Adakintroy:
I hope many of you know this lady has not charged this man with anything officially. That this is just a media trail. All this accusations are but "accusation" (your word against his). There are official channel to report issue if this nature and pursue legall actions. She has not gone to the police or charge the case to court but all of your have trial and convict the man on media.

I hope you are educated to know what legal police/court institutions are set up for. Am just saying. Because if this guy Play it cool and hit them hard with defamation of character. It won't be about who first start case.

Thank God there is at least some reasonable persons in Nigeria. I am hearing of COZA and the pastor and Dakola for the first time. But the way people judge this case tells me how backward Nigeria is. Nigeria is backward because not just the leaders are selfish but it is now obvious that the citizens lack common reasoning. A woman claimed she was raped at about 18years inside her fathers house, raped by same man in two occasions and waited over 10years to tell the story and everyone is throwing stones at the pastor even after he has said that the allegation is false. Why has the woman not reported to the police and taken the case to court. This brings to light accusations of Suleiman,Ibiyeomie of salvation ministryetc. The police and court should handle rape cases. People should stop being judged just because someone said something . People can do or say all sort of things to trend. Did 'Jamal' of Empire not recently stage racist attack just to trend? I pity men who just believe any woman that cries rape. Pray that they don't remember you. Many have been falsely accused. Rape victims should report promptly to the police when the evidence are there if they are serious about being raped. Anything short of that to me is not rape.

boiz2men:
as long as you want to do less for more you will always be a victim of scam

finding, how much does Mtn give 3Gb? #1500, so whats suppose to be scam here? His is #1350. You can continue but i will ruin you here on nairaland cos i know u are the scammer, just hiding under another moniker. Scammer!

deepwater:
Lol

Can someone remind me what this man said about the killings of our compatriots in other west Africa countries ?

Back to the topic
Has the pastor guy been convicted of the crime of rape this one everyone is taking solidarity with the girl.

Life has a way of teaching us lessons.

I have seen cases of people been wrongly accused of something that never happened, not even a case of mistaken identity. It was a case that never happened in real life. Someone somewhere sat down and wrote the script, at the end the truth will always prevail.

It change my perspective completely about how I see cases I never witness. One thing that can fall a man quickly is making judgements and conclusions on hearsay .

Enough of this BS, take the matter to court and stop the pity party.

After all just as we had that pastor bleeped her so we heard that timi was smashing her before marriage

So why do we accept timi and reject pastor? Is it because timi later put a ring on it? U no know say husband dey rape wife too?

The babe should be ready to give substantial evidences in court otherwise u just cast yourself for nothing.

But y timi vex when pastor say make them go court



In 2017, your bank account was freezed because of a statement of fact issued about you to you bank by your boss. Even without trial you got penalized. I remember how much u created a thread about this here on NL.

Now go to your enclave and think about what justice truly means.

The girl has her claims, same way the pastor guy has his own too.

Let them meet in court. All these bandwagon hypnosis doesn't move everyone.

If you are exposed enough you should have heard about the Clinton and Monica case. Baba denied initially, but later owned up. The point is this, human being can lie at any time be it president, pastor, choir master or rape victim.

Believe what you hear with caution

Very boring

dapsoneh:
finding, how much does Mtn give 3Gb? #1500, so whats suppose to be scam here? His is #1350. You can continue but i will ruin you here on nairaland cos i know u are the scammer, just hiding under another moniker. Scammer!

I'm too big to scam over pennies, if I scammed you, you'd have lost 6 digits sum.

Greed is when you want more for less.. Now look at what you wanted and what you paid.. What is that called

I was thinking this ben bruce was making common sense until i saw this post,the man have been talking nonsense.

HITdemUP:
Coza don buy market .

Pastor FAT-OYINBO right now

Not even small market am so ashamed and I just like this man even if am a Muslim just like his preaching a so so sorry for him but I wish this will send a good signal to others both politician and men of God

Righteousness89:

Don't Speak evil about those who attend the church.. they have done nothing wrong in attending the Church
The Pastor should be held Accountable for his deeds..

When the blind lead the blinds, where will they find themselves?

boiz2men:
I'm too big to scam over pennies, if I scammed you, you'd have lost 6 digits sum.

Greed is when you want more for less.. Now look at what you wanted and what you paid.. What is that called

continue MR 6 digits scammer

[quote author=PrettySleek post=79763390]Under the Criminal Code of Nigeria, Rape is defined, as having unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman or girl, without her consent, or with her consent, if the consent is obtained by force or by means of threats or intimidation of any kind, or by fear of harm, or by means of false act, or, in case of a married woman, be personating her husband.
Rape can happen to anyone, please protect your love ones.
It doesn't matter how long it takes for someone to open up, what matters is that the person has the courage to speak out so that healing can start.The criminal code states points to prove rape.U need to read it

Nigeria is a very dynamic place ! With this news about pastor of coza we all just jump into conclusions of taking a side ?!
I have no side to pitch my tent now but I want to let you know that all the girls that had a failed relationship in the past will all start saying he raped me !!!
The husband should not have allow this to go viral cos his ego will altimately be affected . Let her also give us list of all the other people that have raped her .
If pastor can have a two times on her I want us to know that is not really a case of rape .
It’s like an assault of a minor .

The next news am waiting for is for Tonto !!! To accuse one of newly elected governor of raping her in the Womb before her mother gave birth to her ..
Still loading !!!!

PrettySleek:
Under the Criminal Code of Nigeria, Rape is defined, as having unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman or girl, without her consent, or with her consent, if the consent is obtained by force or by means of threats or intimidation of any kind, or by fear of harm, or by means of false act, or, in case of a married woman, be personating her husband.
Rape can happen to anyone, please protect your love ones.
It doesn't matter how long it takes for someone to open up, what matters is that the person has the courage to speak out so that healing can start.

Remember Neymer's false rape case

jungle justice on media trials is wicked.

also let us remember "Berger to Ajah" rape saga.
women can be devilish too

many innocent people have been killed by wicked people on the street yelling thief and evil action takes over.

let us be civilised.

But the pastor said he didn't do such thing.

joseph6071:
The founder of Silverbird TV and Nigerian senator, Ben Murray Bruce has reacted to the rape allegations on the Coza senior pastor, Biodun Fatoyino by Busola Dakolo.

He wrote...

"I am deeply saddened and I stand in solidarity with Busola Dakolo. To put in perspective the enormity of rape crime in Nigeria, one day I was talking to 6 beauty queens, 5 opened up to me that they were raped as children."
"This and many more reasons are why I set up my foundation @BenBruce_NGO, which is solely committed to fighting Sexual/Domestic Abuse in our society."

"I am saddened by the revelations of Busola, and I am calling for a full-fledged investigation and the accused if found guilty must face the full and maximum wrath of the law."

"I further call on the Government to show more support for rape victims. We currently do not do enough to support rape victims."

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/06/coza-ben-bruce-reacts-to-busola-dakolo.html

Meaning of solidarity.
1. A bond of unity or agreement between individuals, united around a common goal or against a common enemy, such as the unifying principle that defines the labor movement; mutual support within a group.

2.Willingness to give psychological and/or material support when another person is in a difficult position or needs affection.

Who will Punish you if you stand in solidarity with the law ( i.e to stand neutral) until after the court judgement ?
Ben Bruce should just thank God that this nation is not an Islamic nation, he would have explained what he enjoys in seeing the breast and buttocks of girls wearing only pants and bras.
Does he not know that publicly celebrating and displaying those girls half nudity whether with or without their assent is an act of abuse .

I only perceive those girls like lap dancers who are paid to dance with their clients and have the option to decide if they want to sleep with them or not because after the show they have the option to decide if they want to have lovers the age of their parents or not.
He is absolutely nothing but a prostitute vendor in disguise.

Most of them their parents sent them to school not knowing that Ben Bruce has organized a show to make them lap dancers in disguise(in the name of MBGN).

Haaaaa

5 out of 6 raped?

Nawa oooo

So raping is now a rite of passage for Nigerian females

Hiaaan

famzynet:


Thank God there is at least some reasonable persons in Nigeria. I am hearing of COZA and the pastor and Dakola for the first time. But the way people judge this case tells me how backward Nigeria is. Nigeria is backward because not just the leaders are selfish but it is now obvious that the citizens lack common reasoning. A woman claimed she was raped at about 18years inside her fathers house, raped by same man in two occasions and waited over 10years to tell the story and everyone is throwing stones at the pastor even after he has said that the allegation is false. Why has the woman not reported to the police and taken the case to court. This brings to light accusations of Suleiman,Ibiyeomie of salvation ministryetc. The police and court should handle rape cases. People should stop being judged just because someone said something . People can do or say all sort of things to trend. Did 'Jamal' of Empire not recently stage racist attack just to trend? I pity men who just believe any woman that cries rape. Pray that they don't remember you. Many have been falsely accused. Rape victims should report promptly to the police when the evidence are there if they are serious about being raped. Anything short of that to me is not rape.

Of course there are many cases of false rape accusations, and sometimes, only the principal parties and God knows what the truth really is. But your reference question above asking why she's only spoken up 10 years later, and why she hasnt reported to the police completely gave you off.

First of all, over 95% of rape cases are never reported especially in places like Africa where the victim will typically be treated as scum. Victims are either too scared or ashamed or traumatised to even talk about it to close family or friends. Then of the few cases where the victim speaks up, they are usually reported very much later, after the victims must have been able to gather up the courage and strength. Victims usually keep the hurt and trauma and suffer from it (sometimes even to the grave). But something always triggers some victims to eventually speak up; e.g. seeing another person speak up gives others the strength to, or sometimes when the victim is just sick and and tired of harbouring the trauma and needs closure, or again, when the victim encounters the predator again and maybe sees him doing same to others.

In over 90% of reported rape cases, the victims hardly ever spoke up immediately. A little bit of research on rape cases or simple exposure would have made you understand the above. You're obviously not half as smart as you think you are, so stop labelling others "backward"

Now over to the aethist..

The anti-christ has spoken..
War against the saints has began..

Abians, d Jews apia apia apia

drtwist:

When the blind lead the blinds, where will they find themselves?

As a Believer with my little Knowledge of The Gospel, there are certain persons that who say they are pastors but I personally see them Wolfs in sheep clothings . Pastor Biodun for me falls into that..
but that does not Mean the members there so be castigated for the sins of the Pastor...

There will one or two persons there who love GOD and are genuinely belivers.. but for one reason or the other find themselves with him..

As for Pastor Biodun, If I were him, I would Humble Myself, Repent and Make Amendments...Even if it cost me my posts..

We are still in the times of Mercy... and JESUS is still available to Accept whoever Repents..

Righteousness89:


As a Believer with my little Knowledge of The Gospel, there are certain persons that who say they are pastors but I personally see them Wolfs in sheep clothings . Pastor Biodun for me falls into that..
but that does not Mean the members there so be castigated for the sins of the Pastor...

There will one or two persons there who love GOD and are genuinely belivers.. but for one reason or the other find themselves with him..

As for Pastor Biodun, If I were him, I would Humble Myself, Repent and Make Amendments...Even if it cost me my posts..

We are still in the times of Mercy... and JESUS is still available to Accept whoever Repents..

I respect your position dear

Emanodimo:


The instance of rape was passed one sided in favor of the women folks. Men are also being seduce unlawful. There's a need to legislate on SEDUCTION to balance things off as it will help both gender to refrain from UNLAWFUL ACT since that's the problem.

This law has been in existence since 2004! No review since then. Nigeria is a confused country.

zeuss:


Remember Neymer's false rape case

jungle justice on media trials is wicked.

also let us remember "Berger to Ajah" rape saga.
women can be devilish too

many innocent people have been killed by wicked people on the street yelling thief and evil action takes over.

let us be civilised.

Point taken. Don't forget the rapists that have gotten away with their crimes because the victims were too afraid or ashamed to talk. I trust my instincts and my guts is telling me that he is guilty. Whether people agree with me or not is pointless.

PrettySleek:

This law has been in existence since 2004! No review since then. Nigeria is a confused country.

Well, the issue of legislation on SEDUCTION will better be on its own not to be enshrined under RAPE.

Emanodimo:


Well, the issue of legislation on SEDUCTION will better be on its own not to be enshrined under RAPE.

Seduction doesn't count. If a lady seduces a man and they have sex who is to blame? Both of them. It's the same thing as a thief seeing something of value and getting tempted to steal. It's the same thing as every temptation we humans face. If you have sex with a woman because she seduced you, you are just morally weak.

PrettySleek:

Point taken. Don't forget the rapists that have gotten away with their crimes because the victims were too afraid or ashamed to talk. I trust my instincts and my guts is telling me that he is guilty. Whether people agree with me or not is pointless.

just like I trust my instincts labeling you as some who has sex for money..... and has gone through more than 3 abortions

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Well, that's your problem. Insulting me won't change anything. I won't stoop so low to insult u either.

PrettySleek:


Well, that's your problem. Insulting me won't change anything. I won't stoop so low to insult u either.

I have called u what I think suites you and I am others will agree with me.

zeuss:


I have called u what I think suites you and I am others will agree with me.

Trying to get to me? Weak, very weak. The sad thing is that if u see me face face you wouldn't be able to say these things. I just have a different opinion from yours and you are already calling me names. Lol this is just funny

PrettySleek:

Trying to get to me? Weak, very weak. The sad thing is that if u see me face face you wouldn't be able to say these things. I just have a different opinion from yours and you are already calling me names. Lol this is just funny

no I am just judging you as you have judged and sentenced that man without fait hearing...wicked

zeuss:


no I am just judging you as you have judged and sentenced that man without fait hearing...wicked

I didn't need a fair hearing. I was a member of COZA and I left because I trusted my instinct that he wasn't clean and I stand by it. I don't have to explain my stand to u. Think all u want, it wouldn't count.

PrettySleek:

I didn't need a fair hearing. I was a member of COZA and I left because I trusted my instinct that he wasn't clean and I stand by it. I don't have to explain my stand to u. Think all u want, it wouldn't count.

he can be as dirty as a pig for all I care....a Randy man of God is not a Rapist man of God...did he rape you too.....the story is he bleeped her twice for goodness sake a 17 or 18 year old extrovert can openly reject what she does not fancy after all he never threatened her

Wow

zeuss:


he can be as dirty as a pig for all I care....a Randy man of God is not a Rapist man of God...did he rape you too.....the story is he bleeped her twice for goodness sake a 17 or 18 year old extrovert can openly reject what she does not fancy after all he never threatened her

I wish I could sit u down and talk to u, not to insult u but to tell you about how rape occurs. I am a mental health nurse, let me explain in a little way. You know what those stories we read about girls that were raped their relatives or whoever. Most times it happened more than once until they get pregnant or somebody discovers it. As a young girl, a virgin, a naive girl, virginity is pride once it's taken away, the person feels worthless, dirty. Most times the rapist is a powerful figure, and their victims feel that if they speak out nobody would believe them because of the person's status or how nice the person is on the outside. Sometimes the rapists would threaten to hurt to kill them. Some would say, nobody would believe u because people know I am a good person. They would say anything to put fear in her mind and once that fear is there, rape can happen again if the rapist decides to. Over 20% of my females patients have been raped in their early lives, some are already in their 50s and 60s before they decide to talk. Most of them have depression and schizophrenia. They carry that shame and regret, till affect their marriage, their jobs, their children. Some can't even have sex with their husbands without crying or resisting. It's a very terrible thing. Please not for the sake of argument, when you are free, just goggle rape. You will understand better. Some girls ran back to their captors in boko haram after being rescued, do you know why? That's another topic on it's own. Research on that too.