A friend of mine has a sister who is 18yr of age and she is pregnant.Now the problem is that the girl is too early to be a mother,and d guy who did it,is denying it.Now my friend is seeking for my advise. Please help me to advise my friend.

Is it advisible,for my friend to take the sis to another vilage where she wil deliver in absence of the neighbours,to avoid embarassment.

his sister should be educated on the consequences of having unprotected sex first off then take the girl to the guys family and let them know what is going on because the point of feeling shame is passed. Then let the father and mother to be decide what they want to do because non of the family members were there while they were sexing without a condom

I see to that

The girl in question is 4 months gone into the pregnancy. So inked nerd which now is d best.

What if the family has ruled out abortion, because of shame and blood shade. According to u she wil now let wit two optns.Which should be the best now?Or do surport family on d abortn thing?

Please sis inked nerd,help me get ur friends involved on this issues,so that there wil be so many opinions and optns to choose from,i need to advice my friend.

First off, 18 is not too young to be pregnant, in my moms case, she married at 19 years.

If the girl is fine, ii mean really sexy. I could claim the child

But jokes apart, her parents should be informed, so what ever decision is taken and the consequences, will not be born by the innocent bros, who never made her open her two tiny laps!

Like the nerd put it. Tell your friend to tell his sister to tell her papa and mama cause if he take it directly, he might get a big slap first,

give her panadol as my guy 190 prescribe when i needed u guyz help for abortion pill or beta still ask the guy may e do d thing again because minus minus =plus

If the baby is four months its too late to abort. Its not just a foetus anymore it has child features, hands, face, everything. She should look at adoption if she doesnt want to be a mother. Im wondering why she is not educated on protection at her age. Apart from pregnancy what about the diseases. But please beg her to not abort at this stage. Its barbaric at this stage! As Inked said, she needs to reaserch or you can do it for her if she doesnt have a computer.

Inked_Nerd:


The poster never mentioned that the girl had unprotected sex.
@OP: Hmmm, if your friend and his sister still live with the parents then I would advise you to tell him to tell his sister to tell their parents. If they don't live with the parents, I would say just as omega25red has said, take her to the family of the young man in question and inform them of what is going on. If possible, try to go to a clinic or hospital to do a DNA test since the father of the child is denying the child. If the family rejects your friends sister, then it is now up to her to decide what she will want to do. She needs to explore various options. At this point, she has three options; abortion, adoption, and parenting. I suggest that she do some research before she makes any major decisions. It may also help to weigh the benefits and risks of each one. Think about which benefits and risks are most important to you. If the abortion route is the way she wants to go then she needs to find out far far along she is in the pregnancy; the next step would be to find a reputable doctor. If the abortion route isn't an option she can look into adoption. Since I don't know where your friend and his sister live, I can't really give much information about the adoption route. All I can really say is that she needs to do a lot of research. If the parenting route is the way she wants to go then she should be prepared to accept the responsibilities of parenthood.

How did she get preg then?

what kinda condom is dat?

Inked_Nerd:


What do you mean "What kind of condom is that?" It doesn't matter what kind it is. Condoms break!!! If you don't know it then know it now!!! Just because you haven't had a condom break when you use it doesn't happen. Smmfh.

can we chat on yahoo messenger,add me up my id is ufeli_ocp@yahoo.com.waiting,

pauloman:


can we chat on yahoo messenger,add me up my id is ufeli_ocp@yahoo.com.waiting,

Inked_Nerd:

What for? The man is asking for advice and you want to chat me up?

classic!!!!!

pauloman:


can we chat on yahoo messenger,add me up my id is ufeli_ocp@yahoo.com.waiting,

Mission failed

Inked_Nerd:


Ummm hello, condoms break!!!

I know condom do break but that wasn't mentioned in the initial post either.

Inked_Nerd:

What for? The man is asking for advice and you want to chat me up?

LOL, to give you a lecture or two, there's notin wrong in chatting u up is there? and mind you we are giving him the needed advice already, i think

justwise:

Mission failed

hey bro, what mission if i may ask?

Inked_Nerd:


I never said that it was. That's why I told omega25red that the poster never mentioned that the girl had unprotected sex since omega25red mentioned unprotected sex [sorry omega25red, not tryin' to call you out or anything]. It seemed like he was jumping to conclusions. I try not to assume things when I type which is why I pointed it out.

Lecture on what? Are you a professor?

well nerd, there is only one way to find out, get on the chat with me

Inked_Nerd:


I'm going to be very honest with you, I don't think this is appropriate to be doing on someone's thread. Especially with a matter as serious as this .

guess ur right, but i think ur making my initial request a big deal when its not.but its ok i take it back.have a nice time

Inked_Nerd:


I'm sorry but I wasn't trying to come across as rude or anything. Its just that I felt that this wasn't the time or place for you to have given me your e-mail address. Please don't be offended by the way I said it. I meant no harm.

its ok though,no problemo!!its just that i expected u too handle everything a lot more maturedly considering your antecedents on here.but its alright ,may be i was expecting too much