dyydxx:


Adultery isn't a crime, but Rape is. If I stole something from you and you knew it but cant prove it you know that doesnt mean it didnt happen. Busola was 17 years, a minor by most standards and this man just took advantage of her. it's not like she was propositioning him. He violated her consent because of the influence he had on her. It's rape, there's no way round it. No truly consensual sex leaves the kind of scars where you still carry the trauma after 20 years of your life. Not possible

dyydxx:


sharia dont supercede civil law. and if anyone less than 18 is sexually assaulted now the person can seek redress in Nigerian courts if the person is smart enough to take down evidences when it occured

dyydxx:


Definitely I agree with you, although I understand his point. There are some ladies that say leave me, dont touch me and still lead you on and actually want it but put up slight reisistance at the beginning and that's what he's saying. that you persists in those circumstances isn't RAPE but that is very different from the other scenario where the whole body, soul and spirit of the lady in question dont want your adavnces but yet you continue and take advantage of her. There's a difference

lexy2014:
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Is it d police that should "get in touch with d interviewer"? When no formal charges or complaints has been made, how will d police now b getting in touch?

sparko1:


HENCE THE WORLD "EVEN", she's just stating her story

Now let me school you!

Ever heard of the term "Veiled Testimony', rape accusuation and the likes are still in contention in some countries but you can't tell me she is obligated to show her face under any circumstance.

sweetrace:


Always accepting accusations without any evidence. I hope when you’re being accused falsely without any evidence, you’ll dance to the tune being played as people believe the accusations without asking questions or seeking any proof. Always persecuting based on your own capabilities. I hope when you’re in conflict with anyone, the court of public opinion is where your case is taken to and not a competent court of law. Where anyone will damn you guilty. Even when they don’t have a brain, principles or the ability to choose wrong from right.

tuzle:
guy it isn't becos of aliyah r Kelly was picked up

Korllami007:


I go by your logic.

You didn't make mention of evidence. Let's assume he didn't have evidence and he didn't sue her for defamation. Will you say he's guilty because he didn't do so?

crazygod:

Exactly. What led to her outburst was because of someone accusing her of sleeping with COZA pastors. I'm sure Timi wasn't even aware that she had a sort of relationship with the pastor and he has had some issues with this pastor which made him leave the church. She just tried to clear her name by shouting rape. I feel she is trying to save her marriage.

anonymous1759:



Did Biodun rape this girl? Please tell me how. She admitted that he didn't use force on her so why the noise? I'm certain that other guys have sweet talk her and have sex with her but she wouldn't say anything about it why Biodun If that's the case I'm also a Rapist because I've sweet talk a girl before who's not a minor and we'd sex. I didn't hit her or threaten her just music and sweet talks. She gave me Doggy, BJ and any style I wanted and tomorrow if she listen to something like this she would tag me a Rapist. I think we need a review the True definition of Rape all these story doesn't make sense. We guys need to stand up. The male community is in danger if stories like this gets attention.

anonymous1759:



That's what I'm saying... They're loopholes in the law. from the police Website they said busola needs to prove an extra point and it'll be very difficult for her to convict Biodun because of the state law that made it 16 for consensual sex. And how can someone rape you with a Doggy style without force??

Busola will loose woefully her best was destroying the guys image on social media all the ladies accusing him will loose too.

dyydxx:


well her truth is her truth

horhizah:


Don't base your defence on hearsay. Defend him if you have to because you believe Busola spoke half truth and not because some apologist narrated a baseless story.
When did Timi ever say he met his wife a virgin? Timi was never a member of COZA. Timi and Busola didn't get married in COZA.

Please let's get our facts right and stop peddling false stories.

Humility017:


I tell you...I continued but had to stop when I noticed her facial expression and she telling me I was making her uncomfortable.
she was not too happy that day with me..in my room..her countenance wasn't that good.

only for me to call her later in the evening to apologize for that mix up....she said it was no thing and she had no problem with what I was doing, she never meant what she said..and I asked her countenance..she said that's how she puts her face whenever she is being touched.



we really need to define what is RAPE and make Nigeria women and men understand it broadly

Benz4pimp:
once you have sef with a minor,it is a crime...

AmazonTopaz:

He can sue her to provide evidence and if she does not he is presumed innocent why is it so hard for him to do that.
Is he scared that other victims might come out

Korllami007:


But the same girl can accuse you of rape and she will win in Court of law because she said, "leave me and don't touch me" and you go ahead and do it. You're a rapist too. She will tell you in court of law she told you to leave her alone and you shouldn't touch her but you continue. If they asked you did she say so and you say yes, you are a goner. You see how consensual sex has changed to rape right in front of you.

Mayor08:

So you expect people to rise up to his defence blindly, you expect people to take sides blindly just as you have done.. He stepped down cause the pressure was much and it was a distraction to the church

TimAllen:
When you say you stand by your point that Busola was not raped, are you aware from her interview that she confirmed that she was 17 years at the time and according to the law, sex with a minor is nothing else but RAPE. Even in a case that the minor in this case Busola practically begged the Pastor to have sex with her it is still RAPE according to the law of the land.
Shaming the victim has always been an age long practice for cases like this, but it has to change so as to help curb the crime and help our women stand up to their tormentors should it occur again.

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R2bees:
See Epistle. Na me go come read this one. Odiegwu. I don't have una time again. FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON YOU, FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON ME.

crazygod:

She has a right to 'her truth'. But the whole world has a right to 'the truth'.

Korllami007:


Hmmmm. Make we just be careful. Any girl wey de do any resistance na to leave her alone ooo because I don't read mind. If she like make she go call me an impotent after she don leave my side na she know.

dyydxx:


That's why she didnt go to court but tell her story. She is simply telling her story.

dyydxx:


well if it's truly consensual she can't turn around and say that. That's the thing. I ve heard several wives even say they didnt feel like having sex with their husbands but they wanted to satisfy him so let him have his way. So they allowed it, not because they were pleased but still allowed it. Like let him do and go. it's delicate I agree but if a lady allows you in those circumstances is very different from the one that resists you and after you are done the person is scarred and hates you immediately.

horhizah:


Don't base your defence on hearsay. Defend him if you have to because you believe Busola spoke half truth and not because some apologist narrated a baseless story.
When did Timi ever say he met his wife a virgin? Timi was never a member of COZA. Timi and Busola didn't get married in COZA.

Please let's get our facts right and stop peddling false rumours.

dyydxx:


well if it's truly consensual she can't turn around and say that. That's the thing. I ve heard several wives even say they didnt feel like having sex with their husbands but they wanted to satisfy him so let him have his way. So they allowed it, not because they were pleased but still allowed it. Like let him do and go. it's delicate I agree but if a lady allows you in those circumstances is very different from the one that resists you and after you are done the person is scarred and hates you immediately.

Korllami007:


Wetin did you say? Neyma own nkor?

AZeD1:

Better to be a loser than a rapist.

There are lots of open girls in Nigeria who will tell you to fvuk... Find them to avoid stories that touch when you hammer.

Korllami007:


There are lot of people that have been jailed for false accusations, which means if they sued for defamation, they would have been jailed for the same offense.

What do you have to say about this?