This is a real life situation but let me try to make it as if its just an imagination because of those who still have their both parents alive.

Let's assume you lost your dad when you were very young and your mum single handedly struggled to raised you and your siblings. She sent you all to school to be able to find good jobs. While in school you met someone you fell in love with and this love grew so much up until after school to the point the both of you are sort of inseparable.

Years passed and both of you now having a good means of livelihood decide its time to get married and you both have to see your parents. Then you take this person to your mum and in the process of asking questions to know about her background and family, your mum discovers that this persons dad was involved in the murder of your dad.

At this point your mum has closed her heart to be a part of anything to do with such family and that means she is not in support of your marriage. Though you are very heart broken to find out that you are so much in love with the child of a man who murdered your dad, you are so use to this person that you both can't let go of each other.

How will to be able to properly handle such a situation?

Best approach is to stop the imagination

I won't really bother about what the girl's father did (she didn't partake in it) but that my mum has said no to it then it's a NO for me also..

this one has watched a NOLLYWOOD Feem or bollywood or even hollywood.

pls dont bring it here....

THE FILM HAS ALREADY SOLVED THE PROBLEM... just tell us the title and have your peace

NickmanWorld:
This is a real life situation but let me try to make it as if its just an imagination because of those who still have their both parents alive.

Let's assume you lost your dad when you were very young and your mum single handedly struggled to raised you and your siblings. She sent you all to school to be able to find good jobs. While in school you met someone you fell in love with and this love grew so much up until after school to the point the both of you are sort of inseparable.

Years passed and both of you now having a good means of livelihood decide its time to get married and you both have to see your parents. Then you take this person to your mum and in the process of asking questions to know about her background and family, your mum discovers that this persons dad was involved in the murder of your dad.

At this point your mum has closed her heart to be a part of anything to do with such family and that means she is not in support of your marriage. Though you are very heart broken to find out that you are so much in love with the child of a man who murdered your dad, you are so use to this person that you both can't let go of each other.

How will to be able to properly handle such a situation?

In this scenario, did my mom tell me and my girl why she has closed her heart to us?