For those who are always fearful women would cheat.

Not saying they don't, but what you do think makes it more likely?

If a woman wants to collect from outside, she doesn’t have to look like Beyoncé. A woman offering sex will have 50 men in line waiting to get the opportunity, fat, slim, curvy, or shapeless. Men on the other hand must have something attached to them for just one woman to sleep with him.

In my opinion, anybody can cheat if their personal values allow them to.

Who you cheat with is the question.

olabrinks:

Men on the other hand must have something attached to them for just one woman to sleep with him.

They do though.

Not just money or a ring.


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Folks can insult people sha!

"She has a beer gut covered with stretch marks"

Darn.(although it's the truth).

https://board.truthaboutdeception.com/community-features/message-board/5-infidelity-and-cheating/21441-my-boyfriend-cheats-with-ugly-womenanyone-else.html

Too ugly to be loved:

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/young-people/too-ugly-to-be-loved

It's hard to say someone cheated on his girlfriend or friend with benefits because she was so ugly, when men still cheat on their beautiful significant others even in the absence of any ugliness.

I think a man who has a cheating nature would cheat regardless, same goes for women who want to cheat.

olabrinks:

If a woman wants to collect from outside, she doesn’t have to look like Beyoncé. A woman offering sex will have 50 men in line waiting to get the opportunity, fat, slim, curvy, or shapeless Men on the other hand must have something attached to them for just one woman to sleep with him.

Really?

Why then do women (mostly those that have lost their beauty and youth) pay men to have sex with them? Why do women in the west still fall for love scams?

They are looking for love not sex. That’s the difference.

KevinDein:

Really?

Why then do women (mostly those that have lost their beauty and youth) pay men to have sex with them? Why do women in the west still fall for love scams?

olabrinks:
They are looking for love not sex. That’s the difference.

No, there are women that pay men (gigolos) to have sex with them not necessarily love them. You find them in major cities (Lagos, Abuja) here in Nigeria.

Not strictly because they can’t find a man who won’t sleep with them for free, it’s simply a choice. Mind you, it’s a rare circumstance and most women who search will have many men offering to sleep with them with no qualms regardless of age, shape, colour or background. Finding love is the problem.

KevinDein:

No, there are women that pay men (gigolos) to have sex with them not necessarily love them. You find them in major cities (Lagos, Abuja) here in Nigeria.

olabrinks:
Not strictly because they can’t find a man who won’t sleep with them for free, it’s simply a choice. Mind you, it’s a rare circumstance and most women who search will have many men offering to sleep with them with no qualms regardless of age, shape, colour or background. Finding love is the problem.

Ah, so women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment (love). Pretty fair if you ask me.

BTW, women paying men for sex isn't as rare as you seem to think.

KevinDein:

No, there are women that pay men (gigolos) to have sex with them not necessarily love them. You find them in major cities (Lagos, Abuja) here in Nigeria.

They simply pay men for sex to have a good time, many based on recommendations btw. It has nothing to do with a good body.
Sadly, pleasuring a woman needs more time and expertise that many men don't have. Not all will go down on a woman and give her a good time. So they simply pay those that will do so for them, if they can afford it.
Once a better gigolo comes up, they will dump the old as his services are expired, and taste the new one.
They pay gigolos, just to catch fun. Same way many men pay gold diggers and prostitutes, just to catch fun...

Some women cheat because they don't see anything wrong with it.

Some women don't have a cheating nature but still find themselves cheating anyway.

So, what could be some reasons for this?

- Loneliness

- Poverty/hardship

- Carelessness with the opposite gender

-Revenge

-It's expected of them

-Boredom

-It seems exciting and delicious

-Temptation

-Weakness

-Love/infatuation

-Greed

-Self esteem, to feel desirable

-For or because of scamming

-Cultural reasons

etc etc.

These cheating threads seem to be turning into soft porn btw.

Don't be ignorant Op,konji is blind,love is not. Read what a wise man wrote below.
"Among the women none is ugly, among the men,none is old"
Only the wise will understand

olabrinks:

If a woman wants to collect from outside, she doesn’t have to look like Beyoncé. A woman offering sex will have 50 men in line waiting to get the opportunity, fat, slim, curvy, or shapeless. Men on the other hand must have something attached to them for just one woman to sleep with him.

Lies.
It's easier for a Married man to cheat, than a married woman. Men prefer younger girls who have never gone through child birth. But the Married women no longer look sexy, as a result of the changes their bodies go through, after child birth.

Okay keep deceiving yourself.

Almaiga:



Lies.
It's easier for a Married man to cheat, than a married woman. Men prefer younger girls who have never gone through child birth. But the Married women no longer look sexy, as a result of the changes their bodies go through, after child birth.

Almaiga:



Lies.
It's easier for a Married man to cheat, than a married woman. Men prefer younger girls who have never gone through child birth. But the Married women no longer look sexy, as a result of the changes their bodies go through, after child birth.

and all the hundreds of threads asking for dna tests are about what again?

Folks are confused, I know things take a while to sink in, I sometimes have the same problem myself.

nairalandposter:
For those who are always fearful women would cheat.

good body according to who ?

remember beauty is the eye of the beholder

nairalandposter:


and all the hundreds of threads asking for dna tests are about what again?

Folks are confused, I know things take a while to sink in, I have the same problem myself.

Those are the ladies that cheat on their men with the Gate man, Driver or the House Boy. While Oga is enjoying some young models, Slay Queens or Beauty Queens elsewhere.

ZIMDRILL:


good body according to who ?

remember beauty is the eye of the beholder

Not every person's body is aesthetically pleasing.

Beauty standards could be relative, true, but some bodies do look better than others, just that some people might not necessarily be moved by what another person considers beauty.

Almaiga:



Those are the ladies that cheat on their men with the Gate man, Driver or the House Boy. While Oga is enjoying some young models, Slay Queens or Beauty Queens elsewhere.

So in essence, you're saying the men have better cheating options than the women, is that your point?

nairalandposter:


Not every person's body is aesthetically pleasing.

Beauty standards could be relative, true, but some bodies do look better than others, just that some people might not necessarily be moved by what another person considers beauty.

yes but you are speaking your own reflection

which is different from the next person or me

in simple terms those we call ugly there are also married or being dated by someone

ZIMDRILL:


yes but you are speaking your own reflection

How so? Do you mean my own perception?

which is different from the next person or me

in simple terms those we call ugly there are also married or being dated by someone

My reason for the thread was someone elsewhere posited some married women are too bodily ugly to cheat. This of course did not go well with people since it's not a fact.

I think folks (especially males) just want some reassurance there are physical features that can prevent a woman cheating, eg ugliness or ugly body. Never mind the fact these "cheating investigators" also the ones identifying and classifying various types of cheating including emotional cheating where you cheat emotionally but not physically, mind cheating which is when you cheat inside your mind that they can see, unintentional cheating, ie cheating by mistake, intentional cheating, etc etc.

So either way, they make sure you fit into one or more of these categories regardless of the actual truth.

Therefore, saying ugly or unattractive body prevents cheating, is more of a fallacy because it's not a general thing but is based on the individual.

@ Topic

I would say “yes.” Let’s face it, the average Naija man does not exactly have high standards when it comes to the looks of a woman’s body. If they did, there wouldn’t be so many women beating faces while neglecting the way their body looks.

MMotimo:
@ Topic

I would say “yes.” Let’s face it, the average Naija man does not exactly have high standards when it comes to the looks of a woman’s body. If they did, there wouldn’t be so many women beating faces while neglecting the way their body looks.

I guess you mean painting faces.

Standards could be relative, but perhaps naija men go with functionality as opposed to aesthetics.

I've never heard any other nationality actually say "the thing no get meter", " e no go vanish after use, e go still dey there for reuse" - fairly common terminology with Nigerians, even if it's practiced elsewhere, they wouldn't describe it like that.