ElRazur:

Also who do this keep happening after years of moving on.

ElRazur:

Also why do this keep happening after years of moving on.

madlady:

Maybe it's because we wonder if we had done things differently "would we be together now" .

rokiatu:

What do you mean?

Any way to the topic, that will entirely depends on the reason for the break up. however I wouldn't mind giving the relationship
a second chance. Maybe you/whoever in this situation is realizing what a precious thing they have just lost.

Remember the phrase ' you never know what you have until you lose it?'  precisely that's the scenario we have here.
If you are the person in question, I advice you quit mucking around and go settle things with this ex of yours.

davidylan:

i think the best thing is to let sleeping dogs lie, there was a reason you left them in the first place. I guess the only thing to take away from such feelings is that sometimes the grass isnt greener on the other side and every woman isnt perfect. Been down that road before but the truth is, its only a matter of time before you begin to wonder why you went back a second time.

My take on this - find someone else. Dont be surprised if your new woman looks almost exactly like her.  

Easy . . . you're lonely . . . and now you're thinking the other chic did have some good sides that you would also like in a new mate. Now you're wondering if you made a bad mistake letting her go afterall the time taken looking for a new person could have been spent building a relationship with the one you lost.

But its life bro . . . you win some you lose some. I remember once waking up in the middle of the night and calling my brother to track down an ex for me after 2 yrs. now i laugh at my own naivety.

ElRazur:

@Davidylan

Lmao at waking up at night and calling your brother. Damn, it must have been one hell of a dream.

ElRazur:

As per the lonely bit, you may have struck a chord there. I haven't viewed it like that and it is weird to think it may be a possibility after years of moving on. I suppose it is exactly this feeling that drives this desire to want to "check it out" again.

--190--:

I have never for once entertained the tot of going bak 2 any of my ex's

Neither do i even think about trying 2 fix wot ever wrong i may have done

Im too busy for all that

and there are too many single special women out there for one to think of going bak 2 one miserable one

Opotuniti:

Really!!
Forget story baby, I must say u dint luv him as such, or else somtin'll likely draw your memories back to those sweet times.
Check out my experience on d following thread, still experiencing it though. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-520296.0.html

IyaBasira:

190 is a Nairaland transsexual.

One day he's a guy, the next day he isn't.

But he has a girlfriend so I'mm pretty sure he's a guy. 

why do u keep saying that

Im feminine and i jst gave my views

There is never anytime i have ever wanted to Turn back the hands of time

Just becos i want to fix whatever went wrong with my ex-BF's what-so-ever

When i see any of my ex's i simply LAFF and exit, infact my presence makes it un-comfy for them

to stay around me, anyway

Omolola1:

You still love this girl. I believe in going after what you want~

IyaBasira:

190 is a Nairaland transsexual.

One day he's a guy, the next day he isn't.

But he has a girlfriend so I'mm pretty sure he's a guy. 

--190--:

^^
what ever opinion u have,

its okay but that wont change the fact that im  female

Although i enjoy postin as a male~

--190--:

^^
okay check my profile in the next 2 minutes!

Seems u dont believe im female!

ElRazur:

Despite polite request for people who cannot engage their brain and contribute to the actual thread to stay away, it is a shame to see them turning this into filth again. How hard is it  for this foooools to just show a bit of common sense for fcccuk sake?

ElRazur:

Yes it should be a discussion about what the topic is, and not posting things that completely derails the thread.  You and your gang are good at this. How hard is it to stay on topic? You really do not have to post in every thread you know.

I won't say much on this, but using common sense once in a while is not such a bad thing you see.

^^
hehehehe, U wont kill me this afternoon wiv ur sudden bust of anger
El, I responded 2 my post,gave my own view before others derailed and asked
me some questions which i quickly answered EL,
Ure making my Afternoon already and i dont know why u get so pissed off these days easily
U werent like dis since i always knew u!

all the same good luck wiv ur post,ive given my opinion!!