Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,181,014 members, 7,912,841 topics. Date: Tuesday, 06 August 2024 at 02:20 PM

Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? (1056 Views)

My Boyfriend Slept With His Ex A Night Before Her Wedding / Why It's Not Sensible To Print More Currency Notes To End Poverty / She Left Me For A Medical Doctor And Now Wants A Second Chance (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by obembet(f): 12:25pm On Jun 22, 2019
Relationships do not always end in the manner that partners envisage. Whereas people would dream about beautiful ‘endings’ and a love that does not really end but reaches a different stage of bliss, the reality is usually far from this.
Relationships end all the time, and people usually find themselves single and sad after a while of being with someone they had thought they’d be with forever.

Many times when relationships end, it is final. For many, the end of a relationship is preceded by a lot of negative energy that makes coming back impossible. For example; a relationship may have ended because one person constantly mistreated the other. It could also happen as a result of one person cheating, showing unconcern or just basically breaking the other person’s heart without a care in the world about how they would feel.
At other times, the breakup does not happen as a result of toxic behavior. It could just be a matter of bad timing, irreconcilable differences and circumstances out of people’s control.
So does it make sense to get back with an ex?

Cc Lalasticlala
MissyB3
Fynestboi
Dominique
mynd44
Seun
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Heineken(m): 12:43pm On Jun 22, 2019
Awaiting comments too
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by tee59(f): 12:47pm On Jun 22, 2019
Never go back to your vomit, it can be dangerous. These people hardly change.

5 Likes

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jun 22, 2019
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Is it possible for Obasanjo to become the president of Nigeria once again ?? NEVER

Can dogs and tigers make good friends?? NEVER

Can three people stand in TWOS? NEVER




An ex is an ex.

OK. What if you guys come together only to break up again? What do you call that?? EX? EX-EX??

In short let's call it EXERCISE.

3 Likes

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Tedpgrass: 12:59pm On Jun 22, 2019
That's for you to decide after careful consideration..


The grass isn't always greener on the other side..
Neither is the saying.. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" always appropriate as "out of sight could mean out of mind"...

Give it a shot after due diligence if at all..


.

3 Likes

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by SageMK: 1:10pm On Jun 22, 2019
This depends on so many variables, the most important being what was the actual reason behind the break-up?!

If it's cheating -No.
If it's abuse of any form - No.
An act of betrayal — No.
Distance — Yes.
Health issues — Yes or No.

However, History says No.
We should learn from the mistake of others.

Chelsea got back with Mourinho but it was a disaster. It almost never works out. Exes are your exes for a reason.

3 Likes

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Kaceman(m): 1:24pm On Jun 22, 2019
Is it ever sensible for God to give u your 50th chance
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by CosmicPhoenix: 1:35pm On Jun 22, 2019
going back to your ex is like eating food from the dustbin
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by floyd190: 1:40pm On Jun 22, 2019
OPERATION YOU MUST NOT BE SINGLE BEFORE END OF THIS YEAR. LET'S HELP YOU TO CONNECT WITH YOUR TRUE LOVE NOW!

Are you tired of being single and its accompanying Loneliness?
Are you tired of being prophesied to, that every other year is your year with nothing at end of it?
Are you one who believes in TRUE LOVE and having a happy family?
Are you one who is tired of masturbation and intimacy gadgets due to loneliness?
Are you a single lady/man based anywhere in Nigeria or Africa?
Are you tired of scammers and frauds that collect money with promise of matchmaking?
Are you one that have friends and loved ones who are ripe for marriage but still single?
Are you tired of platforms that offer no hope and help to your singleness?
Are you ready to make the 2019 or 2020 the year to settle down?
And are you willing to give love a chance?

NOTE THIS: If you are not ready for serious relationship, if you are looking for 2nd wife, if you are looking for sugar mummy, sugar daddy or sugar baby, if you are a married man or woman looking for 'sarawagba' (we have chased out and embarrassed over 30 married men from the platform so far) and if you are not ready to register to verify your details. PLEASE DONT BOTHER JOINING BECAUSE WE DONT WANT OR ACCEPT ANYONE OR ANYTHING THAT WOULD PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY AFFECT THE WELL BEING OF OUR DEAR MEMBERS!

This is the Genuine platform to join – The Authentic Platform of Love for Africans wherever!

ALSO NOTE that the couple that met and got married on our platform last year are waxing strong in their marriage and so, we want so many marriages and serious relationship consummated this very year!

Signup, registration and membership absolutely free

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? START YOUR TRUE LOVE CONNECTION NOW.

WHATSAPP OR TELEGRAM ADMIN NOW

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Apeshy101(m): 1:42pm On Jun 22, 2019

Sometimes I wish I would still have my ex back, but weighing the break up, I just realie she is not worth a second chance


Why go for old folks when you can get new ones at fairly ridiculous price?



Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by lilmax(m): 1:51pm On Jun 22, 2019
women should forgive their exes than men

its easy for a woman to go back, its the hardest thing to a man to do the same
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 22, 2019

5 Likes

Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jun 22, 2019
If they are of questionable character or acts, the answer is NO.

You dump your ex to search for the best.
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by obembet(f): 4:59pm On Jun 22, 2019
Lalasticlala
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by meobizy(f): 11:05pm On Jun 22, 2019
The only reason I will go back to a female is for sex.
That means for missed chances a big maybe.
For exes, never.
There are more than enough people on earth for me to waste time and future experience cycling about only the two idiots I’ve dated.
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by braine(m): 12:36am On Jun 23, 2019
They reason for the breakup in the first place will still be there. So it's a no.
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Soul47(m): 2:35am On Jun 23, 2019
People don't change eventually.

So either you are ready to stomach the red flag that led to the first seperation or you keep having vain confidence.

Either ways, you know the outcome.
Re: Is It Ever Sensible To Give Your Ex A Second Chance? by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:16am On Jun 23, 2019
tee59:
Never go back to your vomit, it can be dangerous. These people hardly change.



Not every ex is regarded as vomit, it depends on how you part ways, there are relationships that end because of search for goals of the two parties, if before this time of life ambitions they used to be a good team, if there should be a chance for them to come back together, believe me, they will not hesitate.

(1) (Reply)

Dangerous Beauty Trends Amongst Ladies / Jax Jones Snacks (supersize) Download. Full 2019 / Singer K.michelle Poses Topless In Her Bathroom (photo)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 20
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.