ada24:

all this advice to women but i notice the fact the bible says that man has a greater responsibility is no where to be found.

anyway just an observation.

anyway why am i surprised in a culture that deems women as second class citizens what do u expect. everything is the woman's fault.

some people seem to think that men are just sitting down quietly performing their husband duties perfectly and its the woman causing all the problems and has now pushed the man into an animal. as hard as this may be for some to believe there are some men out there who are bad and beat their wives cos its their nature or they may have witnessed it growing up and are now conditioned to act this way.

i have a friend whose husband beat her up 10 days after having a c-section - please tell me what a woman has done in this instance to deserve this - please give me an excuse for this? her luck is she is in the UK and the man was arrested and now has a criminal record - if it was Nigeria he would probably bring his new girlfriend to her wake keeping after killing her - cos u know its her fault she is dead.

anyway lets all have a good week and agree to disagree.

the issue at hand is the topic and not whoever is to blame for this the bigger picture is this man has killed his wife the kid/kids now have no mother and this sin will live with him for the rest of his life - i bet now he wishes he had just left the house and ignored her for a few days so that the wife could fix her behaviour up.

Nobody is denying the fact that there are men who are worse than animals but it is not right to push that argument in front while acting as if the women are always innocent. Just like the men, there are women who are worse than devils. Some of them do not use their mouths alone, they rant, kick and hit the man until his loses it.

The man in question is immersed in poverty and it is my humble opinion that if he is a little buoyant financially, he will not hang around the house all the time to listen to the little devil who acts as his loving wife all the time. This is the reason some men take on second wives and abandon the first with her kids. Our culture usually place the blame on the man as a he goat or something but when you look closer, there is always an underlying factor behind such behavior most times.

It is not to your favor as a woman hiding the truth and blaming the men all the time because the killing trend will continue. Let the women do their part and see whether it will bring some positive change to the behavior of men.

Aloy+Emeka:

It is not rare. My father has never beaten my mother and my uncles are like that too. My mother runs her mouth like shege but my father will always counter her by leaving the house to cool off with his friends. It is the same mother of mine who will start screaming out of fear if he is not back home by a certain time.

and that is how sensible men behave


sometimes u have to ask why a woman complains or nags - some men no matter how good the wife is are just highly irresponsible.

Women have emotional energy most men can't even understand. Even the gentlest woman has the power to nag you crazy. The ONLY way to make sure you dont end up being a wife-beater is to marry the right woman. Otherwise its only a matter of time.

birdman:

Women have emotional energy most men can't even understand. Even the gentlest woman has the power to nag you crazy. The ONLY way to make sure you dont end up being a wife-beater is to marry the right woman. Otherwise its only a matter of time.

How do you know the right woman?
What happens to the ones you termed as the wrong ones?

kola oloye:

How do you know the right woman?
What happens to the ones you termed as the wrong ones?

if you figure that one out, pls pm me

[size=15pt]Yoruba's inhumanity to Yoruba
who cares really?

Its in they genes [/size]

am watching channels news right now and reports say that The religious riot which started in Maiduguri, Borno State claiming the lives of many people and large-scale destruction of property over an alleged offensive publication on Prophet Mohammed on Tuesday extended to Onitsha, [size=13pt]Anambra State [IGBO LAND] 15 muslims have been killed in anambra and two mosques burnt with houses and properties vandalised.[/size] It was the prompt intervention of the anti-riot mobile policemen that was deployed to the scene through the help of their teargas canisters that scared the rioters away and the major markets in the city closed down. It was gathered that the GUO commercial luxury bus that returned to Onitsha from North brought the corpse of Igbos that were casualties of the Borno State incident. This prompted the spontaneous reprisal attack by Igbo youths. In the process two mosques including the Bridgehead mosque and the Central Mosque, Bida street were burnt down, the Northern goat dealers market was also razed and the street kiosks controlled by the Hausa boys were vandalised with large scale looting of goods and they have given the muslims 24hours to leave anambra state or face death the muslims think they are the only one who can fight thou this troblues me and it can cause more troblue in other states and will really start a tribal war if care is not taken and we called these muslims animals are these igbo guys any differnt killing other muslims who had nothing to do with the deaths of the igbo people that where killed


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-7172.0.html

HOW IGBOS LOVE KILLING THEMSELVES IN IGBOLAND.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-571371.0.html

[size=18pt]IGBOS KILLING IGBOS. HIGHEST CRIME RATE IN NIGERIA[/size]


Igbos begging Our president to declare state of emergency in Igboland. Too much Igbos on Igbos crime going on. Igbo Kwenu!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-521407.0.html


Another set of kidnapped children in Igboland. The kidnappers needed money to buy apku. Igbos and their apku, afther money, that's their best ish

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-524247.0.html


IGBO GOVERNOR CHARGED WITH KIDNAPPING. Take in mind, most of these victims ends up killed


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-522686.32.html


IGBOS KIDNAPPING THEIR OWN CHILDREN FOR A FEW CHICKEN CHANGE. 15 Children kidnapped for N500 ~ $0.05

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-522155.0.html


Even Igbo Governors dont care about the Igbos o. Kilo de?!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-557305.0.html


Igbo man forcing Yorubaman into their drug business

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-162853.0.html




Ojukwu led his people to an unplanned war that led to death of thousands of Igbos. Was the man so selfish to sell the souls of thousands of Biafrans because of his fear of the Yorubaman

Ojukwu Sold Igbo Into Perpetual Slavery Through Ego And Greed


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-342270.0.html



IGBOS ON IGBOS CRIME. HOW THE IGBOS LOVE KILLING EACH OTHER- BIAFRALAND

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-571371.0.html



Igboman kills wife in the ol' USA because he was tired of sharing shaving blade with her. Hairy azz woman

http://234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/Home/5608847-146/nigerian_professor_kills_wife_self_in.csp


Another Igbo men kills his wife, Igboland style

http://www.kwenu.com/publications/orabuchi/2007/emeruwa_kills_wife.htm


Igboman kills Igbo wife because he wanted a Yoruba Woman by his side

http://www.africamasterweb.com/AdSense/NigerianKillsWifeMdUS.html


Igbos making Human suyas of themselves abroad Cry Cry

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-501961.0.html



Igboaland full of rapists ===> Some unloose in the SW

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2010/12/when-rapists-storm-girls-school/

Many says that Biafra would have been full of kidnappers, rapists, drug peddlers, okija-shrine worshippers, and many more. Could this be true? Did the Yorubas actually saved Igboland from the "foreseen"?



Igboland. . . .land of despoiler. Unfortunately, their despoiler now goes to the SW to kidnap and r ape innocent children.
We all know how Igbos are ashamed to be Igbos, some using Yoruba names [like babalola and akin-egba] to kidnap and ra pe. Cry Cry

IGBO DPO rapi ng and killing their Igbowomen

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-545683.0.html



The story of kidnapping, despoil, robbery and killing comes out of Aba [Biafra] everyday.


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-529440.0.html


Igbos killing their Igbo Pride.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-567066.0.html


Aba - The Home of Robbers

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-502503.0.html



Aba land of Kidnappers and cannibals
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-441232.0.html



Igbos on Igbos crime again Shocked
These people will kill themselves finish.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-502503.0.html


Gunmen Kill 11 In Aba, Nnewi, P’harcourt, Bizman, 2 Women Abducted

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-441232.0.html

This one gaju