XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

Emmy713:
Good evening fellow nairalanders please help a brother
and ignore my typo errors.

I have this girl whom I have dated for 2years then in my finals and she was in her final year too.
The truth is this, she is a good example of a woman every man wish to have as wife,very loving ,caring, meticulous in her spending,undemanding and I reciprocate the same gesture too which makes the relationship run smoothly for 2years without having any issue unresolved within 24hours(ofcourse we are humans we are bound to make mistakes).

But my problem is this she is 25years and wants to spend the rest of her life with me which am ain't ready right now because I have a standard I want to set before getting into marriage,the first time she brought up the marriage issue I told her am not ready for marriage even in 3years time then her mood changed and she started crying not that I can't marry her if I still have the rate of love I have for her if she will be free by then 3years.
Suitors are coming and it will be so selfish of me to hold her down since am not ready though we later resolved that she should give listening ear to any serious guy that comes her way but I doubt if she's doing that.

Now the confusion is this, should I break up with her (just for the love I have for her in order not to waste her time) or should I still play along giving her the room to find suitor before breaking up?.

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

carter009:
Not all guys please....

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

healthserve:

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I pity you. Go and ask men that are elderly and not married. You think seeing a loyal woman is easy. I pity you. Dump her and throw away perhaps your only card to marital bliss. Village people are affecting your brain abi

healthserve:



Not guys. Toxic people feel disoriented when treated right. They want drama and in its absence, they feel unloved.

lilzeel:


tell him oh. the mistake we make as men is thinking we've not made enough money yet or not financially stable to settle down but it far from it, once you two love each other genuinely and there's understanding to me every other thing will into place. am in his shoes right now but man anything it will cost me to wife her am ready to do it irrespective of my current financial stability, i believe we can make it together..

sorextee:
Its best u let her go so that someone more serious would come her way.

Just know that you don't know what u have till its gone.

healthserve:



That's the secret tears of many guys that are elderly and single. I remember talking to my guy who recently got a job in Chevron, he was thinking he was still young and said to me that even in ten years, he wasn't ready. I had to give him some brain reset. Told the hommie if he lost these queens we're seeing around us, he may regret for life. My guy park well. He's getting married next year. Some people just love to get lost first before they appreciate life, it's a wandering spirit, they want to get missing first, and then get found

lilzeel:
and when will you be ready sir? don't lose a good woman trying to look for money, you will get mobtand wont find a woman like her to enjoy the money. like the Bible says he finds a wife has found a good thing, why not commit to her and see what God will do for you. it ain't to find a loyal bae this days if you get or find one hold am tight and stop thinking am not ready when am ready a better one will come, no such thing as that so do the right thing..

lilzeel:

words bro, i jejely de follow my babe despite the pressure the babe still dey with me. i don't play with her matter, though am not financially stable now but bros am willing to cross any river, ocean or sea self to wife her i don learn my lesson bros..

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

Emmy713:

I value her so much that's why our relationship has been so firm but am just thinking if am not being greedy by holding her down since am not ready now.

healthserve:




Loyal babes now scarce pass anything. Not more than 1.5% of Nigerian ladies are marriable. Na to take the one wey serious, serious

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

healthserve:

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I pity you. Go and ask men that are elderly and not married. You think seeing a loyal woman is easy. I pity you. Dump her and throw away perhaps your only card to marital bliss. Village people are affecting your brain abi

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

XhosaNostra:


My apologies. It's just annoying when you see people taking things for granted. She sounds like a good person, yet the guy seems dismissive & unappreciative.

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

DonEd:
The truth is, you dont love her; If u do, you wont say u want to let her give listening ears to other men.

Our mistakes as men is counting stones and leaving gold.

Be careful, the worst nightmare of a man is to marry the wrong woman.

My two cents though.