Do you have someone (or a few people) in your life that you are angry at for something they did to you? It could have been something your boss said last week, or your high school bully from decades ago. It's finally time to be a bigger person and forgive them for what they have done.
If you want to feel alive, you need to let go of that ugly weeds you planted a long time ago. No one wants to carry around so much hatred in their heart. It only sucks you dry of happiness, motivation and freedom. Truly let go of what happened, and forgive the person who has done wrong to you because that incident or person is not worth wasting your feelings on. It takes up so much of your energy to hold on to that pain. Move forward and don't let that thing from the past ruin the happiness of your present.

Dictate Your Own Life.

Never let another person dictate the terms for living your life. Not your parents. Not your spouse. Not your kids. Leading your life means you can accept the input of other people, but the final decision is yours. This means that career choice, relationships, beliefs and way of life are to be judged by you, not anyone else.
Do you feel obligated to do things you don’t want to do because you think it will make other people happy? Your first duty is to yourself. You can’t please everyone and will only let yourself down when you do this. Even if you are not sure what you want to do with your life? Don’t sit passively and let other people decide for you. Don’t let your moment of doubt become a weakness to be exploited by others.

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