Good morning Is it possible for your wife not to be your sexual soulmate? I know of love and emotional soulmate. But what of sex ? I have never cheated in my life in my 6 years marriage but I cheated in July and I have been having an affair. I feel at home with my girl, I can go 3 rounds with her. No emotional feeling but our sex is cool and a blessing to my well being. I feel I will live longer with this sex if I continue. But my wife I don't know. I do love my wife but the sex is boring. Very boring. She makes it look somehow. Her leg is hairy, she refuse to shave, she is not aware of some oils and co, the style is somehow. I can't carry my wife during sex. I have found my sexual soulmate and I thank God. I still love my wife because of children and good times but there is something like sexual soulmate out there. Find her.

I keep learning new things every day..

drezzyx:
Good morning Is it possible for your wife not to be your
sexual soulmate? I know of love and emotional
soulmate. But what of sex ?
I have never cheated in my life in my 6 years marriage
but I cheated in July and I have been having an affair.
I feel at home with my girl, I can go 3 rounds with her.
No emotional feeling but our sex is cool and a blessing
to my well being.
I feel I will live longer with this sex if I continue. But my
wife I don't know. I do love my wife but the sex is
boring. Very boring. She makes it look somehow.
Her leg is hairy, she refuse to shave, she is not aware of
some oils and co, the style is somehow. I can't carry my
wife during sex.
I have found my sexual soulmate and I thank God. I still
love my wife because of children and good times but
there is something like sexual soulmate out there. Find
her.

Oloshi

This kind are the problems of humanity

Exactly, that's why we keep telling Men, "Don't allow your wife or girlfriend stop you from finding the Love of your life". She could be somewhere.

I understand the man's travail.
A man can be everything to a woman.
But a woman can't be everything to a man.

Some are for sexual satisfaction,
Some for company,
Some for raising kids,
Some fo bringing out the best in you.
Some for emotional support,
Some as an escape.

That's why all men who know their onion are polygamous in nature.

Seriously marriage is scary when you marry they wrong person....

Davash222:
Exactly, that's why we keep telling Men, "Don't allow your wife or girlfriend stop you from finding the Love of your life". She could be somewhere.

The man said sexual soulmate. Not love

Blackivy29:
The man said sexual soulmate. Not love

What could be so Lovely than sexual soulmate??

Irresponsible advice.


why not say, "guys get married to the woman you feel emotionally attached to and who appeals to you sexually" what this means is that we need several partners to fufill our various needs. Thats not what marriage is about

Davash222:

What could be so Lovely than sexual soulmate??

How about emotional/sexual soulmate.

It wont be so lovely while signing the divorce papers. It would be less so when your wife gets custody of the kids who would forever remember their dad as a cheat.

hmmm.....for me D's is a total BS .....what i no is wen u meet a new lady everything seems new and if she doing wat ur ex or wife wasn't doing u will tend to think u found d one but it just a matter of time u will also get tired or lose interest at some point again with d new one.
No Matter how gud she can be on bed d end result is u cumming and with ur wife u can achieve dat..
U just want to cheat... trying to tie ur reason for having a side chick to her not giving u sex d way u want it make no sense....are u giving her way she also want it??

bruv stop whatever you doing ......dere no sense in it cos I can assure u one thing in few month time U WILL GET TIRED of dat Pu**y and u want another new experience with another woman....D's circle u getting into is endless .....u will regret at d end.

@op why didn't you test run her virgimus before marrying her, .......don't cheat on her because of this simple stuff, teach her your styles and positions you really want, talk to her about it and get some VIDEOS of sex position for two you to watch.

If you carry disease come house, you will surely pay for it .......

Smh! Stop justifying your poor choice and discontent with the gloss of rationality.

VIRGINlabia:
@op why didn't you test run her virgimus before marrying her, .......don't cheat on her because of this simple stuff, teach her your styles and positions you really want, talk to her about it and get some VIDEOS of sex position for two you to watch.

If you carry disease come house, you will surely pay for it .......

Don't refer to me itz someone else story.. not me abeg o.

Pls always use condom anytime u want to meet your wife so you don't destroy your home with HIV. I know devil is impressed but don't let the devil go beyond that.

NwaAmaikpe:




I understand the man's travail.
A man can be everything to a woman.
But a woman can't be everything to a man.

Some are for sexual satisfaction,
Some for company,
Some for raising kids,
Some fo bringing out the best in you.
Some for emotional support,
Some as an escape.

That's why all men who know their onion are polygamous in nature.

No wonder u are always referenced. I think u have a mature mind. You actually hit d nail

nothing wey person no go hear/see for this world..chai see yarns

NwaAmaikpe:




I understand the man's travail.
A man can be everything to a woman.
But a woman can't be everything to a man.

Some are for sexual satisfaction,
Some for company,
Some for raising kids,
Some fo bringing out the best in you.
Some for emotional support,
Some as an escape.

That's why all men who know their onion are polygamous in nature.

It's very possible to find all of those things in a woman anyway

iPrevail:
This is absolute bullsh*t! You didn't realize all these during dating and courtship?
A lot of people are just devilish.. Taking pleasure in deliberately causing others emotional pain.

lol what if the gal said. No intimacy is allowed during dating and courtship, only until marriage, but u do love her, so u married her with the believe it's gonna be fine sexualwise only for u to get married and learn that she is completely sexual uninteresting. Imagine, he said she can't shave, is it that kind of gal that will allow u do some sexual things like sucking head and the rest? Like I always tell ppl, marriage is not just about love, alot of things are way more involved to have a happy married life, and u need someone whos crazy and gentleness meets URS.


That doesn't mean this man is anyway serious, u knew u wanted to marry her, did u try to know all this side of her b4 marriage? U can't say u never noticed these things about her during dating

Yeah, am afraid thats true

carter009:
Seriously marriage is scary when you marry they wrong person....

go for virgin with total submission to your will, you will enjoy marriage

Lol, really thinking about it.

fcdgrand:
go for virgin with total submission to your will, you will enjoy marriage