Oluromantic:
Pastorrrr, o ti ya werey!

18 year old girl.. wetin guys with swag dey find hard to keep. You know the kind adventure engine weh teenage girls carry?

Oluromantic:
Pastorrrr, o ti ya werey!

18 year old girl.. wetin guys with swag dey find hard to keep. You know the kind adventure engine weh teenage girls carry?

Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.

I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.

Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.

I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.

Pls I need hints!

SmellingAnus:
what if she tells you NO; sees you as a pervert on pulpit and she stops coming to the fellowship because of you... The way you dey go, you fit rape that babe if only both of una dey the same room ..

Okay let me assist you...


Just tell her you want to start a serious relationship with her that could lead to marriage although you want the relationship to be without sex till when maybe both of you get married...

SmellingAnus:
what if she tells you NO; sees you as a pervert on pulpit and she stops coming to the fellowship because of you... The way you dey go, you fit rape that babe if only both of una dey the same room ..

Okay let me assist you...


Just tell her you want to start a serious relationship with her that could lead to marriage although you want the relationship to be without sex till when maybe both of you get married...

SmellingAnus:
what if she tells you NO; sees you as a pervert on pulpit and she stops coming to the fellowship because of you... The way you dey go, you fit rape that babe if only both of una dey the same room ..

Okay let me assist you...


Just tell her you want to start a serious relationship with her that could lead to marriage although you want the relationship to be without sex till when maybe both of you get married...

Swizbank:


I

I don't understand your language. But I don't want to make her a girlfriend. If I want girlfriend It won't be my fellowship member, and it won't be such age.

I want her as a wife, possibly in 3 yrs time.

Thnx

Victorisoni3:
Hmm is she not too young for dat In terms of marriage
U no say her eye go de shine
She may not want to be tied down by one person

Swizbank:


I told u my age. To tell you that if sex is my problem, I knw where to get it. I can't even invite her to my room.

I have been in relationships , and am tired. So am no more a kid that is desperate about things in skirt. Am above that level bro, by the Grace of God any way.

Don't you think, telling her abt relationship will be too direct. She may not have that mental capacity to decipher my submissions.

Victorisoni3:

abi
How easy will that be

stupidity:
naahh, the OP wants to fvck. I can see it from the post. He’s dlck is hard on seeing the girl sef

stupidity:
naahh, the OP wants to fvck. I can see it from the post. He’s dlck is hard on seeing the girl sef

SmellingAnus:
not at all... Just put it the way I said... Come back and thank me with one sachet of pure water... I am waiting for your testimony...

SmellingAnus:
what if she tells you NO; sees you as a pervert on pulpit and she stops coming to the fellowship because of you... The way you dey go, you fit rape that babe if only both of una dey the same room ..

Okay let me assist you...


Just tell her you want to start a serious relationship with her that could lead to marriage although you want the relationship to be without sex till when maybe both of you get married...

Oluromantic:

An 18 year old is not even mature to keep secrets of her pastor, she will ignite his emotions to the level that he won't focus aptly on his duties anymore as he should and when he tries to resist temptation, she may manipulate him or even cast his name in open rumors among the brethren. It takes maturity to look over some certain issues in the church.. especially women. This one is too young for such maturity

Besides op, what happens to the appropriate hierarchy of a male Christian.. your God, ur career before your woman. Finish and get a job. As long as God is concerned, your wife may not even be in that campus. So don't let ur desires ride over God's plan for you. You're infatuated.

Oluromantic:

An 18 year old is not even mature to keep secrets of her pastor. She will ignite his emotions to the level that he won't focus aptly on his duties anymore as he should and when he tries to resist temptation, rejection would make her manipulate him or even cast his name in open rumors among the brethren. It takes maturity to look over some certain issues from the church pulpit.. and Involving a woman, this one is obviously too young for such maturity.

Besides OP, what happens to the appropriate hierarchy of a male Christian.. your God, ur career before your marriage. Finish and get a job. As long as God is concerned, your wife may not even be in that campus. So don't let ur desires ride over God's plan for you. You're infatuated.

Swizbank:

Thanks . but your last sentence is wrong. Delete it. Maybe I also need to tell you that am in final year.

stupidity:
naahh, the OP wants to fvck. I can see it from the post. He’s dlck is hard on seeing the girl sef

Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.

I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.

Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.

I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.

Pls I need hints!

dingbang:
28-18 = 10 years.

The first day you saw her, electric shock you.... (Lust, infatuation)

You are ready to secure her before any other man does that. ( please oga, her father is still securing her!)


You even spoke to her and maintained your yarns to "how is your prayer life" ( oga leave all these small small girls alone and focus on your ministry)

Swizbank:


It only takes a thief to recognize another. You have your mind though, think and interpret it to what makes you happy. I'm only indebted to my God not you.

Meanwhile thank you for commenting.

Next2Bezee:


So this is what is on your mind whenever you lead prayers? Chai.

This girl comes for campus fellowship with a pure heart not knowing what the leader thinks of her.

Uncle, your intentions do not seem pure. If they are, accept "No" and move on if that is what she tells you. Which one is "Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that" again? An old man like you. Don't ruin the young girl's life.

ladiesreject:
Ever since I grew up to know myself, I've always hated these youths gatherings because of things like this. Funny thing is, they keep proving me right!
Youths cannot just gather and discuss spiritual matters without observing the prettiest sets of girls there.

Mr. President continue oooo, na your time!

krisjohnson88:
bro, if u are really ready to choose a partner for marriage, u should consult yr creator. God knows everyone inside out.sometimes our want is not what we need.God knows d woman that complement better, this is a personal issue, and marriage has to do with ones life.
yr choice is yr destiny.therefore allow God to lead u

Swizbank:

Please can you stop sir. Pls!!!!

I want this to be as mature as possible pls.

Am begging sir!