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Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by hazard1759(m): 3:53pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Be strong brother... I'm 28yrs old n the only child of my parents.My dad is late.I graduated and served in 2015/16 and I got married in 2017.I have a son. I gave u my background so ull understand the pressure that comes with being unemployed and having a family of your own to feed.There were times I was so sad and depressed that I had to turn to bet9ja for my fortune to change.I virtually spent my whole day in that God forsaken place,shouting my heart out,playing virtual. To cut the long story short,I sat down and cried,wiped my tears... I asked myself if this is how I'll like my life to continue and behold God dropped a thought in my head.I looked around my immediate community and I discovered almost everybody had a cable TV and the closest place they could go to for subscription, they had to spend #300.Then i felt the need to start Agent banking.. I made withdrawals, deposits and subscription for people. To God be the glory,I make more than a 100k a month, I have a staff.The funniest part is i no longer job hunt. Look around your community, access the needs of your community, there's a gold mine waiting for u to explore. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Martinez39(m): 3:56pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
hazard1759:This is a sound advice. Good that you were able to pull through. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nooneonline(m): 3:57pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
DonBenny77: He should trek to the city abi? Or when e enter city with nothing na u go feed and house am till e get work come dey stable. Wehdon sir |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by izzou(m): 3:58pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Ohh, this thread? I was there naa. He said I had a low IQ As for the bolded, LMAO |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:00pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
izzou:So basically everybody get low IQ. All is well. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by izzou(m): 4:06pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
MariaLavina: I usually avoid threads of men bashing women, and women bashing men But I never knew that moniker till that day. So I was just trying to discuss with him, thinking he had facts to prove what he said(Afterall, I know there are bad moms, but I would need proof before I use the phrase "Most Mothers", or "Some mothers" ) Opari oh That was how I found out that I had a very low IQ.... I'm working on my IQ now sha. Before December, I should be able to engage that moniker in meaningful discussions |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by hazard1759(m): 4:06pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Martinez39:Amen and thanks my brother... I God can pull me out,he'll pull through too.Its just a phase 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:07pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
topsquino: This is a nice comment sir, please sir I'm just currently doing my NYSC sir, and I'm interested in this PROOF READING skill but o don't know how to start please can you be of help |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
topsquino: This is the best advice on this thread. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by emmaodet: 4:14pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Martinez39: Lol. Some would have opted for the exit ..... Suicide |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:15pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
nonstan:Are you into coding sir? please I also need mentor on this |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
izzou:Similar thing happened that day, I hardly take guys versus ladies' clash threads seriously, I joke on them a lot but then I noticed him and his ilks started taking my not giving a hoot reactions for not being able to debate logically. I've lost the count of times these guys claim Nl ladies cant argue intelligently. So this very day, after going through the thread, observed his inability to go beyond his original post, like seriously dude couldn't defend his write up. I decided to engage him, wetin I see? Nothing! Bros vanished . I called, called, no response even called him friends mba na so so voicemail my mentions entered. Tired , I gave up and left. I wasn't online for a day, when I came back I saw mentions of bros beating chest of how he ignored because I get LOW IQ, even his half brain pals cheering him up. I just laughed and ignored all. I no dey mood again, no be Nl ? where people claim maturity way no dey? E don tey.Poco's post made me realize a lot. Na small child dey worry the pikin. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Omihanifa: 4:19pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
1 Peter 5:7 casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by pocohantas(f): 4:19pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Haahaha, which thread? Very typical of him though, he also imposes gender on some male Nlders when they do not agree with him. He would say "I know when a woman types, you are a woman". He mentions me regularly with the usual "slut" tag, I just ignore him. You should do that too, it sends him into a frenzy. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:21pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Chosen1984:You just validated what I have been saying lol.. Yes my life is the way it is because of me and not Jesus. It was me that worked my ass off to be where I am today not Jesus. Your creator gave you a brain for a reason, what else do you want it to do for you? Pamper you and spoon feed you like a baby ? Oga, wake up and smell the coffee. Bring yourself into the real world. Your life isn't any different or special despite the fact you follow Jesus so pls stop with all the accept Jesus rhetoric I hear it a lot from people like you. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:23pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Omihanifa:Is that supposed to solve his problem? Religion should be kept away from Africans, jeez! |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Toyosimuyiwa: Sir can I forward my WhatsApp no. too, I also in need of job.Thanks |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Martinez39(m): 4:26pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
emmaodet:True. It takes only the tough to pull through. Believe me, it's not a funny experience when reality gives them RKO, piledriver or chokeslam. Even you sef understand say e no easy but suicide is not the answer. Suicide doesn't solve the problems plaguing the country. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by izzou(m): 4:29pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
MariaLavina: No kill with me laugh Abeg...
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Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:30pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Leonbonapart: Easy, Bro. I have a business and a job. I wouldn't say I earn mad sums every month. I have a girlfriend (as a broken guy, lol). This girl brings in astounding sales revenue as much as 150,000 per month. I do a female-targeted business; she knows girls. Should I cut her off? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by emmaodet: 4:33pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Martinez39: Lol @ RKO, piledriver or chokeslam. Seems you watch wrestling alot, my favourite is The Rock - Rock's bottom and people's elbow. It is well |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Martinez39(m): 4:34pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
iamadonis2:If she is providing for you from the #15000/month, then she is helpful to you. Assuming she doesn't bring anything to the table. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo go pray foundational prayers in any MFM deliverance program. And give your life to Jesus Christ come back and call me pastor. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
pocohantas:Lol his craze no be for here then. I will do that. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by anigbajumo(m): 4:37pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
UcanTrustme: Boss pls don't advise him wrongly. Let him set his path clearly for himself with good vision. Average Nigeria girls are selfish, greedy egoistic and self centered.To invest in a girlfriend as struggling youth is like throwing money inside red sea.Advice him how to improve his life first b4 thinking of girlfriend, an talking from experience sir. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nobody: 4:38pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
izzou:Lol, abeg lemme read op's thread and give attention to better people. Make we use our LOW IQ reason better matter. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Martinez39(m): 4:38pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
emmaodet:That was back in the days on MITV. I enjoyed wrestling when I thought it was real and undertaker was really serving satan. Now I know it's just acting. Beside, WWE fan base has dropped. The piledriver I was referring to is the undertaker's own. He will turn you upside down and slam your head on the floor. It's worse when you receive such from reality. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by ochibuogwu5: 4:41pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:Get connected to Jesus Christ Crucified, Go to YouTube, listen to the message *Not I But Christ* by Gbile Akanni, they are 4-videos. Once Christ Jesus enters into your life, then you will have *a genuine life* |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by webngnews: 4:42pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Keep hope alive and keep fighting |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by goldenboyofpsy(m): 4:42pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
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Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by happydays1(m): 4:45pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
iRyan: My brother the message of God saving us from poverty is real: if you are a Christian and still leaving in poverty pls check yourself why. or try my style which I'm going to relay here: my own poverty started from when I was in university yr1, I then decided let me try this God everyone is talking about.I went up d flyover in d schools hostel, knelt down and surrender my life to God. I told God I'm urs now, but u see my condition - poverty, I told God after 2 weeks if nothing changes I'll return back to my former life, that it'll b clear to me he doesn't exist. In my mind I got a reply from him accepting my terms. As if I and God signed an agreement, I stated clearly what I wanted, 1) I wanted God to provide money cos I as always lacking, 2) I wanted him to change my hostel cos I was living in an abandoned hostel, meant for renovation, it was smelling and full of disease. My brother before d 2wks my friend visited me from off campus and told me to come stay with him, b4 u know am, my mums business started booming I started getting regular money at schools. Guy b4 u know it I became a big boy at school back-slided and started having gf, I bone God that solved my problem, and wanted to enjoy campus, drinking, smoking. B4 u know it, my mum lost her business and poverty started again from well furnished off camp I return to hostel. To cut d long story short, I later return back to Christ. I own my own business now, right in my front I see so many business closing down because d economy is not smiling, but it can't happen to mine cos I'm different. I just have to pray.my advice to young Christians, not to go to any pastor for prayer, the job of a pastor is to lead u to Christ and not to take the position of Christ, talk to God. Read Mathew 6 vs 1 to end. Obey evey word of Christ there and live in prosperity. Good people won't go to heaven and bad people won't go to hell, believers will go to heaven and unbelievers hell. Trust God as if ur life depend on him. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Asour: 4:45pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
[quote author=Francisayo post=82071506][/quote] One such is the IPAN (Institute of Public analysts of Nigeria) See: www.ipan.gov.ng/registradeskinner.php I don't know much about them other than they apply scientific skills/methods to assess consumer products. |
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