usermane:


The truth in red pill did not convince me to embrace it because of the bias and narrow-mindedness behind it. Not to mention the psychological manipulative tactics it recommends to get women. Although, I would say I'm a bit of mgtow, since these days I mostly keep to myself.

What is surprising is agreeing to something to be nothing but the truth yet not convincing.....

That's kind of confusing...

kazyhm:
One fact I know is boys were born innocent and pure hearted until girls come along...



Boy were taught by girls how to man up.....


Boys heart were gold until broken by one naive cunning girl....

You are joking, right?

HealingHeart:


You are joking right?

Probably depending on your perspective about the topic....

kazyhm:


What is surprising is agreeing to something to be nothing but the truth yet not convincing.....

That's kind of confusing...

OK, I don't know how else to clarify this. Red pill & mgtow are a mix of true and false ideas about women. Much of the individual ideas are convincing just as much are not convincing. So, as a whole, red pill and mgtow remain deeply flawed and wrong.

usermane:


I don't see the bright side in red pill. It is a dark side, it is biased. I've learnt a lot from the mgtow or redpill community. They speak a lot of truth, but I was never convinced. Because they are biased and want to discuss about the harms women are capable of dealing men, never about the harms men are capable of dealing women.

If all you want is attention from women, then redpill works. But it works via psychological manipulation of another human being. Too much of mind games. I'd rather invest my mind in something else.

Just please yourself. Sooner or later, u will be running to latch on a straw just to save yourself.. good luck

usermane:
Wow ...... I used to active here back in 2012-2016. And I've said the same as you have. I think the problem is bigger than NairaLand, it is entrenched in the culture and to an extent in our psyche. The way forward for young men is to realize that they have to improve themselves and leave the rest to fate. Even the best men out there lack in the dating department. Women may be bad, but so are men. Let the blame game stop.

I'm on board with your recommendation. This notion of "behind every successful man is a woman" need to be rejected. Because it is not true. Life is not a Bollywood or Hollywood movie where the successful heroes win the woman.

usermane:


I don't see the bright side in red pill. It is a dark side, it is biased. I've learnt a lot from the mgtow or redpill community. They speak a lot of truth, but I was never convinced. Because they are biased and want to discuss about the harms women are capable of dealing men, never about the harms men are capable of dealing women.

If all you want is attention from women, then redpill works. But it works via psychological manipulation of another human being. Too much of mind games. I'd rather invest my mind in something else.

Dark side. Really dark, cynical and paranoid approach to dating.

lilwetdick:
Most of the people that write about redpill here, have never been with a woman or even experience life.

I can say for fact that many men are the cause of the problem, they dont give incentive for a woman to use their mind in acheiving their purpose. Nigerian men are sex obsessed, a female goes to find a job, the men on top wants to sleep with her, he brings out cash to make her give in, so what incentive does she have to work hard.

Absolutely. This is the side of the discourse that the RedPill and MGTOW are neglecting. Only the fault of the women is discussed, this fuel misogyny.

Another stuff is how come the only existance of the so called redpill here is SEX.

At end they still fall for the stuff they are avoiding.

I have never seen a group that is more obsessed about women than this so called redpill and mgtow people...woman wrapper all of them.

I never thought of this, but it's kind of true.

I know what they are are breeding into society, freaks, creepy behaviour, rapists and molesters.

Haha, have you heard of Elliot Rodgers?

usermane:


OK, I don't know how else to clarify this. Red pill & mgtow are a mix of true and false ideas about women. Much of the individual ideas are convincing just as much are not convincing. So, as a whole, red pill and mgtow remain deeply flawed and wrong.

Alrt. you just came down on the fence.

HealingHeart:


Absolutely. This is the side of the discourse that the RedPill and MGTOW are neglecting. Only the fault of the women is discussed, this fuel misogyny.



I never thought of this, but it's kind of true.



Haha, have you heard of Elliot Rodgers?

yeah, i know abt him and there are many more like him in the western world and also here, many are waiting for the right time and the right equipment to unleach anger on society.

kazyhm:


Probably depending on your perspective about the topic....

You're telling me that it is all the girls' fault, it is always them? This half-truth helps no one at all. If you look closely at many of the mean or nasty women exploiting guys out there, they started out as the "Good girls". But the players and assholes shattered them.

HealingHeart:


You're telling me that it is all the girls' fault, it is always them. This half-truth helps no one at all. If you look closely at many of the mean or nasty women exploiting guys out there, they started out as the "Good girls". But the players and assholes shattered them.

Not true.......the only difference is lamentation period


Boy experience their at younger age

Women experience the ripple effect of what they put boy through at later age

As you know time favours men....because men ages like wine
Women ages like milk


That's the biter truth

kazyhm:
One fact I know is boys were born innocent and pure hearted until girls come along...



Boy were taught by girls how to man up.....


Boys heart were gold until broken by one naive cunning girl....

you just repeat what your masters have written down..pure trash.

Have ever been with a woman before?

Men with the victim mentality are the one who thinks like you. They are no good to themselves and society.

Only men with low self esteem and needy men that dont know how to move on when a relationship goes bad that write trash like this.

lilwetdick:


you just repeat what your masters have written down..pure trash.

Have ever been with a woman before?

Men with the victim mentality are the one who thinks like you. They are no good to themselves and society.

Only men with low self esteem and needy men that dont know how to move on when a relationship goes bad.

Laff wan kill me die

By the way, who is this my master ?

Point of correction I'm in charge of my life....I regret nothing.....nothing at all. It will be better when you accept the truth, the truth you can do nothing about so that you can record a meaningful progress on time

kazyhm:


Laff wan kill me die

By the way, who is this my master ?

Point of correction I'm in charge of my life....I regret nothing.....nothing at all. It will be better when you accept the truth, the truth you can do nothing about so that you a gain a meaningful progress on time

there is no truth in what you wrote.

You know your redpill master here and everything you wrote down was just exactly the same.

kazyhm:


Not true.......the only difference is lamentation period


Boy experience their at younger age

Women experience the ripple effect of what they put boy through at later age

As you know time favours men....because men ages like wine
Women ages like milk


That's the biter truth

You're referring to childhood traumas? I'm not sure this is limited to only boys. Although I see it as a probable explanation for boys becoming assholes. Still, it is not right to turn against all women and forget the faults of most men just because some girl victimized you in JSS 3.

HealingHeart:


You're referring to childhood traumas? I'm not sure this is limited to only boys. Although I see it as a probable explanation for boys becoming assholes. Still, it is not right to turn against all women and forget the faults of most men just because some girl victimized you in JSS 3.

Here comes your bias judgement......... And probably you are one of those that Bisola Dakolo narration of rape of many years ago make sense to.........

Now that you have gotten how asshole are made.......can you as well advice ladies to bear their situation and start teaching girls to stop creating the asshole for their own future....



In addition, stop being misandric

lilwetdick:


there is no truth in what you wrote.

You know your redpill master here and everything you wrote down was just exactly the same.

Meaning some of us has learnt how to deal with life by experience....... Experience we won't allow the young ones to have

MariaLavina:
Hey!

where have you been Mimi?

I've been held Since DEC. Came out last week.

How are you.!?

kazyhm:


Here comes your bias judgement......... And probably you are one of those that Bisola Dakolo narration of rape of many years ago make sense to.........

Now that you have gotten how asshole are made.......can you as well advice ladies to bear their situation and start teaching girls to stop creating the asshole for their own future....

You didn't understand my post. I said boyhood trauma at the hand of girls probably influence assholes. 'Probably', not 'definitely'. This is because there are boys who were victimized by girl(s) growing up and did not become assholes. And there are assholes that were never victimized by girls growing up. Assholes are not all created from childhood traumas.

kazyhm:


In addition, stop being misandric

I didn't see this earlier. I have not been misandric. I think I've presented the fault of both sides - men and women. We're all guilty, so stop blaming the opposite gender.

HealingHeart:


You didn't understand my post. I said boyhood trauma at the hand of girls probably influence assholes. 'Probably', not 'definitely'. This is because there are boys who were victimized by girl(s) growing up and did not become assholes. And there are assholes that were never victimized by girls growing up. Assholes are not all created from childhood traumas.

You know.....most time people don't understand why they behave in s certain way......or exhibit some character.....consciously or unconsciously we're all influenced by what we had passed through either directly or indirectly........ That's a fact.....many stuff were pick as we grow along. No one was born heartless

I'm not even talking about teenage years victimization buy adulthood experiences.....


You would agree with me that everyone gets hurt but applies the experience differently.......

Perhaps, your first relationship shaped/modified in some kind of way

kazyhm:



Meaning some of us has learnt how to deal with life by experience....... Experience we won't allow the young ones to have

what experiences, how many girls have you dated in your life time, i guess only 1

lilwetdick:


what experiences, how many girls have you dated in your life time, i guess only 1

This is the second time you subtly asked how many girls I had dated.........ask directly and I will honestly answer........ But with a condition....

kazyhm:



This is the second time you subtly asked how many girls I had dated.........ask directly and I will honestly answer........ But with a condition....

i am not subtly asking, i asked you before you didnt answer, do not lie to brag here, how many girls have you dated in your life time
and what is the condition?

lilwetdick:


i am not subtly asking, i asked you before you didnt answer, do not lie to brag here, how many girls have you dated in your life time
and what is the condition?

You tell me your body count first

kazyhm:


You tell me your body count first

i cant tell you my body count, i asked you first, tell me yours and we go from there

lilwetdick:


i cant tell you my body count, i asked you first, tell me yours and we go from there

You asked for the conditions............so you don't agree to the conditions ?

kazyhm:


You asked for the conditions............so you don't agree to the conditions ?

dont be over excited and stop wasting my time abeg... no time for all these chat up and chat down because of body count, sincerely,it is a waste of time and to me... very boring, if you dont wanna write down then good. next time, go straight to the point of discussion.

i wanted to just access you with the rant you wrote, a sexually active and confident man in real life wont waste time reading redpill or joining what ever trending group where men bash women for not getting sex.

lilwetdick:


stop wasting my time abeg... no time, all these chat up and chat down because of body count is a waste of time and to me very boring, if you dont wanna write down then good. next time, go straight to the point of discussion.

i wanted to just access you with the rant you wrote, a sexually active and confident man in real life wont waste time reading redpill or joining what ever trending group where men bash women for not having sex.

There is no big deal in body count.......... However, the conditions determines the length and breath of this conversation......

You accessing me neither subtract nor add nothing to whatever..........I don't even know where to read redpill and what is trending is subjective..........


And point of correction I don't bash women, I say what I know not some hearsay

kazyhm:


There is no big deal in body count.......... However, the conditions determines the length and breath of this conversation......

You accessing me neither subtract nor add nothing to whatever..........I don't even know where to read redpill and what is trending is subjective..........


And point of correction I don't bash women, I say what I know not some hearsay

i asked you a simple question

how many women have you been with to conclude that men are innocent and that women came and spoil men soul..you went to asking me about body count with conditions, i am really concern about how did the topic lead to body count

as i have said a man that is sexually active and sleeps around, will be so proud and confident to count the number of women he has slept with because to him, he sees it as a conquest. men that have had no show will start asking the others for theirs to make up for their loss so that they can lie and increase their number to make people think they are the MAN

i asked a simple question,what special experience in your life made you conclude that all women are not saint and men are innocent?

these are simple stuff i wanted to know before you got over excited to start asking about body count.

kazyhm:


There is no big deal in body count.......... However, the conditions determines the length and breath of this conversation......

You accessing me neither subtract nor add nothing to whatever..........I don't even know where to read redpill and what is trending is subjective..........


And point of correction I don't bash women, I say what I know not some hearsay

Please try and ignore lilwetd.ick. That's a woman behind a male moniker. These women know we don't have their time and we are interested in help young males and devoting time to them so these foolish women come with male monikers to get our attention. Some of them don't even indicate their gender. Any post that lacks reasoning and is saturated with stupidity and bluepilled nonsense despite repeated clarifications and simple explanations should be ignored. She is asking you "have been with all women?" — what a dingbat!

Also ignore the op and others. No time for nonsense!

Martinez39:
Please try and ignore lilwetd.ick. That's a woman behind a male moniker. These women know when don't have their time and we are interested in help young males and devoting time to them so these foolish women come with male monikers to get our attention. Any post that lacks reasoning and is saturated with stupidity and bluepilled nonsense despite repeated clarifications and simple explanations should be ignored. She is asking you "have been with all women?" — what a dingbat!

Also ignore the op and others. No time for nonsense!

as usual you always go to your crying corner to complain, now how does a young virgin boy like you, who have never been with a woman teach others about women, do you even know how a woman breast look like, you look like someone that will salivate if a woman just shake your hands

do you even know how a real virginal looks like or even the road to the pussy? i am not talking about the flesh light you are used to.