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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by afonjabreed(m): 7:55am On May 16, 2019 |
Mayour11:You sir are the WISEST |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mofy123: 7:55am On May 16, 2019 |
As a woman I will say hell no. Don't even Consult me before given your younger ones or elder ones money Biko. I send mother in law Recharge card on my own because that's what I can afford for now. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Ikennablue(m): 7:56am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:It depends, it depends on the type of wife and her attitude towards your mum |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Acidosis(m): 7:56am On May 16, 2019 |
Consultation is a very wrong word to use here. You don't have to consult and also don't have to hide or secretly send money to anyone either. Secretly sending money actually signifies greater weakness. If you have to secretly send money to your parents out of fear of wifey's reaction, then you're a WEAK man lacking all form of respect and value. The dream is to get to a level where your wife can send money to your parents using your/ her mobile banking app and vice versa. Doing things respectfully without secrets is the goal. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by HeliosHay(m): 7:58am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy: In my opinion, you don't need her permission BUT you need to atleast let her know. She's your wife. You guys are supposed to be one. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Thalinzrcng: 8:00am On May 16, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool: Well said, good sir...well said. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Juicybreed(m): 8:00am On May 16, 2019 |
Some Men have really lost their Manhood... You owe your woman love and that love is physically shown in your words and works. And not by giving her report of everything thing you do. [/b]God created Man in His image and for His glory, and created the woman for the glory of the Man.[b] |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Bozzy001(m): 8:04am On May 16, 2019 |
Capital NO |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by northvietnam(m): 8:05am On May 16, 2019 |
I owe no body explanation on what to do with my money, my wife inclusive 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by poseidon12: 8:07am On May 16, 2019 |
missyblissy: Reasonable answer. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Nobody: 8:08am On May 16, 2019 |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Philak1(m): 8:10am On May 16, 2019 |
Some people are just emotionally myopic!! I think the word "consulate" is the problem,it sounds somehow authoritative to some people.. What is bad for me as a husband to inform my wife that am sending money to my mum?, I may not know the kind of home most people come from, but my own mother would advice me to let my wife know, in fact she would call my wife to thank her behind me.. The only time I will dare do that without my wife's consent is if she isn't in good terms with my mum.. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:10am On May 16, 2019 |
We seem to have a lot of men who don't know who they are, yes God made you the head but it comes with sacrifice not force, trying to stamp authority makes you look weak. A leader treats everyone including his wife with love and respect. Of course he should tell his wife before he sends money to his mum, what's there to hide. As he's sending to his mum, he should also think of his mother in law too. Marriage is not for kids, to enjoy it, there's need for maturity and wisdom 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by reservd(m): 8:12am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:If it's from a joint account, Yes if not, no need telling her bt only u here knws d kind of marriage u r operating |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:13am On May 16, 2019 |
Philak1: I think there are 90% of below 18 age group on nairaland, that's the reason for the childish responses, they're still struggling to pass JAMB talkless of giving mature advice on marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by jeroncomputers(m): 8:16am On May 16, 2019 |
Never! |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by vaxx1: 8:16am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:unless the man is a slowpoke suffering from the chronic effect of EFO riro. The only true love that exist in this life is between a man and his mother. All other love are secondary . Though there is exception but on a very few cases. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by tunes1102: 8:17am On May 16, 2019 |
If they are rich, they don't need to notify anyone before giving out money. Do you notify your husband or wife before you give alms to the destitute you meet on the road. Its when you both have peanut in your account that you will argue or need permission to give money to people. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by lamideee(f): 8:18am On May 16, 2019 |
deltateam:yes it is wrong. This is not about feminism |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by dayveed1(m): 8:18am On May 16, 2019 |
Budex40:Thank you. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by mechanics(m): 8:20am On May 16, 2019 |
It's part of what the couples would have discussed during courtship. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by lomprico(m): 8:25am On May 16, 2019 |
He does not need to consult her but he should tell her after he has sent it. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by owowa145(m): 8:25am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:Even her own mother will I not consult how much more my own mum. Let us have sense na |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by owowa145(m): 8:26am On May 16, 2019 |
lomprico:Whatever ur right hand does, keep it from ur left. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Oceanblaze(m): 8:28am On May 16, 2019 |
Go and ask you fada foolish child... |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by lawpeh: 8:29am On May 16, 2019 |
[quote author=NaijaTushboy post=78425619]Your Opinion please [/quoste] I think this solely depends on the type of relationship you have with your spouse and in-laws. I have an aunt whose husband gladly let her know if he wants to send money to his family. Will she object? No!! Instead she will add more to it and tell him that his mum might have other needs to meet. Atimes, she even ends up sending extra to the mum after her hsuband has sent. When I asked the reason why she does this, all she could say is that her mother in-law is also her mum. I've also seen situations where the in-laws feel comfortable calling their son's wife for help because their son is difficult to get across to. As for me, this solely depends on your spouse and the laid down relationship with your family. Some spouses are not to be told about financial obligation as they will flare up and turn it into marital issues of putting ur mum above them. In conclusion, know your spouse and observe their love and commitment to your family |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by owowa145(m): 8:30am On May 16, 2019 |
vaxx1:Baba, I'm a very constructive person. There is notin like d only true love. If that be d case, then don't marry. A man must love his wife even more than his kids as she is one with me. But I don't support behaving like a Sisi to give out to people. As I said earlier, even her own mum will I not tell her. Shikina |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by lomprico(m): 8:30am On May 16, 2019 |
owowa145: I don't get! Is your mother a church? |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by rockstar27(m): 8:30am On May 16, 2019 |
Olufela30: I SUPPORTED U BUT WIFE WORK IS NOT ONLY KITCHEN SIR |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by rockstar27(m): 8:32am On May 16, 2019 |
SINCE AM NOT HAVE JOINT ACCOUNT WITH MY WIFE EVEN THOUGH I DID JOINT ACCOUNT SHE CAN'T NEVER STOP ME OF GIVING MY MUM MONEY, WHO IS SHE? |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by daddyfreeman1(m): 8:34am On May 16, 2019 |
OP you just need hot slap this morning for writing this rubbish... If you were asked this particular question, what will be your answer... I swear if you're close to me I will poure you hot water or acid... Shebi you've stayed for long without having anything upstairs to write about, and you now came up with this trash question... Nonsense and ingredients.... Asked this kind of question next time, I swear I will do you "Okwu achi" ... You wan take permission from your wife before you give your Moyer money or anything. You don't deserve to be called a man then. What made you a man then? Anu mpama |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by izubext007: 8:35am On May 16, 2019 |
no, d man should not , abraham never consult sarah b 4 taking isaac 4 sacrifice. secondly , ur wife will never consult u b 4 sending money to her own mother, instead she does it secretly, it's rear b4 any woman would tell her husband b4 sending money to hear mother or pple. so y should u? nd lastly b bold b 4 ur wife u are d head% . |
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