190:

Sweetheart, what is it nao?
You are breaking my heart o

ksena: OK, so I met this guy at the company where I work, and he never said a word, we've only been looking at eachother, ok so after a few months I just went and ask about him to someone wich i knew would tell him, so from that point goin we started talking, and then we came to a point that he said that he never chase a woman, and that he feels that the woman should make the first step towards him, and I told him that we are having a problem because i don't chase guys, so for real!! this won't go anywhere, i mean even from a biblical view a man should initiate, i'm not going to lie, i'm really attracted to this guy, but honestly i don't want to waiste time on some one that believes it should come from a woman,

i've been reading this thing, wich is really really good,
http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001401.cfm

So should i just leave this guy in the friend zone and not further, or do you think i should pursuit him even though he doesn't want to risk it all,

sinie: @op. One thing we girls should learn is that when it comes to men there are really 2 categories; the jerks and the saints! Now there is no complicated man, sensitive, hard to understand or even shy! So we should not bother stressing our head over them cos they are all so typical! Ok just work with me here.
What do you think about a guy who is always busy he can't make time to call or see you, oven text or ping u! He s not a very busy man, he s just an asshole who thinks he is too good for you
What do you call a guy who is dating you, sleeping with you but can't tell you he loves you( even when you say it first) he is not a sensitive guy that finds it difficult to open up his heart, he is just a jerk who wan chop clean mouth, and thinks you are so foolish u ll fall for anything.
What do you call a guy who is dating you and claims to love you bt can't put up ur pix as his dp with a simple sentence to let the world know u r his! He is nt shy, he just probably sleeps with a lot of his bbm friends( or at least asking them out)
What do u call a guy who u r dating and u call late at night and he can't say baby how are u? Or I love u? Well he s nt really tired from work, he probably has a girl lying by his side.
Now in ur case its simple, d guy doesn't like u, nt really. If u ask him out he ll date u, yeah bt cos he's flattered. See it does their ego good when a girl it tripping but the truth is if he feel d same way he won't wait for u to come ask him,even if nah brad pitt! If u date him u ll be making a big mistake cos before the relationship is thru he ll take your self respect and dance alanta on it! Ur choice!

stint:
Life is not black or white. life is in color . people are not always as they seem.

ksena:
hahahahahaa 190, you're funny, ok so tell me, what does that say about him, cause i don't understand that he wants it the other way around, for real, he said that even if he sees someone he likes he would let her go, and says if it should happen it will happen, with other words if the girls don't say nothin he won't even think about approaching her, so what is wrong with this guy,

dobodobo:
18-23 yrs old lady- the guy chasing the women seriously with cash while women doing shakara
23-25 yrs old lady- the guy contemplating on her maybe to chase or back out
25-30 yrs old lady-the guy running away while women watching what to do
30-35 yrs old lady-women chasing the guy while the guy away running like animal chasing him guy
35-45 yrs old lady-women going to church everyday calling Jesus to assist him in chasing the guy
45-50 yrs old lady-women calling on God to join Jesus in race to chase a guy
50- women married to Jesus cos all hope is lost


Biography of all woman,I will never chase a woman after she is 25 yrs old

ksena:
hey ya'll thanks for all your comments. . I'm not chasing him, now we only say hi and bye, or have a little chat, but that's how it is right now, i don't give him any hints of me liking him, I just keep it cool , so if he really likes me, i'll see that, but for now, i just keep things friendly, and i'm just staying classy by letting him know i'm exclusive and one of a kind, and if he knows what is good for him then he'll make the next move,