You got angry in church and stopped being the member of the choir, left ushering, stopped sanctuary cleaning and every other work you were doing in church.
Eventually you've stopped going to the church because someone spoke to you in a way you didn't like...
Most of the messages from the pulpit was against you from your opinion...
Nobody called you when you were sick because according to you, "they do not love or care in the church..."

But pls excuse me...
You've not stopped working for the boss who insults you most of the time, neither have you stopped work because your colleagues spoke ill of you... (Money was the reason)
When you were sick, you didn't wait for your boss to call you or look for you at work. Rather, you called and told him about your present condition. No complaint about him not visiting you (Fear of query or loss of the job)

Do you remember that at school, your teachers, your schoolmates and or even your best friends offended you, yet you didn't stop schooling..
You can easily miss Church but not lectures because the lecturer will take attendance which counts in assessment
You can be late with your appointment with God at Church but you will be extra early for your visa interview at the embassy...

Who are you deceiving?
I don't blame you too much. Maybe you don't know or you don't have adequate revelation about Church...

Please, Hear Me! Church is not a "No Offense Club" where all things must be done to please you and you alone.
What have you done in church for the good of others?
According to Scripture the first knowledge everybody must have about Church is that... It's *The House Of God* and *The Gate of Heaven*...
Genesis 28:17...
Your service to God must be with reverential fear, honor and respect.
God is watching... � _
Change your attitude.
Please forward to your contacts and let's effect a positive change for God.

It's where you get paid that matters, not where you work for free, expecting a kind of reward in the sky when the pastors you are working for ate harvesting seeds, tithes and offerings on earth here.
If you stop your office jobs, where will you see money to offer as seeds, tithes and offerings to the potbellied pastors? A pastor will even support his workers stopping work in the church while still paying tithes and offering over stopping his jobs and not offering tithes and offerings in the church anymore.

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King Saul and king David was favoured and chosen of thy lord through prophet Samuel to lead the people
But there behavior and obedience to the people and the lord differentiate them
Obedience and forgiveness
ISamuel9vs15 king Saul disobey the law of the lord by offering sacrifice by himself which is duty of prophet Samuel, Samuel makes him realise but he does not think there's need for forgiveness
David sin unto thy lord by sleeping with his servant wife (IIsamuel11vs3-4) and when he was called to order (IIsamuel12vs13)He realise his wrong doing and ask for forgiveness
Oppression
Saul oppress the people of Israel (Isamuel14vs24)And the men of Israel were distressed, for Saul had adjured the people, saying,cursed be the man that eat any food until evening,that I may avenged on my enemies so none of the people tasted food. He add to there burden after going to war,his asking for fasting while they are dying
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