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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by tunwumi: 5:32am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Don't let your emotion do thinking for you. Hold back and ponder. if you still love him you will have to think properly before you act as his actions are just in tales while yours will be in public view with many witnesses. i will have love to ask some private question from your but you don't need advise. So be calm before you make any decision. nothing you do in anger will be positive! Needtolove: |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:33am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove: wow |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:36am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Jentle244: I hope you would say the same think (divorce is never a way out) when your wife, or your brother wife cheats on you/brother brazenly |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by chris51(f): 5:37am On Jun 05, 2019 |
I am advising you as a grand mother. I have been married for almost 50 years. Please in the name of Almighty God, DO NOT pack out of the house. Ignore your husband and his girlfriend. Concentrate on taking good care of yourself and the family. It's a hard thing to do but I assure you, this is the best way to handle the situation. Reduce the financial contribution you make in the house. Opportunity will come for you to punish your husband psychologically. Before you know it, he will see another girl and dump this one. My dear girl, just make yourself beautiful and demand more money from your husband. God will grant you patience to deal with the situation. Your weapon is that you own the man and your home. Make yourself financially independent. Don't allow anyone talk you into leaving. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:37am On Jun 05, 2019 |
enemachris: this is another factor as well 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by chris51(f): 5:38am On Jun 05, 2019 |
chris51: |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by bellotaofeek: 5:38am On Jun 05, 2019 |
So sad. Sorry momma ! Hope they never jinx your husband . ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Mercy1212: 5:39am On Jun 05, 2019 |
I suggest you stay calm at the moment Ma, if you aren't working or doing business get yourselves busy, that will help in keeping your state of mind focused on something, while you trust God your husband will acknowledge his mistakes and come back to you. Above all build a great self esteem by looking good,it has a way of making him realize you also get attention from other people and Men hate to be competitive. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:47am On Jun 05, 2019 |
chris51: Don't take this the wrong way madam.... but it is advice like this, and your generation of women and how they conditioned the societal expectation of men and women that is to blame for all these foolishness of men that we see today Whether she should leave ot stay is up to her, but as a man, i I know for sure that it is the leeway women have given MEN that is to blame for all these foolishness This mentality has no place in 2019 If you women have stood up and set better standards men in Nigeria would respect their wives more (at least even if he is playing away match, he will respect his wife and keep it far away from her, and MAKE sure that the side piece knows her place and never disrespect the wife) But because of advice like this, and what women have allowed, the INCENTIVE for men to misbehave in this manner has made a lot of them to..... . when a man knows he is at risk of losing his precious family /knows that grave consequences will follow with his cheating /disrespect, he will 1) Do the right thing and respect himself and his wife and zip up or 2) Play his away games FAR away from his wife, and keep it away from her and at least pretend to respect her There is NO way I'm raising my precious daughters to have this kind of conditioning and mindset. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by FASASI1(m): 5:48am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Some people are crazy any small thing prayer any big thing prayer and this are the people that will pray and won't work but they will always expect positive result. Let me tell you something why do you think USA, Dubai etc is better than Nigeria?? It's because they pray and work towards the prayer unlike Nigeria who will praythen sit back and expect miracles fucking country 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:49am On Jun 05, 2019 |
FASASI1: Cool down brother ![]() no need to vex 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by BitmapStudios: 5:50am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Boss13:Are we truly gonna be okay with ourselves if we later read a pm news of an escalated incidence, alas it was true? But, I do understand your angle and I'm sure you do mine, I'm just tired of sad news one chat could have averted sir, honestly. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 5:53am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Mercy1212: oh man *facepalm* And you wonder why women are treated the way they are in Nigeria ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by toluwa1(f): 5:57am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Its just so difficult for people to be faithful |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by robinsoncrosoe: 5:57am On Jun 05, 2019 |
truthsayer009:My first time commenting on relationship issues .I don't really do it cos we don't get to hear the other side of the story.this story is from one source. But if this story is true, then I blame most women.as u asked her if she didn't notice during their courtship days...most of them won't because they didn't have time to examine the man coming to marry them They just marry the man with money who can take care of them.then when he starts misbehaving, they come here to say all men are same and blap crap When u marry a friend that understands u ,u will hardly see things like this. For the fact he cheated and is not remorseful shows u how worthless u are to him 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 6:00am On Jun 05, 2019 |
robinsoncrosoe: you have raised another valid point but that MAY not be the case wirt the OP 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Livefreeordieha(m): 6:02am On Jun 05, 2019 |
kennygee:Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter.. That comment ends it all. 3 sides to a story.. Ur side my side and the truth.. In economics demand pull inflation... No smoke without fire.. I pray they find a solution.. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Sanchez01: 6:04am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo:Stupidity on all sides... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by okoroemeka(m): 6:05am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove:hmm,so because your husband is cheating you want to quit the marriage,let me remind you that marriage supposed to be for better or worse, chickening out to marry another person will not solve the problem,do you know who next you will marry? will he be worse?a cheater+wife beater?if running away is your solution for your husband cheating,then you are wrong,if you go even temporarily,your husband will take in the other woman, several times in my 20 years of marriage,my wife has caught me red handed, even on one occasion her sister and on another her cousin,but she didn't chicken out,she tried and succeeded in making me a better man. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Emaprince: 6:05am On Jun 05, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:Then, I hope you yourself do not ever cheat on anybody. Because you Nigerian women are the worst cheats in this world. You are just good in hiding it and sniffing around your man to catch him in the act. This is why karma catches many if you later in your marriages. Heck who knows how many hearts OP might have destroyed in the past. It is easy for women to act the victim and you will never know of their dark sides too. Karma might be the reason she got this man. You should remain single forever. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Unrated900(m): 6:09am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Madam listen to me The voice of man is the voice of God Don't do anything funny or anything that hurts Remember you have a baby Dont kill cos you cannot wake Anger is a small madness so do nothing while you angry,because what you will loose will be more than what causes your angry. Once again calm down.. Am a married man with kids to a pretty wife like you,I know how it hurts cheating and making it open. Please calm down, I av a very good advise that will yield your life,email me,not every thing should be said here.. I feel your pain. Once again remain calm.you can overcome this madam believe in your self,you are a good woman the best amidst the best a pretty woman from a generation of gold,you are wonderfully made,it is well with you in Jesus name. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Realbelieveer(m): 6:12am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Relax. I have this female friend who faced something similar to this. The concubine even use to call the lady that soon she will take over fully. Husband said she's not fat and breast issues. After 2 lovely kids. For 6months no sex. One year no sex. She told me the story and I was like should I help u to set them up? Then I realized this my friend is dressing like how I use to know her. She now acts as the regular wrapper wearing wife. Thats where I started from. She got new clothes that wer looking good.. Good perfumes. Started making up and going out, sometimes she jus. Chill in a bar get some little drinks, forget the husband, hang out with friends. He dare not beat u. Report case of attempting murder. The rest is in your hands. Cux u will be exposed to mehn. No matter how fat or slim u are. Every woman has a guy that can die for her taste. Don't disturb your self about him. He's not thinking about u so? Its not the devils handwork. He's jus a madman. One day e go heal am Mind you if u need sex* fvck a dick that is matured* u need to feel like a woman too |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Emaprince: 6:16am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Reading all the posts of the females in this thread. ..imagine if it was a man complaining, their contributions would have predictably been: 1 - OP have you ever cheated on your wife before? If so, then you have no reason to complain. 2- May be you are not giving her a good sex, that's why she is getting it from your neighbour. 3- Your absence from home due to your pursuance of money is leaving her lonely all the time. We are human, body no be firewood. None of them bitches will blame the woman. Na the mans fault dem go dey find. My question is: how was the OPs past? Most of these girls who are shattering several hearts of young men end up getting their karma served real cold later in their lives. Have the OP cheated on her hubby before? You can never trust these pretentious women. Does she deny him sex? Their are many things that could be the reason why a man misbehaves too. That excuse is not only for women. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Unrated900(m): 6:16am On Jun 05, 2019 |
SageMK: Too much sense 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Unrated900(m): 6:19am On Jun 05, 2019 |
olril17: That advice of that man above is shallow,the woman should support her with money do exercise and stuffs, didn't the idiot man saw her before he wanted her... A responsible husband gives good moral advice while a street man or guys gives snake line advise. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by LordsApostle: 6:24am On Jun 05, 2019 |
chris51: 50 years ![]() ![]() ![]() Mama, you shouldn't be here oh!!! |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Amuocha: 6:26am On Jun 05, 2019 |
But where is lalasticlala sef ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Dottore: 6:28am On Jun 05, 2019 |
sisisioge:Sounds good and vengeful enough but doesn't work with wicked people. A woman I know did very similar thing, she sold 2 ploys of land that her cheating and abusive husband had wanted to use to set up a factory and ran away with her only child. The man swore not to rest. He went diabolical. He was frequenting somewhere in Kogi State all of a sudden the woman was brought back to Nigeria a few months later battling a strange illness that left her in a vegetable state. Every where her family people went they were told to go and make peace with the man first. Wicked world isn't it? |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 6:29am On Jun 05, 2019 |
chukwuibuipob: Then what's the solution, suffering and dying slowly.. Some of you are just too wicked but you don't even know it. Please don't quote me again. OP I repeat, leave that marriage. There's happiness in this world. Leave that your crusty husband. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 6:30am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Acidosis: Stop this kind of childish blames...She didn't fail in any way... I know a man who married the wife a Virgin. A spiritually focused brother, but he opened up in tears last month that he is cheating on the wife for the last 2months. Life doesn't depend on how smart you are if it will play a script to teach you something it will...just pray the script is not more than what you can bear. |
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