we broke 3 months ago, we reconciled exactly a month ago, i discovered she has someone else but she promised to cut off from him, 7 days later, we were talking and she said i was pissing her off. i cut off didnt call the next day cos i was upset. she didnt call back and i didnt bother to call too. ever since then we\ve not been in contact but i discovered shes still in contact wiv the other guy tru ha facebook wall. now she called me yesterday saying she missed me and wants to know if am ok. some mins later he friend called me to ask wen last i called her friend and that are we on good terms. i told her to go ask her friend not me. today she replied a post on her wall that shes single not in any relationship which i think means shes broken up wiv the other guy, i still love this girl, i know if i call her she'll gladly accept us back but,
do i call her?

yesssss!!

manage-a-trois

Dating is not a necessity.

Whats stopping u? Cant u read btw the lines that she luvs u and still wants u? She was just managing that guy. She woldnt have asked her friend to call u if she doesnt want u. And above all u still luv her. Better go after her.

Pls poster keep us posted, I love, love stories~

michelin89:

Dating is not a necessity.

especially when you are immature.

Omolola1:

Pls poster keep us posted, I love, love stories~

U can start ur love story thread, we will be happy to read urs too, So shld we stay tunned?

rokiatu:

especially when you are immature.

neither of us is immature. infact shes abt 2yrs older.

190:

This is what happens when u date 15yr old girl's~

hahahahahahaha true.

You guys are just beating around the bush.  Dude, grab the bull by the horns and ask her this straight question: What exactly does she want?

yemium:

neither of us is immature. infact shes abt 2yrs older.

Age is not maturity.

Instead of playing hide and seek games. . . why not just call her up,have a moment of truth discussion,if you guys come to a mutual agreement, watever dat

agreement is, stick to it and forge ahead. all these games wont help or solve anything. face your fears 

D fact dat her fbk wal says single does nt min she has brkn up wif d guy.i tink d both of u shld sit down nd talk.tel her u stil want her bt d oda guy is hindrin u.then act on what she says.

190:

This is what happens when u date 15yr old girl's~

190:

This is what happens when u date 15yr old girl's~

lol
U GET ISSUES.

190:

Yes u do

Ok guyz, another twist. acting on what u said, i called her friend now to talk abt the issue and she told me she has explained to everything to her(friend). We fixed tonight to talk well(xtra cool),myself and her friend. tnx guyz, i should have sought advice long b4 now, nway,i'l keep u guyz posted

So you need to book a call with her friend? Are you dating her friend too or you are not strong enough to face your girlfriend & ask her where you stand?

No wonder Michellin89 called you immature!!!

Iranoladun:

So you need to book a call with her friend? Are you dating her friend too or you are not strong enough to face your girlfriend & ask her where you stand?

No wonder Michellin89 called you immature!!!

U dont expect me to just call her like that, i need at least some info to know the right things to say n the only way i can get that is through her friend.u'd have understood if u were in my shoes, nway,tnx 4 dropping by

your rival only step aside like babangida. he is still coming back beware

Use your common sense and opt out of this caricature you call a relationship. You be mugu?

If you like yourself you better leave that ashi, today she is with you tomorrow she is with the other guy, WTF.

Be a man and call her yourself. you just acting like a boy calling her friend. for what?
The girl will be trilled if you just call her and know the state of things.

Dnt be rush kallin her. If she truly loves u,since she has brokn up wit d guy,she wil surely giv u a kul. Jst hav a little patience ,

Guy, Wake up, cant you see the writing on the wall?. You asked her to drop the other guy, but she dumped your sorry a.ass instead and went with the other guy. My guess is that the other fellow probably dumped her or she’s found out he aint what she thought he was, now she wants to come back to you.
Its up to you to take her back if she’s truely sorry and has appologised to you, but wetin dey vex me pass be say, she’s trying to put the fault at your doorstep and is now using her friend to play around with your head (that is if you’ve got one). Am sure if they push their luck a little further, they’ll get you to apologies to her for dumping you. Ppsseeww, rubbish.
The second worst thing you are doing is that the friend is too much involved in the relationship. Me thinks a r/ship is a two way thing but yours is a triangle and it NEVER works that way.

guy f, ing MAN up n move ,stop acting like a stoopid lovestruck dumbo!!!!