Both of them did wrong! But to me the man is to be blamed more. If not for cheating then maybe for getting caught.

it can never happen in NIgeria

Maybe she established the shop for the man.

If that is the case she has right to so what pleases her

Good act, but it does not stop him from doing more and worst

XTHRONE:
it can never happen in NIgeria

Or make person no jam such. It can bro!

As a man, it is very important for your wife to know that you have a dosage of madness.

Very important.

And the husband can't beat out the demon living in her.

Smh...

She destroyed things. Instead of killing him quietly. He's lucky

PURELY MADNESS..COULD THIS THEN BE CALLED LOVE?

breakerofchains:



Oga shut up.

Not everyone is a Christian.

This is how they justify trash with religion but be the ones talking about virtuous woman.

Those women who waste their time trying to be virtuous wife materials, see the kind of men you are stressing yourself over.
They will do anything to justify treating you badly yet hold you to stupid moral standards.

F*ck these bitches and live your life however you wish.

The p*say wide? Let the motherfucker sink in it.

Sorry to say, but that was an insult to the guy you quoted.
An expensive insult indeed. With due respect, we have to respect each other opinion. Stay blessed.

The lady's approach is very wrong. Unbeknownst to her, she is destroying her stuff too and wasting resources. But why would her husband cheat on her?

shop wey she rent and stock for d man na she dey destroy

tydi:


Read the old testament in the Bible you would see its the nature of the man to sleep or take more than a woman but am ain't among the bandwagon of men are polygamous in nature. Its that the woman took it the wrong way, what happened to dialogue with her husband, what happened to her talking a walk if she felt her feelings has been betrayed, what if she came to found out lastly that he didn't actually cheat, what happened to the future of their kids.. Well since I was little I grew up to know that women acts before they think.

we nigerian men we always try to justify any of our wrong doins with bible or koran

This woman no go kill person..

Mumu men problems.

Try that shit with a blood man and you'll meet your creator. What am I even saying... These bitches wouldn't dare try that with a correct man.

Mumu men carry your burden.

ebonyggurl:


Until you've been in someone else's shoes, don't come and tell us that they over-reacted. You try falling in love...get married...have kids...then learn that your other half who is supposed to respect the sanctity of your union violated it. Maybe you'll sit and calmly ask "baby what drove you to it?"

But destroying properties is not the way to go.

tydi:


Read the old testament in the Bible you would see its the nature of the man to sleep or take more than a woman but am ain't among the bandwagon of men are polygamous in nature. Its that the woman took it the wrong way, what happened to dialogue with her husband, what happened to her talking a walk if she felt her feelings has been betrayed, what if she came to found out lastly that he didn't actually cheat, what happened to the future of their kids.. Well since I was little I grew up to know that women acts before they think.

How about men who beat their wives to a coma, while macheting her if she cheats then divorces her. Is that one not worse?
What do u call such man?

Or men who outrightly divorce without checking if she actually cheated or not.. Which one worse pass?

At least she will destroy his shop and still go back home waiting for him and give him earful of insults.. Lol

Then seat put again as his wife. Lol

Chai! Some women are suffering in marriages.

lefulefu:
we nigerian men we always try to justify any of our wrong doins with bible or koran

The truths are boldly written there.

And what are our wrong doings? lefulefu

Imoh555:
Nairaland has turned everyone to age mates insults and tribalism flying upandan

If she's my wife I'll slap her destiny away... The man to is an ass

Oga ancestor, you'll slap despite you being the cheat?

If she cheats, you'll slap her. If you cheat, you'll still slap her. Keep slapping cause you're physically stronger but obviously not mature enough to keep a wife ....

ebonyggurl:

The man who cheated nko? He fell from heaven abi?

are you minding them

victorian:








How about men who beat their wives to a coma, while macheting her if she cheats then divorces her. Is that one not worse?
What do u call such man?

Or men who outrightly divorce without checking if she actually cheated or not.. Which one worse pass?

At least she will destroy his shop and still go back home waiting for him and give him earful of insults.. Lol

Then seat put again as his wife. Lol

Chai! Some women are suffering in marriages.

Women are suffering in our society... the male folkes are so insensitive and bias.

breakerofchains:



Oga shut up.

Not everyone is a Christian.

This is how they justify trash with religion but be the ones talking about virtuous woman.

Those women who waste their time trying to be virtuous wife materials, see the kind of men you are stressing yourself over.
They will do anything to justify treating you badly yet hold you to stupid moral standards.

F*ck these bitches and live your life however you wish.

The p*say wide? Let the motherfucker sink in it.

nice one

lefulefu:
we nigerian men we always try to justify any of our wrong doins with bible or koran

Don't mind that one... he doesn't count.

GeneralPula:
Both of them did wrong! But to me the man is to be blamed more. If not for cheating then maybe for getting caught.

Thank you for being objective. You'll live long.

etrange:
Watch them criticise and call the women folks names while the dog of a husband goes free. You guys need to realise the dynamics of amorous relationships. If a lady cheats, most man would throw her out without a second thought cause the society has made it easier for the male partner to move on. When a man cheats, the lady is always helpless. This, coupled with the fact that people take cheating on the male side more lightly, only heightens the emotions. She might eventually move on but most times, not without unleashing her anger her best possible means.

Truth be told, the lady in question might have allowed her anger to take the lead but all these could have been avoided if the man had known when to zip up. So OP, while calling out the lady for her extreme actions, don't fail to call out the man for his waywardnes. Don't go into a relationship if you're not ready. It's painful when a faithful partner is cheated!

nice one

tydi:


The truths are boldly written there.

And what are our wrong doings? lefulefu

how can someone cheat on his wife and u using bible to justify it.if he wants another woman he can go pay dowry and marry a second wife instead of carrying another woman behind his wife's back.

Alusman:
The lady's approach is very wrong. Unbeknownst to her, she is destroying her stuff too and wasting resources. But why would her husband cheat on her?

good question

Hell they said, hath no fury like a woman scorned

Ikpeazukerosene:
As a man, it is very important for your wife to know that you have a dosage of madness.

Very important.

You have spoken like a true man.no wife can try this with me irrespective of who is at fault.