I am in my late 40 years , Yoruba by tribe, a graduate,God fearing,,Christian, and a single father of a daughter, legally divorced, my wife left after I lost my job years ago, since then I have been struggling to make both end meet.
Please I need a mature lady for a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Please what's app or sms me on +2348036074574

Too much information

Remove why your wife left

Struggle


Focus on the primary objective

kunleweb:
Too much information

Remove why your wife left

Struggle


Focus on the primary objective

no it is better like that. any lady that would love to be with him, already knows what is on board. Both of them can work things out and build from there, if she is interested. success to u OP

Samyj247:
no it is better like that. any lady that would love to be with him, already knows what is on board. Both of them can work things out and build from there, if she is interested. success to u OP

No. I disagree. It puts him at a disadvantage and would chase away good ladies who would see him as a liability first before knowing his true worth and potential. He should come just as he is but not negative

kunleweb:



No. I disagree. It puts him at a disadvantage and would chase away good ladies who would see him as a liability first before knowing his true worth and potential. He should come just as he is but not negative

then when she comes and discovers all that, she would run away just like the first wife who ran away because he lost his job. The truth is that, most of this ladies doesn't really like their husband, but the money they get or comfort gotten from the man because of his financial status. Take that away and they will begin to cheat in marriage or walk away from the marriage. The way the OP did it is better cos it would filter away those kind of ladies from contacting him but only sincere and good ones that can stay with him and fight the struggle until things gets better. This OP can still become rich....a life can be transformed within days or month. OP once again success to you.

Samyj247:
then when she comes and discovers all that, she would run away just like the first wife who ran away because he lost his job. The truth is that, most of this ladies doesn't really like their husband, but the money they get or comfort gotten from the man because of is financial status. Take that away and they will begin to cheat in marriage or walk away from the marriage. The way the OP did it is better cos it would filter away those kind of ladies from contacting him but only sincere and good ones that can stay with him and fight the struggle until things gets better. This OP can still become rich....a life can be transformed within days or month. OP once again success to you.

Smh


Foundation of relationship is never a persons negatives, but selling point. You offer people reasons to stay,and as the bond and trust develops, you open gradually. Not spill negatives at the start that will push people away. No one wants a damaged good

kunleweb:



Smh


Foundation of relationship is never a persons negatives, but selling point. You offer people reasons to stay,and as the bond and trust develops, you open gradually. Not spill negatives at the start that will push people away. No one wants a damaged good

SMH for u instead. I am speaking from a philosophical and psychological point of view here...it is not a negative foundation... do u even know what a negative foundation means in marriage
see e.g of a negative foundation

-If he says he has a car and and working and doing fine...NEGATIVE

if he says he is totally single, no kids and never married.. NEGATIVE

my mind de tell me to yab u sef but I go just say good night.

THIS OP WOULD BE A GOOD HUSBAND... THIS I BELIEVE.... He is plain

Samyj247:
SMH for u instead. I am speaking from a philosophical and psychological point of view here...it is not a negative foundation... do u even know what a negative foundation means in marriage
see e.g of a negative foundation

-If he says he has a car and and working and doing fine...NEGATIVE

if he says he is totally single, no kids and never married.. NEGATIVE

my mind de tell me to yab u sef but I go just say good night.

THIS OP WOULD BE A GOOD HUSBAND... THIS I BELIEVE.... He is plain

Smh for you. That's why you're single


Women look at benefits. When trying to catch a prey, you watch its characteristics and not think like yourself. To catch a woman, a man must think like a woman thinks. Women think of Gain's and try as much to run from liability



Get it straight. I'm done

There's nothing wrong with what the OP wrote. It's honest.

kunleweb:
Too much information

Remove why your wife left

Struggle


Focus on the primary objective

Olohun ...u both made appoint .

kunleweb:




Smh for you. That's why you're single


Women look at benefits. When trying to catch a prey, you watch its characteristics and not think like yourself. To catch a woman, a man must think like a woman thinks. Women think of Gian's and try as much to run from liability



Get it straight. I'm done

Let me just dive in this convo tho I wasn't mentioned. You refer to a woman as prey really? Looking at benefits that's how most men got married to women that don't have a single atom of love for them. They keep treating the women as goods buying their love with money and as soon as the money goes the honey leaves.

I like the realness of the op.

Person dey hustle wife? Una kon dey argue

Lol....

Guys sha.....

I love u for been honest. let talk but am a single mum too got no relationship. But am an igbo lady

kunleweb:



Smh


Foundation of relationship is never a persons negatives, but selling point. You offer people reasons to stay,and as the bond and trust develops, you open gradually. Not spill negatives at the start that will push people away. No one wants a damaged good

Seems your brain is damaged

kunleweb:




Smh for you. That's why you're single


Women look at benefits. When trying to catch a prey, you watch its characteristics and not think like yourself. To catch a woman, a man must think like a woman thinks. Women think of Gian's and try as much to run from liability



Get it straight. I'm done

run away from liabilities? That's not true, if your wife does that doesn't mean all women do.

adedayoa2:
run away from liabilities? That's not true, if your wife does that doesn't mean all women do.

You're very stvoud you this smelly thing


Your parents failed to train a responsible mind that can communicate right abi?



You're very very stvpid, slut

itiswell1968196:
I am in my late 40 years , Yoruba by tribe, a graduate,God fearing,,Christian, and a single father of a daughter, legally divorced, my wife left after I lost my job years ago, since then I have been struggling to make both end meet.
Please I need a mature lady for a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Please what's app or sms me on +2348036074574

Still struggling to make ends meet and already have a daughter?
Your chances of getting a single lady is slim.

itiswell1968196:
I am in my late 40 years , Yoruba by tribe, a graduate,God fearing,,Christian, and a single father of a daughter, legally divorced, my wife left after I lost my job years ago, since then I have been struggling to make both end meet.
Please I need a mature lady for a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Please what's app or sms me on +2348036074574

vickiechychy:
I love u for been honest. let talk but am a single mum too got no relationship. But am an igbo lady

Seems they found eachother

End of Discussion

kunleweb:



You're very stvoud you this smelly thing


Your parents failed to train a responsible mind that can communicate right abi?



You're very very stvpid, slut

no wander you dey meet girls wey dey run away from responsibilities. Na your kind of person

Notification of baggage will drive women away... whether a good or bad woman. No woman goes around looking for a man with baggage to be with.

The moment you are already talking about how and why your wife left you and how you are struggling to make ends meet, that is already forming a perception or idea about you in the person's mind.

It's best to give general and basic information and let the person get to know you without the tags you already added to yourself.

ImaIma1:
Notification of baggage will drive women away... whether a good or bad woman. No woman goes around looking for a man with baggage to be with.

The moment you are already talking about how and why your wife left you and how you are struggling to make ends meet, that is already forming a perception or idea about you in the person's mind.

It's best to give general and basic information and let the person get to know you without the tags you already added to yourself.

Thank you for seconding the thought sis.

How is bobo?

Hope you have a job and steady money now?

u see why ladies of nw adays fall victim...someone said the truth about himself some are saying it's not good...women..na lie una like...that's y I don't pity some ladies dieing out of bad marriage...some ladies are worst to the extent that if the man has only foam in his room they are not ready to stay..but follow a guy who borrowed the keys to a friend's well furnished two bedroom flat...when yawa don has and eye open...they end up where they ought to have started from(a room with one bed on the floor with no capet not to talk of rug)...some of them will even turn u down if u just wear Dunlop to just say hi to them..
mcheew

UyaiIncomparabl:
Hope you have a job and steady money now?

so you can lick the living daylight out of him ? If you are still searching for a man that fit your description, I am available, my only condition is that you'd be wife #2.

I am not based in the USA or Canada too but I can get you to n fro anytime you desire. Let your parent know you found a man n let me know whenever you are free we can meet up at MegaChicken at Ajah any weekend even this 1.

abiolamitodun:
u see why ladies of nw adays fall victim...someone said the truth about himself some are saying it's not good...women..na lie una like...that's y I don't pity some ladies dieing out of bad marriage...some ladies are worst to the extent that if the man has only foam in his room they are not ready to stay..but follow a guy who borrowed the keys to a friend's well furnished two bedroom flat...when yawa don has and eye open...they end up where they ought to have started from(a room with one bed on the floor with no capet not to talk of rug)...some of them will even turn u down if u just wear Dunlop to just say hi to them..
mcheew

am sure the op is lying about his condition to sieve out gold diggers. Women no dey try

ednut1:
am sure the op is lying about his condition to sieve out gold diggers. Women no dey try

if thats the case is better on his own side

lolzz

Toroso:
so you can lick the living daylight out of him ? If you are still searching for a man that fit your description, I am available, my only condition is that you'd be wife #2.

I am not based in the USA or Canada too but I can get you to n fro anytime you desire. Let your parent know you found a man n let me know whenever you are free we can meet up at MegaChicken at Ajah any weekend even this 1.

How dare you?

kunleweb:




Thank you for seconding the thought sis.

How is bobo?

He's good.

It's just common sense and a silent code of conduct not to give away too detailed information initially. You don't introduce yourself with

"Hi, my name is.....my wife left me because blah blah.... I am struggling to make ends meet..."

Such information comes later after getting to know the person.

ImaIma1:


He's good.

It's just common sense and a silent code of conduct not ro give away too detailed information initially. You don't introduce yourself with

"Hi, my name is.....my wife left me because blah blah.... I am struggling to make ends meet..."

Such information comes later after getting to know the person.

Unfortunately a few disagree even on this thread.


Anyways, that's why and how people end with people who don't deserve them. Caused by selling themselves beneath their real value



Happy Sunday