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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by drmikeadams(m): 8:39am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: My argument be say why spend money to buy Benz and iPhone for girls . Them no get papa nigiving em my ddick is enough sacrifice cos it's either they re giving guys gono,syphilis or HIV 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:25am On Sep 02, 2019 |
drmikeadams:Exactly what I said in this thread of mine but it seems many boys are stupid and will never learn. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:48am On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Whether he feels right or not collecting it, he MUST collect it. [s]Though I think a gift shouldn't be retrieved after a misunderstanding or whatever. For you to give someone something, it means it's something you can let go off. Taking is back after an issue seems to me like trying to lick your wounds and getting back at the person.It's not just a gift. It a sacrifice of love that can only be easily made if you think there is something genuine between you and your significant other. Once you, like the op, realize that there was nothing genuine all along, the sacrifices were all for nothing and you were being used. It's therefore right to recoup the losses. What if he had given her like 2million to pay for something and the money was already exhausted, what would he have done? That's why relationships are risks. He wasn't under duress or forced to give her the gift.If he can collect the money in any other way and get away with it, he is justified. If he can't, he should count the painful loss and move on. This is what when society, the media and romance novels brainwash boys with the illusion called 'love'. The op must collect that phone back. If he can't, he must find a way to ruin it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 9:52am On Sep 02, 2019 |
AfroKnight:If the op no collect that phone, may he be unfortunate for dis life. My blood dey hot. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by TBIZZY(m): 10:16am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Collect it and give it to next girlfriend u gonna have. That phone is meant for the office of girlfriend. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 10:38am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: This thing is paining you more than the op infact Money might not be "chooking" his body the way it is doing you. Sha take it easy. If I am the girl, and I want to prove stubborn, I will ask that we go to court. That will solve the matter because it will be seen as a case of an aggrieved lover. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 11:25am On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Hahahahahaha . Typical woman. Reducing logical arguments to emotional ones of who is broke and frustrated and who is not. You attempted this in your earlier post but I ignored. Now, do you have any better? Is that the best you can do? Women. If I say that I don't expect much intellectually from your gender on issues like this, you will call me a misogynist. Typical woman. If I am the girl, and I want to prove stubborn, I will ask that we go to court. That will solve the matter because it will be seen as a case of an aggrieved lover.Easy to say. In this case, you won't see it coming. Beside, he has the receipt and could charge you with theft so what can you do after he has taken it back? Also, this is Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 1:34pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: In case you have not noticed, I don't have the time to start dissecting your comments and arguing back and forth. I only noticed how you seem to crying more than the bereaved. The op will still do what he wants. And if he collects the phone back, all well and good. But this Nl guys defence of "logical-emotional" is getting stale. Try something new and legit 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Not Childish! You gave materials, you are lucky it's refundable. The lady is the one at lost! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by missjo(f): 2:36pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:What if he claims you visited him and stole it. He still has the proof of payment, what becomes your defense? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Na so. But this Nl guys defence of "logical-emotional" is getting stale. Try something new and legitThis lacks sense. Defence of "logical-emotional"? What the hell does this mean? Arguments will always be logical, stupid or emotional. Nothing new can be tried. Sorry. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by vickyhow(m): 4:24pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
MrTrend: 4 Iphone? Tahhhh!!! Abeqee Collect Ur Iphone,shebi Itz Childish To Cheat On Sb?? |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by AhlexOfficial(m): 4:40pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
I don't know how this thing is paining me now, but i will be very sad sorry op will be very sad if the iPhone is not retrieved today, infact OP, IF you don't collect that phone today ,just die there, don't come back to this thread o, coz we go mob you. And when u finally collet am ,quote me
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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 8:22pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: It doesn't have to make sense to you as long as I know what I mean. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 10:02pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Yeah. Na so. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ololade894(m): 9:00pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by okoroemeka(m): 9:12pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
ominilongest:it is childish,don't spend what you cannot afford to lose and let go on a woman,you made the initial mistake,leave the phone and walk away,you have learnt your lesson the hard way |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by LINTUNE(m): 9:16pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
You can collect your iPhone back without asking her.Invite her to a restaurant or a hotel or anywhere aside your house.Buy her food and make chat with her too.Ask for her iPhone and tell her to unlock the password that you want to check something.Try and remove the password permanently or you can ask her to show you that you want to know if she is loyal.Find a way to distract her and zoom off.make she scream ole ole,them go come lunch u thinking say u be thief,lol, sometimes it's good to think properly before saying somethings. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
Op I dey your back, go collect that phone sell am, give your mama the money |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by seanwilliam(m): 9:46am On Jul 01, 2022 |
okoroemeka:excuse me sir , it’s not childish! Sometimes you do things you’re not comfortable with for your loved ones and all they need to do in return is to give you loyalty/ appreciation/respect ! So if I buy a house for a woman in lekki, someone I claimed to love, and I discover she’s messing around , I’ll just over look it and leave the house for her Abi? Well u can. But I can’t .. I am not a simp. Normally , if not that women are generally unappreciative, there’s nothing bad in sacrificing your comfort/money for someone u love.. @ ominilongest, if your name is on the phone’s receipt, You can do it in a public place .. Just pretend as if everything is ok, tell her you trust her that you were just scared . Show her loving you for a week straight .. Invite her over tell her you want to send things from her phone ( normally she will even feel relaxed since you no talk the matter again , whine her till she unlocks it,) reset the phone , remove the sim and give it to her ( that’s if no be u get the sim self).. But if your name is not on the receipt, invite her to your house, whine her till she unlocks it, comot the sim, tell her to meet you outside, lock your door, enter your car/bike, and leave her on standing . These girls don’t worth the sacrifice no matter how they pretend.. Before I’ll give woman something , it will be something I’ll give an average man outside.. infact , she will work for it., the only woman I can give almost anything is my mother, and that’s because she contributed to my hustle, atleast I can make reference to 10 instances she came through for me.. Finally , op, you should follow the bolded, in addition, expect nothing short of disappointment and betrayal from women. |
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