joseph1832:
my dear money can not buy time. No matter how you want to look at it. She invested time in the relationship, well so did he. The only snag here is the guy investing his money and time on something he's not sure of.

Though I'll admit he's immature for asking her to refund the money he spent on her. To think he even went further to confront the girl's dad is what truly amaze me. He should thank his God the man didn't use cutlass to chase him out of his house.

toprealman:
didn't STUDY the list. I don't subscribe to buying love. I really don't give a shii tbh. Guy man is a money miss road that failed to engage his brain.

Mylove55:
why WILL the guy buy things for the girl,? was it for marriage or for love(fuu.cck). Had it be the girl enjoy the fuu.cck, she would have paid for the fuu.cck, the guy enjoyed the fuu.cck and he paid for it

BlueAir:
stop thinking with ur vaginall was she his vip sex worker or girlfriend?

Aliyutani:
A twitter user with the handle @elharsh took to the platform to narrate how her friend refused to marry her fiance of four years. She however didn't stated the reason why her friend refused to marry him including the list of items he bought for her.

According to her the fiance demands full refund of all he has spent on her which amount to millions of naira

In the tweet, she says see wetin person spend for rotten Toto

"My friend refused to marry her boyfriend of 4 years. This guy made a list of everything he ever did for her.
He demands that the family pay him 4.2m

Her father said he should take her to Court"

See the tweet here
https://aliyutani..com/2019/06/a-fiance-demands-full-refund-of-all-he.html?m=1

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

uckennety:


You mean she invested time in conning him making him believe she loved him or will love him

Well....... Woman never do you something so write as u can!
And I see you v never fallen in love as per giving someone your mumu button to handle anyhow

Anyway the only place I blame the guy is by not giving what he can't afford to lose

As I am right now I can't give a lady 50kobo if my mind is not ready to see it as a lost money!

Experience has thought me never to expect any good thing from a girl

The only women I can give irrespective of my condition with love and sacrifice is my mother and my sister
My wife I'll set her up so she will be independent and not ask me for money
I won't cry cuz I know what is mine won't ever leave me in the 1st place

Mylove55:
must you love her by spending her, or did the girl tell the guy to impress her with money? True love does not ask for refund, true love is sacrifice

MrBrownJay1:


Whether the guy spent the money/gifts or not, they would have still had sex....so the gifts are irrelevant to the issue of sex, as they both enjoyed the sex... Unless in your world, men pay school fees, rent of oloshos, and dream of marrying these same oloshos.... in return for just access to her toto.

toprealman:
The girl should bill him for the mileage covered in za oza room as well as keyboard press count.

don4real18:

Didn't he also spend his time?

Mylove55:
the guy were impressing the girl to love him by spending on her, and the love has not be achieved, the guy need to spend more in order to achieve the girl's love

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

morningstar55:
In as much as I don’t believe the story, the man should be aware that spending money on girlfriends is like bet9ja

MrBrownJay1:


As much as the above in bold is RIGHT, that certainly doesn't mean the animal he was dating should get away Scott free.

uckennety:

Apart from money, gifts and attention how else can a guy show his love?
Talking about sacrifice our Bible tells us that God gave his only son for own sins right?
Yet if we are found wanting we will be cashed into the lake of fire to burn forever
If you can't stomach a guy pls tell him your not interested and stop giving him green light because he will think your challenging him to know if he loves you or not and go around fooling himself and you should know karma is mysterious
You may not want something serious right now at least from him
But when your serious you will not see who will take you serious
Or even if you finally marry you will find it to be a night mare

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

toprealman:
both will be fine......

Mylove55:
the girl simply told him, his money was not enough to marry him, he should try harder to win her love by spending more, did you also know that the girl can love someone else that just spent 10k on her, money cannot buy someone into marriage, ask tonto dikeh.

Kaceman:


Hold it dere bet9ja dey give return na u just waste ur money

MrBrownJay1:


You might think so but, if it was me in his shoes, I wouldn't be fine with being deceived.... Far from it.

Fountainofyouth:
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

Mylove55:
the guy were buying things for the girl becos marriage,

the guy were trying to impress the girl for marriage

,and the impression was not enough, the guy can try harder by spending more, hahahahahahahahahahaha

toprealman:
Uncle there are better thing to dwell on. It will not be you.....#UwaNgbede

MrBrownJay1:


So we shouldn't give our opinion any longer because "you" don't like what we are writing?!

That's what NL is here for...

don4real18:

Sex is enjoyed by both parties so why should he be billed?