Maryjane001:
I v been best friends with these set of twins since first year.
Being an introvert,i became so used to them and we couldn't do without each other.
They knew me so well, and knew i was a very emotional person and that i hated insults.
One of them started liking me, and i liked him in return though i made it clear to him that i couldn't date him.
This guy was so addicted to me that he couldn't stay without hearing from me in a day.
During Vacation,the parents noticed and warned me to stay away from their son. That was odd because i was close to the parents. They even threatened to involve my parents if i didnt stay away.
I was confused because i didnt do anything wrong. But i stayed away for about 4 months. I blocked their lines. Even if we see each other in school ,we behave like strangers.
But i m a kind of person that hates having beef with someone particularly people i m very close to. I was the one wronged here but i just wanted to settle everything and have a clear head. That was when i received the greatest insult of my life.
I called them and told them that we had to meet in person so as to clear issues up. The one that liked me agreed but the other kept bringing excuses. I met with the one that liked me and talked about the issue and settled. But i told him not to tell his parents about it and he agreed. Later on, the twins fought each other and the one i wasnt too close to called me and was blaming me for the fight. Something i knew nothing about. That he was badly injured because of me. That anytime my name is mentioned in the house, his other twin just gets violent and told me to stay away. I called the one i liked and begged him to apologize to his brother.
I didnt want the matter to be one-sided so i offered to come to their lodge so as to talk with the other twin. I didnt know the location but they promised to come pick me. I waited for so long but none showed up, later their mom called me and was like she was looking for her son that she was sure he was with me. I told her i haven't seen him and also reminded her that she told me to stay away from her children. She warned me and the next thing i was seeing on social media was that i insulted their mother,that i called her names. As if i dont v a loving mother that i respect. They called me all manner of names on social media. I was reduced to an object of ridicule on their timelines.
I wasnt myself for months. I never cried but i was hurting badly inside.
My friend was there when i answered that call and was shocked herself.
I shared everything i had with these boys. I sacrificed so much for them as my friends. Even when sometimes they had nothing to eat,i will give them my food. Looking back at the things i sacrificed for them, i realized i was stupid.
I v moved on and thank God i have a better set of friends.

lilyelv:


ok i think i would focus on school sha....am still very young..and i want to have that certificate even if i dont work with it.....the university is another experience for me.....i guess as time goes on..i would get my sense of purpose and what i want....i can still get a skill along side my going to school.....and in regards to learning computer.....i already have the basic knowledge of computer....
.am actually thinking on going further towards programming ....but am not bouyant yet for that now.. and work takes all my time ..thanks for your advise sir

AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

WhiZTiM:


Hey, while reading this thread, I found this post of yours sound genuine. I would like to extend some help, guidance and mentorship - particularly @ the bolded ... can you reach out to me using Nairaland's email request facility?

ezedioranma9:
Let's deal.

TheGenius001:




Lols this is very funny. But I do feel your pain bro
Take heart

onyidon22:
Abandoning a trade that could have fetched me about 3 million naira in two years because of university admission has been my greatest mistake.
I'm now in my mid-twenties, broke and still in 300 level.
I have come to realize that school is scam and have totally lost interest in schooling.
I wish I could go back to 3 years ago

In 2pac voice ''I see no changes wake up in the morning and I ask myself, is life worth living or should I blast(kill) myself i'm tired of being poor even worse I'm black

Now the bolded is my regret..

I just love the part where he said instead of war on poverty they got a war on drugs so the police can bother me

Kirchhoff01:
I lost my virginity to a runs babe.
E dey pain me if I remember the event. And she no do me well.

That' has been my only sex

AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

Contumely:


I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.

bro, i am formally a deist now an agnostic.
Being a freethinker is the best thing that has ever happened to me.as a businessman I think more rationally than my fellow competitors which gave me a huge advantage.
I see things more clearly, and i am not subjected to bias
My rationality have fetched me so much money in my business shpere. I think more deeply before i made a business move
I know there is no God to save me. I dont discuss my religious convictions with anybody. I go to church if necessary and even i say good things about churches in most cases.

Bro, knowing the truth is a blessing. Trust me
You will have a very big advantage and will most certainly be more successful than religious folks if you are smart sha.
Dont discuss your beliefs unless you are sure the person is also a freethinker. And dont argue.

fattprince:

Well I can't compare because I've got families that support me. I didn't graduate after 4 years in University too but I started all over again by writing jamb. I will be resuming my finals this Month. You not a failure for falling, you only become one when you refuse to stand again

AccessME:
I can relate bro.. I've done jamb last year and this but I haven't been fortunate to secure admission. Just here hoping on God!

AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

akaahs:
Been born in Nigeria is the greatest regret and the most depressed

Contumely:


I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.

Bro...can u please share your findings with me... learning is my thing....like to find out

Ladylawyer:
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TheGenius001:
Hello house say it and free your mind

Mine is:
(1). I regret having to tell a girl, I truly loved, that I do love her. Cos ever since that day I made it known to her, everything changed. Tho we are still together. But I still regret telling her till date.


(2). Not having to graduate with a first-class despite being the best graduating of my set.

Share yours, dont feel depresed. Someone here may sooth or placate your mind.

WhiZTiM:


Hey, while reading this thread, I found this post of yours sound genuine. I would like to extend some help, guidance and mentorship - particularly @ the bolded ... can you reach out to me using Nairaland's email request facility?

akaahs:
Been born in Nigeria is the greatest regret and the most depressed

we have things in common, from a broken home too, and am introvert also, if u don't mind we can marry 08064357013 call or whatsapp.

bro, i am formally a deist now an agnostic.
Being a freethinker is the best thing that has ever happened to me.as a businessman I think more rationally than my fellow competitors which gave me a huge advantage.
I see things more clearly, and i am not subjected to bias
My rationality have fetched me so much money in my business shpere. I think more deeply before i made a business move
I know there is no God to save me. I dont discuss my religious convictions with anybody. I go to church if necessary and even i say good things about churches in most cases.

Bro, knowing the truth is a blessing. Trust me
You will have a very big advantage and will most certainly be more successful than religious folks if you are smart sha.
Dont discuss your beliefs unless you are sure the person is also a freethinker. And dont argue.