OlawaleBammie:

That part of brain na hin a no know oo. what i knw is dat mine happened just recently wen am at d wrong side of twenties already, u ure familiar with d feelings if "wer wil i start from", it got to a stage dat i would b discussing with myself irrationally.... aaahhh dis is becoming more of a mental blockage ooh cus of woman, haain, only me reset my memory bak to factory setting to save my sanity. now am even cool with being single, no emotional blackmailing no heartbreak, wen i wake up in d morning am nt burdened with d fact dat i hav to call someone, just wake up and count d ceiling and.... wen my guys and der gfs are playing romance i wil take my fon and snap dem, yes am cool with dat


Lest i forget, i hope u hav had tym to braid ur hair and change ur slippers??

Lol.. When mine happened i was also always talking to myself irrationally, i was eating but with so much struggle and i was losing weight. To sleep at night became a very big issue, the burden was huge. Most times when i remember the whole thing i just find myself in sudden shock and i felt so sick all of the time..

It was a painful and traumatic period for me. Anyone who's never been in love would never understand. Heartbreak could kill mehn, you could just die of heart attack/cardiac arrest. Damn

The girl is too young to be in a relationship.
She is not considered an adult yet which is 18 years and above so she is very young to be in a relationship not matter how endowed she may may be.
The parents has failed in the part of parental hood simply on the fact that they did not give her sex education which would have nurtured her mind and then know when to enter into relationship.
The parents also failed woefully for not been concerned about the lifestyle of their daughter in school.
Most importantly, the fact that your son or your daughter is in school, either boding or not, no matter their level of education, make him or her your very close friend.
Friendship makes two hearts to read each other emotionally.
Friendship will help you to know when the person emotional life is fallen apart.
We can all avoid or stop our loved ones from committing suicide but that is only when we do the right thing expected of us as a parents or guadian.
Find out more on how to avoid suicide....
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/07/the-causes-of-suicide-you-must-avoid.html

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akinade28:
Relationships are for mature minds oo, because the pain of an heartbreak is usually very bad.
I remember my first heartbreak, I was just walking around the campus aimlessly with my hair unkept, I didn't even notice I was putting on bathroom slippers. Mind you I was in my mid twenties
Another friend of mine barbed her hair after her first heartbreak.
Someone said that the part of brain that processes physical pains also processes emotional pains. For physical pains, other people can see it, hence they can comfort you, treat it and help in the healing process but emotional pains nobody can see it, you are the only person that knows where it hurts hence healing is much more difficult except you get professional help from a psychologist . unfortunately a lot people have little informations about these things

But psychologists are hard to come.by. Do you have any that you can refer ? I need

Realhommie:
Lol.. When mine happened i was also always talking to myself irrationally, i was eating but with so much struggle and i was losing weight. To sleep at night became a very big issue, the burden was huge. Most times when i remember the whole thing i just find myself in sudden shock and i felt so sick all of the time..

It was a painful and traumatic period for me. Anyone who's never been in love would never understand. Heartbreak could kill mehn, you could just die of heart attack/cardiac arrest. Damn

Ahahahaha, d tin no easy oo, but i derived one positive from it which is it wil always make is stronger, cool urself bro, hustle and i bet it with u dat u wil feel less about women but more about ur success, me oo ahh, i cant endure another heartbreak again oo na hin make me leggo for my corner jejely.

Starlight10:
Plot twist: someone tried to rape her and she also tried to raise alarm and he strangled her and tied her to the ceiling fan to look like suicide. He also left the note as back up. Inspector take notes pls. No only child of her parents will be that heartless.

hey pls. What. Part of your body do you use to think with sef

Too young? Hmm. The kind of things I see these days is also alarming. At 14, 20% of females are disvirgined already. Many 14 year Olds now exposed to porn and Korea series movies. At 14 students no longer interested in school. Situations happening like this don't make me surprised. This is the aftermath of backwardness of our society. This one na the one we hear o

OlawaleBammie:


Ahahahaha, d tin no easy oo, but i derived one positive from it which is it wil always make is stronger, cool urself bro, hustle and i bet it with u dat u wil feel less about women but more about ur success, me oo ahh, i cant endure another heartbreak again oo na hin make me leggo for my corner jejely.

Hahahahahaha.

Apt though.

castro316:
hey pls. What. Part of your body do you use to think with sef

My Brain, the part you seldom use.

All these young people committing suicide... Wetin una don see...its d new spirit in town sha...

Hmm

Starlight10:
My Brain, the part you seldom use.

No. You are deluded. That's where everybody thinks from now you feel you also think from there too. I will give you one more chance. What part of your body do you think with?

pelkad1290:
Did I read well?

14years old..
The rate of growth in recent years is alarming
With Lil kids diving into things the matured ones still find trouble handling sef.....

Our social studies syllabus must change

As in older people sef are still struggling with the sustainability in relationships and marriages...

Spoilt brat. I pity her damned soul

castro316:


No. You are deluded. That's where everybody thinks from now you feel you also think from there too. I will give you one more chance. What part of your body do you think with?

hahha, i have noticed you. Nobody gives a crap about you in the real world. Im glad you feel among on NL

Starlight10:
what have i said that is making you lose your sanity. Police should investigate as well without just concluding. Allover the world suicides are inveatigated except nigeria. A lot of people can be murder victims and the perpetrators disguised as suicide.

U maybe right ,but children of 2day know more than what they should know about sex

Starlight10:
what have i said that is making you lose your sanity. Police should investigate as well without just concluding. Allover the world suicides are inveatigated except nigeria. A lot of people can be murder victims and the perpetrators disguised as suicide.

U maybe right ,but children of 2day know more than what they should know about sex ....I was in a friends house one day ,gals of 17 or 18 telling them selves that one brother is only good in giving out money but not good in bed than the one who don't have money to gv

Starlight10:
hahha, i have noticed you. Nobody gives a crap about you in the real world. Im glad you feel among on NL

What I am now you cannot stand near me. For what I know tongue lashers have their mouths as their only weapon. People who make impact talk less. Continue to humor me with your lashing. Hahaha. I will ask again. Which part of your body do you think with sef? Hahaha

Starlight10:

My dear if you watch ID x you will know it does happen
Some murders can be using this Suicide trend to cover up. To get a rope on a dead person and put them on a fan is so simple and doable. I just want police to investigate suisides as well. No bickering intended here.

You watch too many movies that's why common sense eludes you.
You can see it's a clear case of psychological trauma and the poor girl went far. What a bad decision to take ones life. Some parents hit words that cut like a knife. Thank God there are witnesses here on NL. Only God knows how her mum has been verbally assaulting her till now. Have your parents not talked to you In such a way that you go and think about your life?

elnoor:
wise people i greet you. if this is from north, the whole nairaland will burst.

You gat sense......

castro316:


You watch too many movies that's why common sense eludes you.
You can see it's a clear case of psychological trauma and the poor girl went far. What a bad decision to take ones life. Some parents hit words that cut like a knife. Thank God there are witnesses here on NL. Only God knows how her mum has been verbally assaulting her till now. Have your parents not talked to you In such a way that you go and think about your life?

an advanced country will still call for an investigation. But Nigerians like speculation and obvious scenarios. I leave you to your common sense.

castro316:


What I am now you cannot stand near me. For what I know tongue lashers have their mouths as their only weapon. People who make impact talk less. Continue to humor me with your lashing. Hahaha. I will ask again. Which part of your body do you think with sef? Hahaha

your brain is still fresh like most Nigerians. You never use. It.you seem angered by he mere call for an investigation. That somehow is not easy for you to comprehend. I am honored for you to ask me what i think with because scientifically we only think with the brain. But im sorry i cant ask you that. The end.

Pat081:
U maybe right ,but children of 2day know more than what they should know about sex ....I was in a friends house one day ,gals of 17 or 18 telling them selves that one brother is only good in giving out money but not good in bed than the one who don't have money to gv

i dont believe in speculation. I believe in good old investigation and conclusive finding. The obvious might or might not be the case. Nigeria should get the police to do the job they are paid to do. Every suicide in other countries even ghana is investigated but Godforbid in Nigeria i call for an investigation.

castro316:


What I am now you cannot stand near me. For what I know tongue lashers have their mouths as their only weapon. People who make impact talk less. Continue to humor me with your lashing. Hahaha. I will ask again. Which part of your body do you think with sef? Hahaha

even in advanced countries that after investigation it is determined it was suicide, the reason is further investigated and in some cases arrests are still made. Some kids are being lured into sex and then dumped and shamed into taking their lives in such cases arrests are made even if is minors involved they are taken into juvenile correction centers. I dont mind schooling you on the importance of moving past just public wailling and social media comments. Expecting to hear from you. Trust me i am not your level at all.

Starlight10:
i dont believe in speculation. I believe in good old investigation and conclusive finding. The obvious might or might not be the case. Nigeria should get the police to do the job they are paid to do. Every suicide in other countries even ghana is investigated but Godforbid in Nigeria i call for an investigation.

U can help them dear

The rate of moral decadency is just too much in our society this days! Wat does a 14 year old know abt love and life? Why would someone take his/her precious life just becos of heartbreak? If not now, maybe later in life, many of us will understand dat the heartbreak we experience was a way of escape from an appalling situation we could have experience. Nobody is worth dying for in the name of love. I remember crying for three good days wen my ex whom I loved so much and whom I tot loved me in return said we can't continue. Looking back over d years, I now thank God every now and then dat I didn't continue wit him cos I would have been so miserable judging from wat is revolving around him now.