This is quite a complicated issue. This young man has a nice paying job in Nigeria and is living just fine and he got married to a lady he knew back then in his old neighborhood.
This lady is from an average background and her family seemed nice but things have recently taken a different twist. The lady has never had the opportunity to travel abroad all her life so about a year after their marriage, she said she wanted to start a boutique business and she will love to get nice stock from Dubai. Being that the guy loves her a lot and wanted the best for her, he decided to give her an opportunity of going to Dubai herself to at least have an experience outside the country and also buy stock she will use to start her business.

To cut the story short, this lady left to Dubai two years ago and has refuse to come back. She has been giving her reasons as she can't stay in Nigeria again and except the husband can relocate to Dubai she is not coming back to Nigeria anytime soon. The guy and his family has met with the ladies family and want them to return the bride price so that it will be clear that the marriage is over but they have refused and still insist that the lady is still married to the guy and all the guy needs to do is move to Dubai which is a better place for both of them to be happy (according to her parents).

Now the guy is angry and has made up his mind to move on and remarry because he cannot leave his good paying job in Nigeria to go and start suffering for no reason in Dubai.

If he goes on to remarry in this sort of situation, can it be possible that the first marriage can become an issue later or is there a possible way to dissolve such marriage even without the presence of the lady?

Worst of all is that she was pregnant before she left and now has a child for him in Dubai which he has not seen physically.

He married a Snitch....

He should divorce her in absentia, via a church or forcefully collect his bride price with police power. Those things are not in-laws but milking contraptions.

It can be said that the lady absconded from her marriage, and the court would grant him divorce in absentia.

Which kind woman be this

This one pass me I no go lie. Kunle Afolayan, I know you are a Nairalander. Can we have this on screen

Tonto dike as lead actress.

@OP forget about bride price and move in far away, far from her reach and cut all forms of communication from her family. 5 years from now her eye go clear.

What kind of issue is this ?



The man was played.......how was she able to stay for such a long period of time in a strange country that she visited for the first time ?


Then she started making demand........she can't live in Nigeria anymore......the man should just take heart and move on......he was just a mean to an end

One chance wife, tie bae.

Endtime wife.

I go fit marry for this life so?
which kind wahala be this?

The man should go and marry another lady.

Lol. Wonders will never end.

These kinda stories send shivers down my spine as a single guy....Sometimes I wonder how our parents found fulfillment and happiness in their marriages as opposed to what we have now......one story after another...i jus tire

Marry at your Own Peril This Is Danger Warning Ahead.

How is she surviving in Dubai for the two years?

Damn i can't and can never allow my sister to travel to Dubai a week of business talkles of my wife traveling to Dubai... du watin? Most our women that travel to that country for business use to do ashawo work before coming back, like they will go with a month visa to buy goods with no extra money to buy goods sef but before that month runs out they will hustle good money to buy goods and come back.

All this Edo big girls that's what dey go do and come back just in an interval of a month or 2, if you have visited Dubai deira precisely all you here from our brothers there is Edo girls this Edo girls that.

MiztaYouneek:
This is quite a complicated issue. This young man has a nice paying job in Nigeria and is living just fine and he got married to a lady he knew back then in his old neighborhood.
This lady is from an average background and her family seemed nice but things have recently taken a different twist. The lady has never had the opportunity to travel abroad all her life so about a year after their marriage, she said she wanted to start a boutique business and she will love to get nice stock from Dubai. Being that the guy loves her a lot and wanted the best for her, he decided to give her an opportunity of going to Dubai herself to at least have an experience outside the country and also buy stock she will use to start her business.

To cut the story short, this lady left to Dubai two years ago and has refuse to come back. She has been giving her reasons as she can't stay in Nigeria again and except the husband can relocate to Dubai she is not coming back to Nigeria anytime soon. The guy and his family has met with the ladies family and want them to return the bride price so that it will be clear that the marriage is over but they have refused and still insist that the lady is still married to the guy and all the guy needs to do is move to Dubai which is a better place for both of them to be happy (according to her parents).

Now the guy is angry and has made up his mind to move on and remarry because he cannot leave his good paying job in Nigeria to go and start suffering for no reason in Dubai.

If he goes on to remarry in this sort of situation, can it be possible that the first marriage can become an issue later or is there a possible way to dissolve such marriage even without the presence of the lady?

Worst of all is that she was pregnant before she left and now has a child for him in Dubai which he has not seen physically.

Ah said it ,when person begin insult Naija girls nw them go talk say ah wicked.

Lemme not talk sha

Lemme not talk ooo

Just imagine the nonsense, she get mind to make demands

Mtcheeeew, this one no ready to marry na. Where babes dey find better man, you dey misbehave.
All the best o.

Wat she did was wrong anyway.....
Na all this people with abroad mentality that if they can by any means travel abroad..no coming back . .she japa....


But to the OP, since she wants to be in Dubai and with ur child in her care....it means some good too......you should try to see some good in it....
She resides there......your son is a citizen
Why don't u travel abroad to Dubai to meet them...even if u going to take two weeks off work if that's possible...
Pls don't take drastic action yet... unless the woman has become something else over there in dubai....
Pls try to think through if u can have some weeks off or may be u can get a leave of absence from work

Starz825:
Wat she did was wrong anyway.....
Na all this people with abroad mentality that if they can by any means travel abroad..no coming back . .she japa....


But to the OP, since she wants to be in Dubai and with ur child in her care....it means some good too......you should try to see some good in it....
She resides there......your son is a citizen
Why don't u travel abroad to Dubai to meet them...even if u going to take two weeks off work if that's possible...
Pls don't take drastic action yet... unless the woman has become something else over there in dubai....
Pls try to think through if u can have some weeks off or may be u can get a leave of absence from work

Bros, no be me ooo. Its someone I know sha.