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Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by bigsmoke2(m): 1:27am On May 31, 2019 |
VicYo:# Start with what you watch avoiding pornograpgy even some music videos, Instagram too cuz its becoming like soft porn # exercise do a lot of sit-ups daily #pray to God about it and be sincere about it. # avoid being alone as much as possible # get married if you are capable it will help 2 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by jewery(m): 1:33am On May 31, 2019 |
seriously you need a counseling from an experience person in the same issue with you.i am once in your shoes and to God be the glory I have stop although it was not easy but I thank God...well you can contact me on WhatsApp with 08059705983... let's chat,i can give you good guildline on it and I promise and with God grace it will surely stop,be it ordinary or spiritually it will stop without asking a dime from you.... |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by nnadychuks(m): 1:35am On May 31, 2019 |
OP do you have a friend? Do you have a very close friend? Tell him you masturbate. Make sure that your very close friend isn't a girl but a guy you can share deep secret with. You need to acknowledge that you're sick; don't reject this, you're sick OP... why? Because you can't control yourself and your system and that's one of the effects of a disease. You can't control yourself... now you've admitted you're sick and need help ; ☆don't ever let go of your friend I mean follow him wherever he goes, don't ever stay alone in a quiet place... ☆if you live alone, get a sound speaker and play only gospel songs, I promise you it will reduce the urge of masturbating(I suggest Powerflow by Monique. Etc) ☆ always open your windows and jam those gospel songs loud and have this thought in your mind "Everything shall pass away but The LORD remains" ☆if you don't pray, forget what situations you grew up with and start talking to God like he's a FATHER in Your room. ☆Most importantly I'm very sure you have little or no female friends. Maybe few from your childhood, because most guys who masturbate see girls as a sex tool only. Come on man! They are humans oo, they even live worse life than you, they wish they had a friend like you so don't kill yourself over what is right at your doorstep... ☆Research says if you can stop masturbating for 90 days then you've stopped for life. Remember you're sick man, 90 days is your rejuvenation time May the LORD be your strength as HE is mine... VicYo: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by keycash: 1:46am On May 31, 2019 |
VicYo: Please visit MFM prayer city am talking from experience God help us all amen 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 1:51am On May 31, 2019 |
Trust God When you feel like it take a walk read a book or workout or even eat just try to ignore your lust and sexual desires Talk to him Avoid that thing that stimulates you to masturbate like completely cut your self of Pray it works Join a fellowship group and always attend church programs as many as you can so that you won’t have time to go back to masturbate and make sure you take your mind of sexual fantasies when you see something or are about to think about it think of another thing and read your bible frequently more than normal Fast and pray to seek Gods Face Most importantly confess your sin to God and a good Christian trusted friend who would help monitor you and pray with you also help you fight through this Lastly and importantly you must be patient it takes time |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Toseenlove: 1:52am On May 31, 2019 |
ledamaster: 4 Likes
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Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Forreellinc: 1:57am On May 31, 2019 |
blissgregory:Is that u on ur dp? Ya ugly o |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Toseenlove: 1:58am On May 31, 2019 |
soberdrunk: Perhaps the Brown Roof of the house he Is living In Is due for serious repairs lol. Thus the sound of the Cats and Lizards walking on his roof will be Intense. Mad people lol. 3 Likes
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Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by tafat: 2:04am On May 31, 2019 |
may God really help you |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by arrestdarrester: 2:33am On May 31, 2019 |
Acknowledging you have a problem is the first step towards freedom. You have taken the right step. Forget and avoid anyone that tells you that it is not a sin. Surrender your life to the Lord Jesus Christ if you have not done so already. Confess your deliverance no matter how unbelievable it sounds to your own ears. Consistent self-deliverance prayers will get you results. Seek out a confidant. You need a spiritually sound person who can help you with guidance on how to mortify the flesh using the agency of the spirit. You do not need a condemner or legalistic person. You need a strong and compassionate believer as confidant. You must free your mind and thoughts from pornography. Avoid novels with sex scripts and films with sex episodes. They are like the smell of marijuana to the drug addict undergoing rehabilitation. Understand that the battle ground is the mind. Once you win there, you have won everywhere. Don't ever think every thought that comes to you is your own thoughts. Demons plant thoughts and make it look like yours. You must reject fleshly thoughts and actively replace such thoughts with spiritual and productive ones. Avoid being alone. You will get to a point where you can be alone without a worry, but not yet. Being alone is the opportunity for an addiction like this to reoccur. Be hot in scripture and in prayers. With time and practice, reading, speaking and praying the word will become a habit. Once you conquer this fleshly sin, you will be surprised how direct temptations to fornicate become useless to you. You will be strong. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Mustiboy(m): 2:49am On May 31, 2019 |
But what's wrong with masturbating? 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 2:57am On May 31, 2019 |
Mustiboy: Nothing. It is a relaxing form of exercise. I don't know why most people feel upbeat about it. Anyway, with Nigerians, trivialities and hypocrisy are inseparable. 3 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 2:58am On May 31, 2019 |
crackhouse: You crack me up. ![]() |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by EmmGee: 2:59am On May 31, 2019 |
Queenkofoworola:you have to take it little by little. its difficult because it is an addiction. you can't just wake up one day and become unaddicted. you might relapse but you must always make sure you're making progress i.e not relapsing like before. this is true for all addictions. but i hear por.n and masturbation is the worst |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by omobaba1759: 3:25am On May 31, 2019 |
Dansaki Brother. This your analysis is one in town . I never heard that someone that masturbate will never be rich nor spritual wife/husband or whatsoever crap you're trying to say . Masturbation is part of life even the one's that are married still do it, Couples may also mutually masturbate to explore different desires, as well as avoid pregnancy. Some people may feel guilty about masturbating because of cultural, spiritual, or religious beliefs.Masturbation is neither wrong nor immoral, but you may still hear messages that self-pleasure is “dirty” and “shameful.”If you feel guilty over masturbating, speak with someone you trust about why you feel this way and how you can move past that guilt. Therapists that specialize in sexual health may be a good resource. From my own of view, Masturbation helps me sleep better after crazy day or week, it's relieve built-up stress, to even have better sex.In fact, it’s the safest way to have sexual pleasure there is — there’s no risk of pregnancy or STDs. So don't be giving us all this Nollywood Africa magic story . ledamaster: 3 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by fox26: 3:27am On May 31, 2019 |
darol4real: ![]() ![]() ![]() That will not work. The young man is making a lot of sperms, he has to get it out of his body. Please organize him a lady, |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by kennsville(m): 3:28am On May 31, 2019 |
You have to cut something... Either the hand or the penis. One has to go. |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Inspiration2017: 3:31am On May 31, 2019 |
I give my sexlife to God. That aspect you don't give to God can bring u down |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by cooltola(m): 3:33am On May 31, 2019 |
Mine |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Inspiration2017: 3:34am On May 31, 2019 |
If u think there is any aspect of your life u can control without God, it is a lie. 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Inspiration2017: 3:39am On May 31, 2019 |
That aspect of your life u don't give to God will disgrace u |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Chizim1: 3:40am On May 31, 2019 |
Masturbation demoralises, however, its a habit that must be replaced with another habit. Avoid being alone, meet a counsellor. Be discipline. 2 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Iykman042(m): 3:43am On May 31, 2019 |
It is nt easy o, girls make sex so difficult this days, |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Rexdraxler1(m): 3:45am On May 31, 2019 |
Masturbation? That's somtin dat almost cripple my life for 4yrs. Though i was neva d women type, i met ds muslim guy whom on our worldly discussion one day mentioned dat 2 me hw he achieve his sexual urge. That discussion stucked in my mine & dat very day, as i went in2 d bathroom d urge came upon me. I began 2 massage my dick using soap until it became errected & d sperm came out.It became so used 2 me dat each time i took my bath for 2-3tyms a day, i must masturbate 2-3 tyms. Weneva am lonly,dat spirit of sex wil come upon & i wil begin 2 find my way 2 d bathroom.D mistake & decision wch took me just a day 2 make, took me 4 & a half year 2 get rid of it. It ws rlly killing me spiritually & i hated dat frnd 4 it, i cld nt communicate it 2 any1 nt even my pastor because i became so ashame each tym i went 2 him.Hw do i stop it?By meditating d word of God & remembering d punishment wch await sinners.Each i went 2 bathroom i will remember those tins, somtyms i cld spend an hour or more in d bathroom wtout bathing. 3 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Fash20: 3:53am On May 31, 2019 |
franklingud: Lol... Was it masturbation that conquered you or you conquered masturbation |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by ogene144(m): 3:59am On May 31, 2019 |
VicYo:make I hook u up with a lady that wil Bleep the hell out of U |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Rexdraxler1(m): 4:02am On May 31, 2019 |
.... Without bathing. With the soap on my hands i will be thinking abt God's punishment for me and then i will become weaken in the flesh. Though sometimes the flesh cld overcame the spirit. To cut this story short, I did that for quite a lng time but glory be to God who has delivered me. I can't remember the last time i masturbated but i stopped since last year. So my dear brother, it is ur mindset (study romans 8:1-13 & galatians 5:22-26). Pray in d spirit because d sexual especially masturbation is a deadly one. U can call me for a private discussion. ==07082867375== i pray the lord heals and deliver u soon. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Actuarydeji(m): 4:07am On May 31, 2019 |
VicYo:Go and get yourself a job. Once you are engaged with work you won't have time to be thinking about sex. 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by kbright2(m): 4:09am On May 31, 2019 |
That is why I can never send my child to boarding school, most times it can lead to destruction of child destiny. |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by crowley(m): 4:09am On May 31, 2019 |
MissRaine69:I see fence.... |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by kbright2(m): 4:24am On May 31, 2019 |
lefulefu:Guy! Listening to wise men advise. Masturbation can stop you from having babies, a friend is facing that now. So the earlier he stops the better for him |
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