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Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Charly68: 5:51pm On Jun 21, 2019
Very funny story of two infants...Real men don't tolerate silly ladies. .In any case cut her off your tracts forced..she is a bad nigger.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by obi4eze(m): 8:01pm On Jun 21, 2019
BrownCarton:
I have someone way hotter than her which we re starting to start off.
I believe a woman has to respect you more than she loves you, otherwise, it will all crash.

That one will still crash because you are going into it with a wrong mentality.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Bimpe29: 9:06pm On Jun 21, 2019
Point blank
macho44:
Been there , done that. I know how it feels. Bro, being in a relationship with "Manipulative Persons" is a recipe for disaster. They PIN everything on you and try to make you feel like the GUILTY PERSON. Even when confronted, they still apply every tactics and deceitful acts to look innocent. Cutting her loose was the best decision you ever took. Women are many, wives are few, While HOES are on the LOOSE, ready to LOOT.

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Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jun 21, 2019
When you finaly become an adult you would laugh at this thread you posted"jeez bro!

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Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jun 21, 2019
I'm glad you finally got your senses back. Please don't except her back, you were really patient, I would have left long time ago.

Some guys are too weak emotionally, they allow girls to manipulate them. Come on brothers.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jun 21, 2019
BrownCarton:
Was to move to a very high-end brand new apartment, she has seen the pictures but never been there. She followed me there first time, but before we entered the building, I pretended I really needed her phone for an emergency. She was obviously on my back while using it till I went snooping. It basically got dramatic, neighbours got involved. In my mind, I was happy I d confirmed my suspicion. Gave her her phone back with no reaction whatsoever. She got so dramatic on something totally irrelevant with the neighbours and smashed her phone on the wall. We both drove off from there without saying anything. I then blocked her on all mediums. Few hours later, she came to my house, asking me to open to talk which I refused. Left hundreds of calls, I told her to talk from outside. She waited for hours till past midnight and came back the next day. I still won't show any reaction. I only told her from the balcony to kindly go home as I ve decided I won't let her get too familiar again. She would then go and come back to damage something in a bid to get me to react which I didn't. I then dropped off her stuff with a friend so I don't get to interact with her. Now it's literally happening every day.

Some part of me almost felt bad, but another part of me is very happy leaving her to sulk up the guilt. She was a nightmare.


I believe many guys here can learn from my experience. When she shows signs of dishonesty. Cut it off and move one. Unless you want her to manipulate you into the untrusting insecure controlling freak. Nothing good will ever come out of it.
she cant keep u but she dosent wanna loose you. This kind of obsession is toxic. Very toxic.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by macho44(m): 10:40pm On Jun 21, 2019
Bimpe29:
Point blank
I say it as it is.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by kalufelix(m): 7:02am On Jun 22, 2019
Those bashing the op either have no experience on such matters or didn't read the post thoroughly

From what I understand these are the type of girls that like to be hit by men..

Op is a very patient and honest guy that deserves a cool headed girl not a drama queen

Please while getting into a relationship even one that may lead to marriage avoid incessant pre-marital sex though it's a very vital part of bonding excersise ..too much of it can destroy a relationship before it sets sail

Am not saying the above was the case just a general advise.

Don't ever think of accepting her back you can relocate to another apartment if possible

This is one of the reasons why most men choose to settle with the 'not so beautiful ones' for what shall it profit a man to win a trophy wife and die before his time.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by tiffanymendm: 7:16am On Jun 22, 2019
WATCH VIDEO HERE

BrownCarton:
Hi guys,
This is a follow up to my initial thread where my girlfriend.. Now ex... Asked for a one week space.

https://www.nairaland.com/5164412/she-said-she-wants-space

So a lot happened after the one week space. Honestly, my anxiety got the whole of me, cos she really drenched me emotionally. I found myself becoming a joke of my former self. From the man who will be in control, to the guy chasing for her time. She basically put me on a chasing wheel.

After the space,  I mentioned we were "working" through things for about a week, until when she did the worst. Basically arguing against me in a confrontation with her 'toaster', taking his side and calling me a liar and driving home with him. I did break up on the spot, but she still came back like she didn't realise what she did was the height. I still thought "well, maybe she didn't understand", so at the expense of my self-respect, I took her back but promised myself that when things cooled down, I will give her an ultimatum to cut off with that guy.
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by Nobody: 7:17am On Jun 22, 2019
BrownCarton:
Was to move to a very high-end brand new apartment, she has seen the pictures but never been there. She followed me there first time, but before we entered the building, I pretended I really needed her phone for an emergency. She was obviously on my back while using it till I went snooping. It basically got dramatic, neighbours got involved. In my mind, I was happy I d confirmed my suspicion. Gave her her phone back with no reaction whatsoever. She got so dramatic on something totally irrelevant with the neighbours and smashed her phone on the wall. We both drove off from there without saying anything. I then blocked her on all mediums. Few hours later, she came to my house, asking me to open to talk which I refused. Left hundreds of calls, I told her to talk from outside. She waited for hours till past midnight and came back the next day. I still won't show any reaction. I only told her from the balcony to kindly go home as I ve decided I won't let her get too familiar again. She would then go and come back to damage something in a bid to get me to react which I didn't. I then dropped off her stuff with a friend so I don't get to interact with her. Now it's literally happening every day.

Some part of me almost felt bad, but another part of me is very happy leaving her to sulk up the guilt. She was a nightmare.


I believe many guys here can learn from my experience. When she shows signs of dishonesty. Cut it off and move one. Unless you want her to manipulate you into the untrusting insecure controlling freak. Nothing good will ever come out of it.
e good as u japa oh lmao
Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by ImaIma1(f): 7:35am On Jun 22, 2019
I am just wondering why you took the rubbish from her for that long. Good riddance. You don't need that kind of toxicity around you. Please quit playing games with her and let her go

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