pikadily:

I will try my best to answer your questions. Well the answer is NO.A woman is not suppose be sexually aware,a spinster is suppose to be a virgin you dont expect a virgin you just marry to start jumping on the bed and dictating styles.Even for women that are older they are not expected to be assertive when it comes to sex.A young girl is expected to be a virgin the day she is given out in marriage not some sex expert!

Are the men not supposed to marry as virgins too? Even after marriage, and having their virginities broken, ur wives are supposed to stil act like nothing happened? Like they don't know wat de word 'man' meant? Like it was a desecration of de land to know wat 'sex' means? Then i guess de man is not supposed to know too. . . . Or if not, then how does/did he get to know about it? Experience?. . . And where has all this pretense led us? Those dat have problems die in silence for fear of being branded 'loose'. If it were a SIN why get married. . .or why would de men marry more dan one lady?

Awwwwh chit Wislet,

You know you made some men mad now, I can feel it coming, But I agree with you chicka, if it a sin to be fukking before MARRIAGE, why married more than one woman which is also a sin to commit adultery,

I think he misunderstood the definition of FREAKY because a person can be freaky and still a virgin. A freaky person is a person who is open to do anything that is not CONSIDER normal like for example, MouthAction, or doing body shots at the club, ANYTHING that considered ABNORMAL BY SOCIETY DEFINITION,

Lol. Nobody wants 2 be abnormal. My reference is toward their mindset dat their ladies should be like 'objects' instead of people with feelings!