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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by promotervickky(m): 2:36pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

She is just upset of not fully feeling her matrimonial bed for long that's all
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Nwaohafia1: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
No two ways about it. Seek divorce immediately.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by yeyeboi(m): 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ok
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by nabegibeg: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Nothing Bran no go see for winterfell

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Emilokoiyawon: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
grin grin Chai...inside life. grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by AmazingELixir: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
grin

Simple she should concentrate on producing children.

Marriage matter dis days tire person.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2019
kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick
. Finish. I wonder wetin again him wan hear.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by funmike83(f): 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2019
Hmm
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by meobizy(f): 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2019
Oya, start preparing for how you can gain legal custody of your two kids. The marriage is about to pack up. She has given you signs so start looking mentally into a future without her by your side.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by abc115: 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2019
She is cheating. Period
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by luminouz(m): 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

You are MÃD!! grin

the 'full of the holy spirit' part got me lmaoooooooooooo
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by orunmila144: 2:39pm On Sep 29, 2019
kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick
define a nice dick ? enquiring minds will like to know
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by tech18: 2:39pm On Sep 29, 2019
kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick
Babyna grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Mariangeles(f): 2:39pm On Sep 29, 2019
sacx:


See wetin Zeeworld don cause
grin grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Nobody: 2:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
File for divorce asap
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Edyice: 2:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick



Correct person grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by carzola(m): 2:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.
I feel like flogging u with preeq maybe u will have sense small..
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Edyice: 2:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
Madam has enter Street grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by sanmtiago(m): 2:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
It’s a normal thing. I’ve been away from my gf for just 7months and I don’t feel sexually attracted to her like before. Just like that saying;out of sight out of mind. So applies to sexual relationships.
But believe me when she sees you that sexual attraction go ignite again. There’s nothing to fret over. This things are just normal psychological myths. Ignore the ridiculous opinions of say she dey sleep with another man.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Tonysmith4sure(m): 2:41pm On Sep 29, 2019
Hehehhehe......old little dirty drops. The 'PROS' here knows that wen a lady gives you 'NO REASON' as an answer, she is definitely upto something. If you are dating her i would have advised you call it a quit but since this is marriage, FOR BETTER FOR WORSE so i will advise you change you tactics and learn new moves. Maybe she's been updated. Lol
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by orunmila144: 2:42pm On Sep 29, 2019
Logobenz:
I've never read an amazing piece of well compounded nonsense in my life.
Where did you study?
it is a probability. many people who live alone become accustomed to being alone and start enjoying only their own company and dont like sex anymore. they like the idea of sex but they cant be bothered by the stress and emotional engagement of it anymore. they prefer to masturbate by themself. it has happened to me before

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Daviestunech(m): 2:42pm On Sep 29, 2019
grin grin cheesy



See comments I can hardly bring my family issues come to NAIRALAND


Modifiy- op those pple commenting that ur wife is getting anoda joyful gbola outside are below 20yrs nor have wat it's take to Carter for a family...

In my opinion just talk to your wife ND find necessary means to spicy up u guys sex affairs..all the best bro

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Judybash93(m): 2:43pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Nwaohafia1: 2:43pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Fallacy. That woman is either having a good d*ck from a man or having a sweet pu*sy suck from a lesbian.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Emaprince: 2:43pm On Sep 29, 2019
sisisioge:
Hmmm...its been a while, sometimes the body forgets. Don't rush her...just court her all over again. Those kisses, those tracing the spine with kisses, those eyes staring, the cuddling, the gifting, the tripping, the smoscching...hmmm ... These will jog her memory and she would be a fountain for you again. Happy seexxing o grin

Welcome back. Na wa for you o...a whole 1 year!
Garbage. Only a foolish and naive man will believe this crap

See your mouth. As if women don't like sex or able to live without it.

Tell the truth as it is... The woman have found another man, hence the sudden warning of no sexual attraction towards the man.

This OP is a foolish man sha. Do you need anybody to tell you whats been going on behind you...even the woman is giving you a clue, yet you chose to be foolish.

She knows he is foolish and easily manipulated, hence the boldness in making such unbelieveable statement.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by manontree: 2:43pm On Sep 29, 2019
The simple truth?

She is now sexually glued to someone else

The reality is if a woman can stay away from her boyfriend and husband for a year and not cheat, she would never cheat again for life..I realised this during NYSC

How can your own wife tell you this. Is it that you are a weakling or what. She really is bold. She has attacked your core and for me that marriage is determined

Nonsensical

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by oluscofield(m): 2:44pm On Sep 29, 2019
her puna might have been sealed up for lack of sex..... or she has reached menopause .... mumu guy...

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by josite: 2:47pm On Sep 29, 2019
you are blessed to have an Hot wife now turned honest wifee telling you the truth.

after all you didnt marry her a virgin
asssume the wort and work on reconnection.it wasnt her fault u werent there when she needed sex.
didnt u have sex while away and wpont u prefer her to be alive now that u are back or u prefer her dead by reason of sexual sstarvation?.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Theyoungmatron: 2:48pm On Sep 29, 2019
Emaprince:
Garbage. Only a foolish and naive man will believe this crap

See your mouth. As if women don't like sex or able to live without it.

Tell the truth as it is... The woman have found another man, hence the sudden warning of no sexual attraction towards the man.

This OP is a foolish man sha. Do you need anybody to tell you whats been going on behind you...even the woman is giving you a clue, yet you chose to be foolish.

She knows he is foolish and easily manipulated, hence the boldness in making such unbelieveable statement.
Are you a woman?
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 29, 2019
undecided
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by TemmyT002(m): 2:48pm On Sep 29, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

Abi o
It is very obvious

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by sofiscatedmoron: 2:49pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?
shes cheating no doubt,when a womans stop giving ot to u, she is giving it to another person,
wise up

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