skydeep:
I dont take cash from my man. I only accept gift. I am a working class dame.

zealot4me:

its not bad accepting the money but its just some guys dnt give money wit one mind. they give u wit d intentions of collecting it back wit something else e.g dobodobo

zealot4me:

its not bad accepting the money but its just some guys dnt give money wit one mind. the give u wit d intentions of collecting it back wit something else e.g dobodobo

googles:

If I need the money. . .I 'll collect it

better me than beer parlors and pepper soup joints anyway

xynerise:

You gals in general are liability to guys

bodrin:

its not bad tho, guys who gives money all the tym is insecure, lack manly confidence.

u need 2 care for your babe bt money shld not be the inn thin. i fit give anything as long as it pleases me.

poster u dey exploit your guy cos ds questn sound absurd small?

Xadore:

It's not all guys who give money to their gfs. Sometimes it is the other way around. Only If I'm in serious need of money and my bf gives me I will collect and if he also needs money and I have,I would give him.I wouldn't collect money just like that preferably gifts.

Omolola1:

Well, if the gurl really needs it, no qualms!

Mr-Cork:

**for constant punnny supply**

zealot4me:

its not bad accepting the money but its just some guys dnt give money wit one mind. the give u wit d intentions of collecting it back wit something else e.g dobodobo

bk.babe97y:

If she's your gal, cool. who cares? U got if, splurge it. She act up, kick her to the curb and splurge on the next binch!

omo_to_dun:

So do you have a problem with demand and supply? A guy can give money without expecting anything in return if the recipient and he are just friends with no strings attached. However,even in a platonic relationship, or any kind of relationship, it is always give and take; always demanding or accepting money or gifts from a guy while giving him a peck on his cheek is no different from 419ing.

Honey, most women have made it clear that they will have nothing to do with you if you and a church rat are on the same level. Hence, our current situation.

IgboGirl:

why does it have to be guys giving money to their girlfriends? what about girlfriends giving money to their boyfriends? men aren't the only ones making money you know.
most women are now the bread winners of their homes while the men sit at home and watch tv/play video games all day.
some men are liabilities!

Rocktation:

@OP- Are you serious?

Don Xavi:

I don't see anything wrong in giving money to your Gf, when u know your gf is not working and has no means of income u should give her money, there's no LOVE that does not express itself through giving, in turn if the guy is the one in need and his gf is well to do financially she should also help the guy as well. it shouldn't always be guys stuff to give.

iceblue:

cos guys believe in the law of focus(TM): think of it as a machine shooting tennis balls. as long as the tennis balls keep shooting at the player, she won't lose focus. she'll keep playing. she'll look elsewhere once the balls stop coming.


_{if you've never heard of the law of focus(TM), don't worry. i just invented it} 

2sexy:

Frankly speaking, giving money to a girl is not my priority any more and if you are giving any girl money, do it wisely especially if you are not sure of marrying her.

2sexy:


A lot of guys who give girls money hardly give to their fellow man when he needs help. This is VERY, VERY WRONG! and this is the trend in Nigeria!

2sexy:


A lot of guys who give out money to their GF do not even know if the girl is in love with them or the money, which is another rounds of foolishness.

2sexy:

Most of my Nigerian brothers go broke because they want show off to their Gf--foolishness with bliss! Most of this guys do not even know one thing about INVESTMENT, yet they want to be rich. They dream of becoming the next big guy in town. but do they know that money given to GF (WHO IS JUST A PASSER-BY) is worth multiple ROI in the future? NO. BIG TIME DUMMIES! Hence, future wife and children suffer because the head of the family only planned for GF but not for future wife and children.

2sexy:

but do they know that money given to GF (WHO IS JUST A PASSER-BY) is worth multiple ROI in the future? NO. BIG TIME DUMMIES! Hence, future wife and children suffer because the head of the family only planned for GF but not for future wife and children.

2sexy:


When you give money to a girl or lady that you are dating, why are you doing it? Is it because you are dating her or because you know she needs it ? There is a difference between this two. I used to give my ex money because I was trying to understand her situation and because I knew she needed it. But at one point, she started acting as if it is a must that I give her money because I am dating her and to me, I dont like it that way. this was because it makes me feel as if she is selling herself to me. But like I said, this is the trend in Nigeria.

2sexy:


And to most people who may not know 2sexy, I dont follow crowd. I dont allow them influence my decision , hence I dont give girl money because I am dating her. I will only give to girl whom I know would do the same for me.

2sexy:

nellaluv:

If your boyfriend is Nigerian, it's a Nigerian thing, you won't understand .

pc guru:

Actually Giving is never a big issue for me as long as it's not made as if it's my Right to give.

nellaluv:

If your boyfriend is Nigerian, it's a Nigerian thing, you won't understand .

Tink_sh:

I dont get it and never will. I have always paid my own way. My ex asked me for money but never gave it cos he says he is always broke. I moved into my parents house cos i have to save for a car as mine died and he still asked me for ticket money to come see me. I was offended as all i work hard for is for my son and providing for us. So i have no idea about all this 'guys paying for everything and girls taking everything'

My previous was a nigerian and in two years i got one birthday gift. I was grateful for that but no other gifts or money as you guys talk about. I think its all a make believe dream.

Tink_sh:

Yes, he is. The one and only guy i have ever dated outside of my fellow white guys, hehe!!

Tink_sh:


Ms. Potato, can you slip back into his wallet when he is asleep or in the shower? Maybe set up another account just for the money he gives you then if you get married it will be a nice surprise and spend it on a honeymoon or something for both of you.

Tink_sh:

Good for you. I like the buying furniture part, hehe!! Good thinking. I really have no idea how you stop him. He seems to be doing it with the right heart and cos he wants to give to you cos he loves you so much. I understand how you feel that you dont want him to feel he has to give it to you and you dont 'need' him to give it to you. Someone may have to compromise here and it may have to be you. Just keep stashing it away.