Okay,

Before I ask yall questions,

A few girlfriends of mine went out for a girl day out and we were enjoying ourselves until one of the girl's boyfriend came along we never met this guy who she just started being exclusive with and she INTRODUCED HIM AS HER FRIEND, apparently to the guy they were more than friends because he said, you mean boyfriend? She said oh, you know same thing,

The guy excused himself and apparently was mad at her for calling him her friend. Now that is not the only cases I have seen because I actually called my husband's my homey lover friend and he got mad. Now I was only kidding but to him he wasn't kidding. He got mad and gave me this lecture, that he is my husband and that is what I should always call him.

Questions:

Why do guys trip off when you don't call them the title they think they deserve?

Ladies,

IF the guy called you his shorty, boo, friend, or associate, WHEN YOU CLEARLY WANTS TO BE MORE THAN THAT, would you get mad and leave or would you stay?

how would feel if you are faith & committed and your call each other boyfriend and girlfriend then if there are people around you are now call him/her a friend

The question would be HOW WOULD YOU FEEL zimdrill?

am asking you back

how would you feel ?

it only needs to reverse the roles to find out how would feel then with that answer we find the reason why the guy got pissed

I don't think it's a general thing, it depends on the individual.

Male or female, when the other calls you something you are not happy with, it's better to talk to them privately later, rather than making a scene.

They usually don't mean it the way one partner thinks.

Right SMS,

Most of the time the partners or spouses don't mean no harm and we sometimes don't know what will tick a person off,

Zimdrill,

I would have been upset if my husband said it maliciously, if he was just kidding and it only happen once I wouldnt be tripping,

queeneve:

Right SMS,

Most of the time the partners or spouses don't mean no harm and we sometimes don't know what will tick a person off,

Zimdrill,

I would have been upset if my husband said it maliciously, if he was just kidding and it only happen once I wouldnt be tripping,

i think everyone who is faithful and committed to a relationship would be pissed, on your side you would be telling yourself that there is nothing you are ashamed of to tell people that s/he is boyfriend

then him/her introduces you as friend you start to question yourself am being taken for a ride, do this people know the other person who might have been introduced as the girlfriend/boyfriend

^^i agree wt that

I never start up sommin without a definition. . . It has to be defined from the word go !

queeneve now starts topics,


since wen did that one stat

go have a stick of cigarette and av sex wud ya!

googles:

I never start up sommin without a definition. . . It has to be defined from the word go !

Smart girl.

madlady:

Smart girl.

thanks wifey

It depends on his motive for not calling it d way it is.
My BF is a clown so he goes 'meet my gal,am training her to b a better person'. Its not a bigy as long as he is not denying what we share.

ZIM DRILL:

i think every is who faithful and committed to a relationship would be pissed, on your side you would be telling yourself that there is nothing you are ashamed of to tell people that s/he is boyfriend

then him/her introduces you as friend you start to question yourself am being taken for a ride, do this people know the other person who might have been introduced as the girlfriend/boyfriend

I agree

How about I call you my 'baba mama','lay', 'fling' . . while we are engaged?

googles:

thanks wifey

come dis pikin,na ervryborri be ur wifey

tjskii:

come dis pikin,na ervryborri be your wifey

lol haba. . . am just a serial monogamist o

one day gone, one wife gone. . . but madlady and tjskii remain my constant K at any time T I solemnly swear

that's not important, it's how you see em that matters

I wont feel anything. . . Besides, he always introduced me as Mama Ngozi and I introduced him as Baba Ngozi.

queeneve:

Okay,

Before I ask yall questions,

A few girlfriends of mine went out for a girl day out and we were enjoying ourselves until one of the girl's boyfriend came along we never met this guy who she just started being exclusive with and she INTRODUCED HIM AS HER FRIEND, apparently to the guy they were more than friends because he said, you mean boyfriend? She said oh, you know same thing,

The guy excused himself and apparently was mad at her for calling him her friend. Now that is not the only cases I have seen because I actually called my husband's my homey lover friend and he got mad. Now I was only kidding but to him he wasn't kidding. He got mad and gave me this lecture, that he is my husband and that is what I should always call him.

Questions:

Why do guys trip off when you don't call them the title they think they deserve?

Ladies,

IF the guy called you his shorty, boo, friend, or associate, WHEN YOU CLEARLY WANTS TO BE MORE THAN THAT, would you get mad and leave or would you stay?

We should try and always call things by their names. i cannot admit my spouse introducing me to her friends as being her friend, the first thing that will strike my mind would be that there's something fishy going on.

Ms. Potato:

I wont feel anything. . . Besides, he always introduced me as Mama Ngozi and I introduced him as Baba Ngozi.

lol, i dat u in ur profile?

I calls my good friend's son my lil future husband,

It didn't sit well with my present husband, I mean the baby is 9 months old!! My friend and I laughed every time I asked her about her son, I say how my lil husband doing,

I think people need to know the difference when somebody is PLAYING or someone is SERIOUS,

I guess to some people the titles are important, sighs,

queeneve:

I calls my good friend's son my lil future husband,

It didn't sit well with my present husband, I mean the baby is 9 months old!! My friend and I laughed every time I asked her about her son, I say how my lil husband doing,

I think people need to know the difference when somebody is PLAYING or someone is SERIOUS,

I guess to some people the titles are important, sighs,

ok picture this


may be he thinks that he going to die before you and some nigga is going to be hitting his pum pum

queeneve:

I calls my good friend's son my lil future husband,

It didn't sit well with my present husband, I mean the baby is 9 months old!! My friend and I laughed every time I asked her about her son, I say how my lil husband doing,

I think people need to know the difference when somebody is PLAYING or someone is SERIOUS,

I guess to some people the titles are important, sighs,

Really??!

Zimdrill,

Please rewrite that because I am trying to get ya baby,


Moyola,

Yes, it a figure of speech GOODNESS! IT NOTHING SERIOUS, just a phrase, LAWD HAVE MURCEEE,

queeneve:

Zimdrill,

Please rewrite that because I am trying to get ya baby,


Moyola,

Yes, it a figure of speech GOODNESS! IT NOTHING SERIOUS, just a phrase, LAWD HAVE MURCEEE,

missing words put in

Too many definitions, too much labelling, (when would NL add a "Roll Eye" button)

how did this msg make the front page, someone tell me,

I aint gona be mad. Just tells me i can hit it off with her any1 of her friends or any1 else. I mean we are just "Friends" remember!!!! I mean all i got 2 do is put my best game face on. I totally aint gonna be mad!!!