“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.
I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.
My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me.
I could now take care of myself and secure a future.
Though I married my husband, but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.�

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.
His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

*What is your advice to this young mother?.*

Woman, move a head and leave that yeye man in this shithole of a country. He wanted to use you but now he will know he was not wise. Wisdom does not come because you are matured. At least he has learnt something he will teach the next generation.
Be careful, immediately that fellow follows you to Canada he will japaa.

This is not new as this had made frontpage a while back.

In such situation, the woman has no business legalizing the marriage because the man is heartless and never loved the woman from the beginning thus didn't want to complicate things when he wants to dump her by excluding Church and court processes from it. Him being the sole breadwinner then, should anything have happened to him, the woman and children would have been left in the cold.

Recycled topic

revenge is sweet sha... but take ur family issues off social media.

Not the first time we're seeing this

For the sake of the kid
..you born to him

Stale news. I believe woman must have relocated since with or without her husband. All these fake bloggers sef

AgbaraOpic:
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.
I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.
My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me.
I could now take care of myself and secure a future.
Though I married my husband, but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.�

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.
His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

*What is your advice to this young mother?.*

My dear, that k god for you and your dad

I am glad that what he has planned for you as his wife did not work out

What he rejected at the earliest stage is what he is dying for at the late stage

Let him suffer whatever decision you want to take against him

He was being stubborn and full of pride because he never knew you could be successful

He deprived you your right of marriage

Leave him behind to suffer that's what he wished for you but didn't work out.

If you can go with your children, pls go with them

Worst case he will remarry don't be scared

You too will get someone wishing to take you to the altar

Am glad he shot himself on his feet and now the shot is affecting him