I have a very serious problem which has started affecting me psychologically and even my performance at my job.
I have tried to work things out with my wife but it has not yielded any positive result as I am not convinced about the situation. I feel too ashamed to discuss the problem with my pastor and even worse with my mother because I know that will only escalate things. Trust me, I know my mother and mothers generally. As for my friends, I am afraid they might turn around to use it against us and make me the butt of their jokes
My problem started last December, over the festive period to be precise. I caught my wife on our matrimonial bed having sex with a vibrator.


I CAUGHT MY WIFE CHEATING ON ME WITH A VIBRATOR ON OUR MATRIMONIAL BED

my brother stop painting this matter, your pastors wife probably have more than one vibrator and actively using it, leave your mum out of this, your friends wifes cant all deny ignorance in this matter.
your wife is probably at her peak and rather than have another man screw her she resulted in the vibrator tin. try to understand her and step your game. your case is very normal. and shes not abnormal in any way.