I just realized that marriage comes with more cons than pros.

Because there are ways to MAKE it work and those ways NEVER TREND on social media.

It comes with more PROS than CONS.... and heck... life is a risk, so once you discover a way to minimize the risk, then MARRY.

PSYCHOLOGICALLY HEALTHY PEOPLE are raised by both parents.

Ibeekaay:
I just realized that marriage comes with more cons than pros.

In Nigeria, marriage is a DO OR DIE Mission, synonymous with happiness. People are raised to believe that if you ain't married then you might as well be dead. That's why even the most successful single people in Nigeria, are looked down upon if they are not married, and the 1st question is always :"why ain't you married? Go get married"

Many have NO CLUE whatsoever what it takes to BE happily married , let alone STAY happily married. Sadly, many will fail miserably at it, even before meeting the right mate to even marry.

For you to be married and leave in a miserable life, is better for you to be single and leave happy.