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Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Lexusgs430: 6:26am On Jun 03, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: Speak to your boss in confidence............. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by RichBoy247: 6:30am On Jun 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: 1 thessalonians 4:11-12
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Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 6:37am On Jun 03, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: Do everything you can to.limit contact before you loose guard one day. After you don limit contact, let oga know why. He knows you know already. He simply trust you not to ruin his family peace. So run 300meters from her and if she ask you, simply tell her it seems she does not trust you, you hate to be around persons who don't trust you, it makes you uncomfortable. Simple. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Changethechain: 6:45am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Don't involve yourself, leave things the way they are.. That is the smartest decision to make 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by yelinco1(m): 6:52am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Don't say Nana. Focus on your job my brother. If you say anything about your oga's private life to his wife, you'll end up losing that job. Meanwhile, don't go too close to the wife, he might set you up to get rid of you in that chin company so that she can fix her own pet. Remember Joseph and his oga's wife in Te bible o. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by GraGra247(m): 6:54am On Jun 03, 2019 |
RichBoy247: If you were minding your business, you won’t be parading online to look for who to quote scripture for. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by EmekaBlue(m): 7:07am On Jun 03, 2019 |
fvck her behind d scene |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by yorex2011: 7:11am On Jun 03, 2019 |
This woman might set you up if you're not careful. If she needs her husband's whereabouts she should ask him. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 7:12am On Jun 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: This will never work...first the woman will.never appreciate your amebo skills well do you really need it. The womb will u and dump you. Protect you boss...tell him a little about everything . Now for your boss wife to put up am attribute after the Bleep trip to kaduna and kano Dem that mean She get insider in that same company as well. Protect ur job.....move the equipment away and have less contact with her ok Job scare sha. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by yorex2011: 7:13am On Jun 03, 2019 |
What if she uses nairaland... ![]() You don expose everything already bro. You shouldn't have put all those details eg states you visited and stuff like equipment in their home |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Slurity(m): 7:14am On Jun 03, 2019 |
correctyourself:even if it was a cooked up story there is sense that others can learn from it. Person like you is evil and will like to press down others for you alone to shine. I am sorry for your friends |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by trapQ: 7:16am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Telling your boss spells doom. Your boss will go home and interrogate his wife and they will resolve to sack you because the husband may no longer trust that you can keep his secret for much longer. So in other to keep your job, don't say nothing to both parties. kennybabs1980: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by trapQ: 7:20am On Jun 03, 2019 |
So the man who is cheating on his wife with anything that crawls including his secretary is not unfortunate. Lol the level of double standards in this forum though. Acidosis: 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by SEGLIZ: 7:28am On Jun 03, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: if he question your actions, it's simple tell his you feel safe and comfortable taking those assignments from home rather than the usual. just a change of your working environment for some time. that is all you need. YOU SAY NOTHIMG COS YOU'VE SEEN NOTHING. stay safe sir. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by frozen70(f): 7:32am On Jun 03, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: You are very smart and I commend you for that I suggest you inform your boss and tell him that you want to confide in him and he should pls keep it secret Let him know that your job is at stake if he divulge anything you want to tell him to anyone including his wife It's going to be a top secret between you and him Now tell him what the wife has been doing and how she started being nice to you if recent and what followed it Let him know that his wife wants to get information of his escapeds from you and since you are not letting out any favourable information she is not pleased with you Suggest to him to allow you take some of the machines or equipment to your house so that you can stay a little bit far away from the house where she won't be seeing you He will appreciate all the secrets you have been keeping to protect him and am very sure he will play his game well without letting her know where the information is coming from. Pls remain the standard you have created by not letting any information out and maintain your ground that when you travel, you lodge in different rooms and doesn't know if anyone comes or not |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Acidosis(m): 7:34am On Jun 03, 2019 |
trapQ: A lot of people already had condemned the man so there was no point repeating the same view. At least, the woman knows her husband is a known cheat, so there is really no point crying more than the bereaved. My main concern is the man who married that secretary. I called him unfortunate because unlike oga's wife, it is possible he has no idea what his wife does with her boss. She could be someone's wife here on Nairaland, in fact. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by richieray: 7:37am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Continue to mind your businesses, them no dey put mouth for love matter,after all said and done,it will be a case of when two elephants fight, the grasses suffer. make them no put you for middle. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by GraGra247(m): 7:41am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Celestial777: Please quote the poster and not me. I'm not the victim. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by kophy(m): 7:46am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Mutemenot:. You are absolutely right, if he keep mum it dangerous and he talks lousely it will affect the boss marriage and in the end will hunt him also. So I agree with you in totality. Tump up |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by OILOFGLADNESS: 8:05am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Mutemenot:VERY GOOD ADVISE BUT I WILL ADD THAT HE DONT ALSO ACT AS IF HE IS SUPPORTING THE MAN, COS ADULTERY IS EVIL, BE OPEN TO THE MAN AND TELL HIM THAT U DONT WANT TO CAUSE PROBLEMS IN HIS HOME, THAT YOU WANT TO BE DISTANCE FROM THE WIFE TO AVOID HER ASKING HIM SENSITIVE QUESTIONS |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 8:09am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Better be careful... The woman want to use u as instrument. Everything will bance back on u..... |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by OILOFGLADNESS: 8:09am On Jun 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: I WEAK!!!!! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by OILOFGLADNESS: 8:10am On Jun 03, 2019 |
[quote author=Akinola234 post=78971298]Better be careful... The woman want to use u as instrument. Everything will bance back on u..... [/quote THAT IS WHY HE IS ASKING FOR ADVISE!!! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by sameereinstein(m): 8:11am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Suzie1:Finally, someome that's seeing things from my angle. 48 laws of power is still my favourite book |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by addicted268(f): 8:14am On Jun 03, 2019 |
etrange: I totally support this. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by ugorom: 8:28am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Bro thank you for your sincerity.My humble advice is as simple as this:Stay on your job description(s),it is never your business to tell the wife the womanizing attitudes of your boss and to tell your boss his wife's attitude,that is the exclusive responsibilities of the Priests or Imams.Husband and wife matter no dey show face when madam and oga dey hot for inside bedroom,they go use u settle their mata.FOCUS ON JOB DESCRIPTIONS 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by benjanny(m): 8:31am On Jun 03, 2019 |
You are already handling the issue in the rightful manner.Keep it up 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Ogechux(m): 8:34am On Jun 03, 2019 |
GraGra247: DON'T EVER SNITCH on your Boss.... whether anonymously or not! It would be in your interest to confide in your Boss as regards to what his wife is up to. It's not your responsibility to snitch on your Boss. Apply wisdom! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by lizarazus(m): 8:35am On Jun 03, 2019 |
From your write-up, your boss wife has another informant, but it might not be a sure source. What you just have to do is talk to your boss about it. He should know how to handle the issue maturely cuz the wife might decide to implicate you, maybe getting you fired or worst. My brother, be careful and best of luck |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by T4kbaba(m): 8:39am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Mutemenot: Bad nigga ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by RZArecta2(m): 8:57am On Jun 03, 2019 |
kennybabs1980:an old soldier friend who’s late now always used to tell me “no put mouth for prick and tôto matter” and I learned my lesson the hard way. If you tell your boss or report him to his wife, they’ll still settle their differences and you’ll be in the middle, you’ll even be sacked. Don’t mind anyone deceiving you to send anonymous texts and it’ll be crazy to resign from the job in this present economy, your best bet is to reduce anything that will take you to that house as you suggested. If you must go, you owe her only greeting and no shining of teeth nor eating her food. She’s bound to clash with her husband one day and mention your name as his accomplice which will free you because the you can explain to him what you’ve been going through with her. Na small matter my brother, just free your mind. Wetin concern you na your salary, experience and connections made not her friendship 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 9:00am On Jun 03, 2019 |
I'm sure you must've settled this matter as you intended to move out and fix equipment elsewhere. If this move doesn't work and she still wants information from you, simply lie to her that she has the best husband in the world and that her Inquisition will ruin her happy home. If she is wise, She'll know that you have no info to share with her and that her moves will ruin her family. |
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