Pls dont waste ur energy, its nt worth it. NB: dnt walk dwn dat road cos once u start, dere's no walkin back, God deliver u my broda.

Yes ooooooooo, being jealous is good to an extent, for me am a jealous lover,
I think people who are not jealous over their loved ones are runs guys and gurls
who never settle one place. if you are having a single partner and you cherished and appreciate her/him most, bet me you must be jealous.
Cos' u will like to protect her to the core. If u have a partner you really cherish and neva want to let her go, you must be jealous to protect her. But my man to an extent, but i think its good.

it depends on d extent of jealousy.sm pple's display of jealous tend 2 actually b obsession,nd smtyms jealousy destroys relationships dats y trust shuld come afta luv.if ders trust ders no reason 4 u 2 b jealous.

I think being a jealous lover is 'good'. It keeps the relationship upbeat and keeps you on your toes, cos u'll always be trying to make sure you're still number one. But when you don't know when to shut it and let the other person have their space, you become a jealous pest. The trouble with love is, it's hard to draw the line between jealousy and possesiveness, so my guy, be jealous, just don't go about advertising it like a ferrari. Bring your ferrari out only when someone brings a rolls-royce to ur front, else lock ur ferrari up somwer safe.

Firstly ask urself why am i jealous? Is my jealousy progressive or retrogressive,is it for my own satisfaction or for his/her own benefit? Are u jealous because u see him/her wasting her time on what will not be beneficial to his/her present or future or are u jealous because he/she is moving up in life or being ambitious and u feel threathened? It all has to do with motives behind our action, even love can have a negative side to it if not done properly,so search ur heart always and ensure that whenever u are jealous it is for the right reasons.

@degubi
u re 101% correct.i agree wit u.of wat use is it 2 a relationship if one of d couple is jealous 4 no reason.

haba protecting your girl friend or your wife from wolves, na be bad thing now. If that na bad thing i be jealous lover!!!

its good to be jealous, but the problem is being over jealous, it turns to something else, at a time in my life, my boyfriend was jealous and i was enjoyiong it , but it got to a time that it was too much , i couldnt bear any more,too much of evryt thing no good

NO FREE UR PARTNER COZ HE OR SHE IS AN ADULT AND SHOULD HAVE KIND OF FREEDOM BASE ON TTRUST

Yes it is very good to be a jealous lover,how do you expect yourself to be sharing your life partner with someone else,infact it is degrading.But their is also another way that someone should not be jealous,that is if you are not truthful with your partner so you do not have to worry when he or she revenge just because you cheated first. And if you are into production of ponographic films and movies then you can go out with as many type of folks as you needed because you earn a living with it.

^{it ok 4 girls 2 be jealous}   

_{but when a man decides 2 be jealous}, he should be thrown down 4rm a skyscrapper       

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I'm a jealous lover.

Being jealous will only shoot up your blood pressure but I dare say God himself is a jealous one. There's got to be a good use for jealousy somewhere.

No it's not good to be jealous. Love is not envious. check 1 corinthians 13. Love cares for the welfare of the person, be glad for the person even if he/she likes another. When you give love, it comes back to you.

its not good to be jealous but is good to be possesive

PERVERT9:

its not good to be jealous but is good to be possesive

huh . . .that na sucide oh


besides, old topic!

all i have to say is dat jealousy goes wt love,u'll always be jealous wen u r really inlove,but if u r not u wouldnt mind wen u see ur partner kissing someone else

Why? Who needs unnecessary high blood pressure? It's so funny how some people think being jealous is the ultimate sign that they love their partner. Oh it might be cute in the beginning. . ."Aww, he loves me so much he does not want me out of his sight" but soon, very soon it's gets annoying. Jealousy is childish and it shows how insecure the other person is.

degubi:

Firstly ask yourself why am i jealous? Is my jealousy progressive or retrogressive,is it for my own satisfaction or for his/her own benefit? Are u jealous because u see him/her wasting her time on what will not be beneficial to his/her present or future or are u jealous because he/she is moving up in life or being ambitious and u feel threathened? It all has to do with motives behind our action, even love can have a negative side to it if not done properly,so search your heart always and ensure that whenever u are jealous it is for the right reasons. 

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@poster!! yes it good. God too is a jealous someone and we are his spirit. it alright to feel jealous. no harm done just express that emotions once in a while.

For I Myself, I am a jealous God.

i think its unusual to be in love without being jealous once or twice or thereabout, but one shouldnt get over jealous as to start doing things that will jeopardise the relationship. jealousy, is natural, so even when ur partners are not really doing d bad things u think they are doin, u may get jealous.like i said, its natural, it happens, shit happens,, if u need some goodluvadvice see http://www.lovecargo.net

It is good to be jealous but being posssessive is bad. Jealousy says u care about the person. Everyone that said they are not jealous are not being truthful n it means they are not in love or they are cheating on their partner.
Possessive is bad and please don't confuse it with jealousy. Beware of partners that wants to know every move of yours at all times, partners that wants to talk to the conductor to be sure u are in the right bus, those who wants to talk to ur mother every moment whenever u told him/her u are visiting mum. All these stem from insecurity and possessiveness.
My case was that bad my ex wanted to know who flashes me even when the no. is unknown, why I left school by 1.00pm and by 1.30pm I have not gotten home when the distance is 10mins. Why I am having my night bath by 10pm and not 7pm, that means I am just coming from a man's house. I shouldn't hug any other man, I shouldn't call guys from my tribe bros because they are potential toasters, guys shouldn't visit me even if they were course mates and so on and so forth. so numerous to mention and the end he was the one that cheated and I left him for good. Quest what? I am happier and fatter than when I was with him. Looking back I realise I was in bondage. So don't ever confuse possessiveness with jealousy.

There is nothing wrong in being a jealous lover, if you could control your jealousy it's fine, if you can't that where the problem lies!!!

@ Topic,

Sometimes.