Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,152 members, 7,977,308 topics. Date: Thursday, 17 October 2024 at 04:51 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. (4185 Views)
Why Some Nigerian Men Are Not Biological Fathers Of Their Children – Psychologis / Happy Birthday! You Are Loved! / Make God Basis Of Marriage, Commissioner Urges Couples (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 5:06pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: LordKO: why the need to preach it then? if it's their forte how you people can make such statements with a straight face is astonishing 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 5:11pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi: You don join bad gang. Na women wey de for bad gang de fear that word. lol. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 5:14pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: why would I have a problem with a word that most of you are not even capable of explaining in practical terms my problem is with the statement that love is not a woman's forte such nonsense but funny 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 5:16pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi: Shut up! Kindly look for your ilk elsewhere because I don't put up with small-minded people. Bumpkin. 8 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 5:16pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: love is not a woman's forte preacher 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 5:21pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: has it crossed your mind that people with money marry people with money to ensure it's not money their spouse is attracted to? in other words they don't want it to be about money at all 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 5:21pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi: Small-minded people like you always long for something you can't give and can't accept in good faith that which you give easily. Because I gave you a polite reply on your first mention you then decided to capitalize on it to mete out insult on me. No class of people have monopoly of toxicity. 13 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 5:23pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: cry me a river |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
doitforyou: Just putting it out there, nothing like unconditional love Ma'am. Both for you & LordKo. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
lilmax: Does it mean women who don't have money want men without money? 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
ikbnice: BRO, I wonder who was writing down your post. You're 101% correct. Only women who already give themselves comfort via being financially stable, can only ask for pleasure (emotionally, sexually, caring etc) & omit the comfort because they already have it. Since I have known this, life is simple. It's either you date a girl that is financially stable OR you make enough money to give both comfort and pleasure to any lady you're willing to settle down with. Sorry guys, If you're looking for unconditional love, please get it from your Mother, Only she carried you for 9 months. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 5:35pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
truthsayer009: There's something like unconditional love - I know because I practice it. However, unconditionality of love doesn't negate conditionality of falling in love and staying in love - this is while I always postulate and posit that altruism doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness - and once the conditions are immaterial/attribute based it's considered as "genuine love (talking about intimate relationship here)." Altruism and conscientiousness aren't interwoven, they're for checks and balances. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: Replying to this below: once the conditions are immaterial/attribute based, it's considered as "genuine love (talking about intimate relationship here)." Only women who already give themselves comfort via being financially stable, can only ask for pleasure (emotionally, sexually, caring etc) & omit the comfort because they already have it. Thus, the conditions can now be considered as immaterial/attribute based, because she already has comfort. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 5:45pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Get back to me when you recognize the fact that human beings are of different ethical leanings. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by doitforyou(f): 5:52pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Yes and No, hard to do in real life. Most people expect something in return from their partners like fidelity, loyalty etc for their love. However, unconditional love does exist. truthsayer009: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by mercy87: 5:53pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
cococandy: Coco you are right. I have a friend that takes care of all the responsibilities in the house. She has been doing this from the beginning of the marriage till now. She earns higher than the husband. School fees, feeding and house rents etc she takes care of them ALL. She confided in me that she bore 80% of the marriage rites. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by bukatyne(f): 5:59pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Hmmmmmmmm |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 6:06pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Tallhero: Okay, I will insert your humility in Debonairs POS. Kare okomi! |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 6:11pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
ornicus: Lmao @ video. Mama wants to have what she is having. Mama thinks that will giver her the orgasm her husband has never given her. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by babyfaceafrica: 6:31pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi:if that is their thinking,it is flawed..because it is still all about the money..especially the females!!.. at least we know naija rich men can marry poor ladies.. but please mention 5 very rich ladies that married poor men 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by nuelyoyo(m): 6:36pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas:What of all the moaning and cumming shivers u gals display, is it all fake |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by larryking540: 7:30pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi:but d dude is right, or do u have ur own statement to prove him wrong? go ahead it's a forum and pls no insult |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by larryking540: 7:38pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Tallhero:bro u are not alone, even me my self battle this thought everyday,weather marriage na try your luck just like nairabet me kw con kw o every bachelor must have this strange thoughts once he is getting to the prime of settling down, mostly when he must have been turned down by the ladies /girls he met back to back when he was broke and all of a sudden open doors been to flow into his gateway ,u will just see them coming ur way like flies chasing a bush mango, but a day doesn't pass by that we don't think of this, 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 7:40pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
larryking540: has he dissected the DNA to make such statements? besides, who doesn't like comfort? men don't like comfort? even your neighbor's dog likes comfort pls! |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by desvi: 7:44pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: historically women did not have the same opportunities to amass properties and fortunes as men they were even excluded from inheritance and since they had little to nothing they would often marry up newest research shows that in more egalitarian societies people (men and women) tend to stick to their own social class since more women are educated and earning money, fewer women marry up and fewer men down 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas:So can we conclude that men are loved based on how well they can provide?since humility doesn't mean anything to you. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by larryking540: 8:02pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
desvi:everyone loves/likes comfort, everyone tries to make sure everywhere good, it becomes crazy when everywhere con get as e be, then hell is let out in the hux, if I can still remember, our parents whispering in our ears not to worry everytin will be all right, even if na garri we day drink, though times have change, (I know that's what u will say) That's why the era of baby mama is taking over,the next Era coming up will be the one where women will beg men for marriage even willing to pay dowry for the men, sometimes we men don't actually plan for that but, it's better to die of heart attack alone than to be killed by a lady will heart-attack whom you call your wife 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by generationz(f): 8:46pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Tallhero: You are thinking too much when some men dey change girlfriend like pant I mean broke men o The only reason the girls move on is because the guy isn't ready not because they are not willing to marry him What where you doing when struggling? That's the best time to test a girlfriend's loyalty. Test but don't expect too much You might not have gotten the most beautiful girl at that point( except you have mad charisma and are good at painting the future) but you would have been sure of your loyalty Your best bet now is to choose a girl making her own money. If she is still struggling don't offer her money for all those mundane things like cloths , shoes and bags for like a year. Not even money for business . maybe once in a while credit or transport when she is leaving your house. Make it as rare as possible so she doesn't become entitled. It would be hard as many ladies even the non materialistic once might fail this test. Reason being some ladies ask not because they can't provide their needs but because they are scared of being fooled The second sures way is through the eyes of the spirit. Pray and receive a clear answer of who the person you are about to deal with really us or what they will do to you. This has saved some of us from doing business or entering relationships with some people. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Smile4mee01: 10:56pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Abeg where are they. Where can a guy find quality decent women these days. doitforyou: |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Smile4mee01: 11:15pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
I am also in the same ship bro. Many of these women who flock around us are like chameleons. They pretend to be the woman you are looking for only to show their true self down the road. For me , I have learnt to go MGTOWand prepare for the worst and hope for the best. But always always put yourself first. That way you have no regrets. Have you ever thought of women who wish their husbands death just so they can control his wealth. Indint know why many women these days want to be Men. Also. If you have a deep connection with your mum,sis,aunt. They can help sieve out the corn from the shaft. They have that intuition , else we will be swayed by the make up face, boobs and yansh. It's just so so hard to find a woman who is in it for you. Meanwhile, focus on you. Tallhero: 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by babyfaceafrica: 11:17pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
doitforyou:only God loves unconditionally.. no human can... |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 08, 2019 |
LordKO: I agree with you. |
Is This How To Be A Nigerian Wife or a wife?-----Must watch video / To Know If Your Partner Had Sex With Someone Else While U Were Not Around / Free 1000naira for grabs. Open the thread and follow instructions
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 75 |