrustworthy person

3. Bed Time
Yes, I’m going to repeat the cliché. Sleeping with him too soon is still one of the worst dating mistakes women make – of all time.
The usual outcome is never hearing from him again. You need your guy to be attached to you emotionally before you are intimate. ��

ARRANT NONSENSE #3
If you feel ready to have sex then DO it.... There is no good or bad way here, there is only what works FOR YOU

5. Long Distance Relationships
Having a LDR is not a dating mistake but starting a new r/ship this way is risky. You’ll end up constantly missing him, wondering if he’s seeing other women, & spend your days counting his texts and over-analyzing every single word he says to you

ARRANT NONSENSE #4
Starting a LDR is not a problem, it's how long you stay away from one another that is the issue. You can start a r/ship over social media, and then within a short time meet in real life, no big deal....the important word here is "WITHIN A SHORT TIME"

6. Respect
lack of respect for a guy
We are all controlled by our ego (mostly), but guys are especially tricky. Their ego is extremely sensitive to respect. For men Unrespected = Unloved. So please find a way to balance it out, make him feel you respect him, you know ? ����

ARRANT NONSENSE #5
You CANT make someone respect you, r/ships don't work that way....

8. Marriage & babies �
Again, you have to let him lead. Just because you’re dating for a month now, doesn’t mean that you have to start talking about how your children will look like, don’t be looking desperate.. it’s a major turn off.

ARRANT NONSENSE #6
If marriage and babies is your aim then don't waste time pretending that it isn't...BE REAL about who you are and Let it be known from the get go that you are not expecting to date for 18yrs before that dude marries someone else (after having fukced the daylight out of your soul)

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE #1
People in r/ship should reveal how they feel about their partner WHENEVER THEY FEEL THEY ARE READY. Not doing so and waiting for the other to say how they feel is not only a very cheap move, but also a coward one. If you actually care about someone, you wouldn't mind about who says what 1st.



ARRANT NONSENSE #2
People in r/ship should be THEMSELVES, and certainly not pretend to be who they are not. If you are a clingy needy chasing person then so be it. Don't try to be a deceitful untrustworthy person



ARRANT NONSENSE #3
If you feel ready to have sex then DO it.... There is no good or bad way here, there is only what works FOR YOU




ARRANT NONSENSE #4
Starting a LDR is not a problem, it's how long you stay away from one another that is the issue. You can start a r/ship over social media, and then within a short time meet in real life, no big deal....the important word here is "WITHIN A SHORT TIME"



ARRANT NONSENSE #5
You CANT make someone respect you, r/ships don't work that way....



ARRANT NONSENSE #6
If marriage and babies is your aim then don't waste time pretending that it isn't...BE REAL about who you are and. Let it be known from the get go that you are not expecting to date for 18yrs before that dude marries someone else (after having fukc the daylight out of your soul)

You just finished OP, why you lack joy like this...

That guy is always like that, with suicide everywhere if op kills himself you are responsible