Hi guys. Following the myriads of unfortunate news being heard about many Nigerian pastors recently, I have been thinking.

When I met my woman, she told me that one of her goals before she met me was to marry a pastor. I found it funny and strange at that point but waved it off as I completely swept her off her feet as we started dating. I still believe that she still harbour that aspiration but her attitude hasn't changed. She's still the good soul I met.

But, is that a warning for me? I'm a normal guy. A Christian though, but not too religious. Should her voicing out her aspiration to marry a pastor a red flag that she might just be keeping up with me in anticipation of getting a pastor tomorrow (because I can never be a pastor myself)?

What do you guys think?

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You better go and take pastorship course. It doesn't mean a g.o just take a six months course you don't qualify niyen that's if you love her. Beware against negative counsel here I beg you. You will see plenty negative counsel. I told you ahead o.

Oga turn to pastor

essenceplus:
You better go and take pastorship course. It doesn't mean a g.o just take a six months course you don't qualify niyen that's if you love her. Beware against negative counsel here I beg you. You will see plenty negative counsel. I told you ahead o.

this is a very wrong advice..
D worst I've heard all year

ojun50:
Oga turn to pastor

so mk e turn pastor just because of woman

Ajoboss:
this is a very wrong advice..
D worst I've heard all year

Indeed. Turn left

essenceplus:
You better go and take pastorship course. It doesn't mean a g.o just take a six months course you don't qualify niyen that's if you love her. Beware against negative counsel here I beg you. You will see plenty negative counsel. I told you ahead o.

Sorry I won't. Pastorship should be a calling. I have no such calling.

Samakus:


Sorry I won't. Pastorship should be a calling. I have no such calling.

Then why did you go on with her. You know what to do,do it. And do it fast

ojun50:
Oga turn to pastor

I will rather she go than becoming a pastor

Not even 2faces Davidos Wizkids of this world can compete with pastors for women..

They are too flamboyant, a woman eater is what they are..

Why is it so, bcoz they command respect.

And ladies are naturally known to be attracted to who they respect and look up to.. Ladies see them as superior beings..

OP, almost every girl has a fantasy of fuçking and probably getting married to rock stars, movie stars etc.

Yours is strange, in that, hers is a pastor (pastors are celebrities in nigeria, anyway). It's not surprising in a country that is highly religious (though, most are hypocrites).

I think she is still naive and probably immature if she said that in your relationship and I believe she will outgrow it. Reality will shape her thinking overtime.

However, if she keeps harping on it, you might be dealing with a closet religious fanatic and pastor ass licker who would worship her "spiritual daddy" over you. That's a big disaster. Take flight the moment you notice this.

I'll advise you to observer her keenly, especially her relationship with church members and her pastor(s).

Samakus:


I will rather she go than becoming a pastor

i thought you love her

ojun50:

i thought you love her

Sure I do. But I have a life of my own too. I also deserve happiness as much as she does. I'm not bending on this

Diogeness:
OP, almost every girl has a fantasy of fuçking and probably getting married to rock stars, movie stars etc.

Yours is strange, in that, hers is a pastor (pastors are celebrities in nigeria, anyway). It's not surprising in a country that is highly religious (though, most are hypocrites).

I think she is still naive and probably immature if she said that in your relationship and I believe she will outgrow it. Reality will shape her thinking overtime.

However, if she keeps harping on it, you might be dealing with a closet religious fanatic and pastor ass licker who would worship her "spiritual daddy" over you. That's a big disaster. Take flight the moment you notice this.

I'll advise you to observer her keenly, especially her relationship with church members and her pastor(s).

So much sense in one post. Thank you

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